Question Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:48 pm
Okay I like this boy named Peter who lives a town away, and we've been talking alot and he likes me too, the problem is, my sorta friend Marisa dated him and they didnt break up too long ago. I only see her in one class at school and we dont talk that much. but i still feel bad if we were to go out. I dont want her to hate me, especially since shes always saying all this bad stuff about him and she doesnt even know we talk so im in a really bad position.
( but also i dont feel as bad because my best friend was dating this boy name Kevin last year and Kevin broke up with my best friend and the very same day Kevin started Dating Marisa.. and my best friend is better friends with Marisa then I am)
so if Marisa could do it to my best friend.. then why should i feel bad ya know?
gRetCheNnnNn answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:40 am: I think you should just talk to her, and make sure it's okay with her if you went out with him. Ask her how she feels about it and that you don't want her to hate you. Like you asked on that, if Marisa did it to your best friend then you SHOULDN'T feel bad, and if she ends up hating you for dating him then don't say it in a mean way, but kind of tell her that she was being hypocrtical. I mean if she did it to someone, and got mad when it was done to her it's really true..so ask her about it!
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