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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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ok... im in a jam. i went to a party last summer and got roaring drunk. all i remember is having sex with a very cute boy and the condom breaking. lately i have been getting a little bigger, but havent been changing my diet. another strange thing is that i havent been having my period. i am clueless as to whats going on here. whats going on? can you give me advice?

Well you could be pregnant..but if it was during the summer and its just happening now, then it might be something else. But if its been happening since when you had sex..since the condom broke...theres a real big chance you might be pregnant! Buy a test (*buy a couple because they're not always right) and then if they turn up positive, go to the doctor!! And you might wanna go to the doctor even if they aren't positive...because they all might be wrong, or you have smthn else wrong with you. Or maybe nothings wrong, you know I heard just smelling food can make you fatter!! And maybe you just skipped your period (But probably not more then one...) So I'd buy some tests and then go see the doctor and get tested for STD's too!!
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i've been eating a lot of candy for like the past 3 days, pretty much all ive ate was candy and chocolates and soda, n the only food was pizza and a hot dog. me and my parents are like 99% sure that i have diabetes and ive heard that one of the things that will happen to you when you have diabetes is mouth pain and i always have mouth pain, i have to tak 3 aspirins every morning so it wont hurt in school. so we thought it was a cavitty and we went to the dentist and there was nothing on the x ray so now were like positive its diabetes. anyways, today my mouth was hurting really bad so i took 4 aspirins and i couldnt take the pain and that hasnt helped so i took one more and it still was hurting so i went to go brush my teeth and wen i spit out blood came out and i checked my gums to see if they were just bleeding from the toothbrush and they werent so i just spit and blood came out in this thick mucus (sorry if thats gross) so i was kind of worried then it still hurt so i took 2 more aspirins cause the pain was unbearable. so basically i have taken 7 asprins and i only weigh 100 pounds, im really scared but no ones home and im scared to go to a neighbor or call 911..and i really dont want to puke, do you think ive over dosed or anything please help

Yah I think you've overdosed. I'm not exactly sure how much a 100 pound person is supposed to take because I take liquid...but my sister only takes like 2...sOoOo I would call 911 and talk to them about it (*they are nice, they won't be mean to you) or maybe a friend. Or call your parents' cell phones if they have them with them. Or call your doctor. Or the pharmacy @ CVS or smthn...just anyone who knos what they're talking about!!!
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Alright there is this boy in our school(i've had questions before hez the one who got stung by a bee) Well I really really really like him! More reallys but I wouldn't get this posted if I said them all but anyways he is truly my best friend out of anybody he is my best friend! And all my friends like him but nobody knows i like him(except you guyz)! All my friends like him too which is a huge problem but I tell them I like this other boy which i kinda do so they won't know but this boy got a bee sting n nobody cared but me! NO BODY DID! And I was confused why they didn't if they like him! But anywayz I just don't know how to tell him like i'm not that kinda of girl who would ask a boy out or what his s/n is...now if i talk to him on the phone i would ask him what his s/n is...But how do I get him to ask me out or call my house?

Tell him you need help with your homework or smthn and you need him to call you so he can help you! Or be like "Do you have a screen name? Because I don't understand this homework and I really will need help tongiht" Or do 3 way with one of his friends..or just tell him you like him...seriously whats the worst that could happen? He doesn't like you back?? If hes really your friend it won't screw up your friendship and for some strange reason whenever people hear about other people liking them, they are like automatically attracted to them (*sometimes only for like a minute but sometimes not...)
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It is possible to be in love at the age of 13???
Rainbowcherrie

yah
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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?

Well for me having a laundry basket in my room helps because my problem is clothes EVERYWHERE! So it gives me somewhere to put my dirty ones untill I take them downstairs so they can be washed! And also remembering like if you put something on, don't just throw it on the floor if you don't want to wear it, because then it will be wrinkled! And who wants to wear clothes off the floor!! and if its just little stuff that you put everywhere..make a junk drawer or a basket in your closet or smthn hidden that you can put all the stuff that has no place to go! And also remember how you won't be able to find anything if everythings a mess!! I always loose the remotes to my TV n DVD and my cell phone in my room because I have a bunch of stuffed animals on my bed, so at night i throw them on the ground on top of stuff! Then if I want to find my stuff, I have to make my bed and plus its better to sleep on sheets that aren't all messed up
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hey its X Lissa X ..Okay ive felt like crap all day. you know that feeling you get in your stomach when you havent ate anything all day or your really really hungry? well ive had it all day, even now and ive ate stuff too but it still wont go away and it HURTS! idk what could be wrong. does anyone know? and how cani stop it cuz i wont be able to sleep.. thanks a lot.

You might have a lil bug or virus but try eating something w.protien in it..like eggs, meat, or if you're a vegitarian peanut butter or smthn...if it lasts a long time and you get dizzy, lightheaded, you're arms/legs (*or any body part) go numb, have blurred vision or start to shake eat smthn with sugar in it and go to the doctor. You might have hypoglycemia (*I have it) but you probably don't have it if you just have a hungry feeling...so eat smthn w.protien in it
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It's become a trend in my area for some very ignorant people to steal campain signs from public and private yards. Basically, all of the Kerry/Edwards signs have come up missing only to be found dumped with big W's spray painted on them. I am disgusted by this, as I'm sure any self respecting Bush supporter would be too. I am for Kerry, but I would never think of imposing on anyone's right to speak out for the candidate that they believe in.
It's gotten quite bad. I took a two minute walk down the road and saw three or four Kerry/Edwards signs. Four hours later they were all missing.

I want to express my views with a few signs in my yard, but I do not want them to be vandalized. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could go about doing this?

I think you should maybe write an opinion article to the newspaper...bc chances are if you put up signs...they will be vandalized. But you can like put them in really really deep into the ground or maybe hang them from the inside of your windows or super glue them to the mailbox or chain them to a tree....but if people are really against kerry...for your safety you might not wanna advertise it too much, you might get jumped or smthn (*probably not...but its just smthn to think about) You can maybe complain to the county about it too...I don't know what they can do, but I think you should talk to the newspaper and write an article in the opinion section about it!!
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Does anybody no a good hair straghtner?? i rate thanks

The best ones are probably CHI Turbo (*but they're $159.95-$179.95)but Conair is good too (*about $25) ...basically anything ceramic..Hot Tools (*about $50) works reallly good and so does Wigo Jadle(*about $139.95-$159.95) you can only get them @ Ulta I think band its made out of semi-percious stones and supposedly works good, heats up fast, doesn't damage hair!
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well i have this friend...he is like my best friend..but i kinda like him...i dont no what to do because i dont think he likes me like that and i no that he likes my best friend...waht do i do? im so confused!

Well it kinda depends...does your best friend like him? You should find out, because if she does like him back, you should try to hook them up!! It might be hard to do since you like him, but they're both your best friends, so its worth it to see them happy together. And of course if it doesn't work out then he'll have you!! Its really easy to get over a guy when he has a girlfriend, way easier then if hes single. Also you won't look like, jealous of her if you try to get them together, and he'll love you so much for hooking them up!! But that's only if she likes him back. She's your best friend so it probably won't be hard to find out if she likes him (*if you don't already know) but if she doesn't then I would tell him how you feel. Try to be like "____, I talked to ____ and she told me she doesn't feel the same way about you." And then he'll be all sad and you can be like "I was kinda jealous when I found out you like her..." and then go from there..if he just stares at you like he has no idea what you mean, just say "I like you." and just go w.the flow. But has he told you he likes her? Because if he hasn't then that won't work. If you just THINK he likes her, then straight up ask him "Do you like ___?" and he'll either be like yah or no. If he says yah..be like "I'm so jealous....because I like you" and if he says no be like "Well whatever girl you like...I'm jealous of her...because I like you" It sounds really hard to say but seriously what's the worst that can happen?? All girls get crushes on guys and all guys get crushes on girls...its not like...not normal. So don't worry about it and tell him it'll be worth it (*In the end everything is OK and if its not OK its not the end)
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I broke up with my boyfriend. We always used to go for walks together. The reason I broke up is because i wasn't happy, and didn't feel anything. Well he keep s asking if i can walk and i know he's stil crazy for me. I tell him no because I know that he'll try to hold my hand or iss me. What should I do?

I think you should go for a walk with him, but like talk to him about how you guys are just going to be friends and stuff. And if he trys to hold your hand or kiss you DON'T LET HIM and be like "We're just going to be friends, remember?" But you might wanna make sure he doesn't wanna go on a walk so his friends can jump you or smthn
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homecoming is on saturday i don't have a date and i don't want to go by myself and look like a loser will i look like a loser if i go by myself? cuz i want to go with my friends becuz i think its going to be fun but i don't want to look dumb (some of them have dates but not most of them) should i go? will i look like a loser?

Don't feel bad, LOTS of people don't have dates to homecoming-- I don't. You won't look like a loser, you should DEF. go bc it will be tons of fun w.your friends. And if you really really don't want to go w.out a date, ask a guy, don't wait for him to ask you! A couple ppl have been like "omgosh michelle you HAVE to go with a date" but...whatever..still go and gave fun
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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

Don't listen to what other people are saying...I guess Bi people probably have a preference on who they like MORE but if you like both, then you're def. bi
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Hey everybody! My best friend Brooke's mom died last year of ALL (actute lymphoblastic lukemia) she died on October 17th which would be this Saturday. On is the year anniversary of her mom's death and i wanted to do something special for Brooke to show her i care... any suggestions on something i could get her or ne thing i could say? i would really appreciate it!! and i rate every1!

Awww...you sound like a really great friend =)
Go to one of those places that delivers flowers and send a really pretty bouque to her and her family and some candy and a card (*if its too expensive ask your friends to chip in) and since you don't know how shes gonna feel (*if she'll want to talk about it or stay busy and not think about it or whatever) you can just tell like the day before "If you wanna talk or go out tomorow, just call and we can do whatever you want" or smthn and she'll probably want to go to her moms grave and spend time w.her family so I wouldn't plan anything out because she might feel obligated to go out w.you since you made plans and all instead of staying w.her family. So just let her know if she wants to go out to eat or shopping or just talk you'll be there for her
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Do you all think that you are responsible for what you dream about? Like, lets say for example, you don't cuss or something...Well, are you responsible for that kind of stuff?

I think you usually dream about stuff that you're thinking about. Like the other day my friend was wearing two different socks, and I was there when she put them on, and then when she changed shoes and we were talking about socks. So that night I had a dream i was sitting on a stool in the middle of my kitchen and socks were floating like eye-level with me. If you go to myjellybean.com they have a dream dictionary that you look up what you dreamed about and it tells you why you dreamed it. I don't know how accurate it is (*Like I dreamed about socks because I was thinking about them not because it "indicates your warmth and your flexibility of understanding")but once me and my friend were looking @ it and it said "You are controlled by your circumstances" and thats like sooo true for me so yah...it might be true and its a ton of fun to look @. But i don't think you're responsible for what you dream...your mind kinda goes crazy
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soo does anyone know what all the colors mean to sex bracelets? I'll rate

Found this one some website..there are probably a lot of different meanings for each one..

Black: sexual intercourse
Blue: blow job (alternate meaning: lap dance)
Green: cunnilingus (alternate meaning: outdoor sex, hug)
Clear: whatever you want (alternate meaning: hug)
Orange: kiss
Yellow: hug (alternate meaning: analingus)
Red: lap dance (alternate meaning: French kiss, oral sex)
Purple: anal sex (alternate meaning: holding hands, doggy style)
Silver: fisting
White: flash your tits (alternate meaning: gay kiss, French kiss)
Pink: flashing
Gold glitter: make out
Brown: toss my salad, i.e., analingus
Glow in the dark: using sex toys, e.g. vibrators, dildos, etc.

I have the yellow, white, and black ones but I don't wear them because of 'what they mean'...I actually just wanted the white ones because I was shopping with my friend and they matched the shirt I was wearing...but they all came in a package together
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I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!

signed, troubled

I guess I know how your friends feel...because I have a friend who liked a guy not even a year younger then her. Your friends probably think hes a little kid and hes in a different point in his life, hes not as mature and stuff like that. Being a year apart isn't a big deal, but you have to ask yourself if hes still acting immature and like a little kid or if hes up to your maturity level. If you're not looking for a serious relationship, just like..a little fling..then you probably have no reason to dump him. But if you really want to have a serious relationship you should just make sure he (*this sounds dumb but its true) knows what's going on. Like he knows that hes dedicated to you, and he can't act like a little kid. Since you don't see him a lot, make an extra effort to hang out w.him. After school, on the weekends, whenever. Go to the movies, mall, bowling, park, out to eat...whatever you feel like doing. His friends are probably being mean because they're jealous or they're immature (*and if his friends are, he probably is too) Wait a little while and just find out if your relationship is going the way you want it to, and if its not, break-up w.him (*don't wait to long tho!!) and explain to your friends that you really like him and you want them to stop teasing you and him about it (*and if they get really mad, they're not really your friends...because they should respect you enuff to stop)
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I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other?

Do you like him as more then friends? Because that usually happens when you like someone...but talk about things like classes you have together, animals, TV shows, your families & friends (*good stuff, not bad!!) movies, music, stuff you remeber from when you were little..just anything, like how funny you think it was when you were in 2nd grade, schools spent all that time & money to have dentists come in and tell you to brush your teeth, or how your best friend pranked your cell phone and you're trying to get her back...just anything you feel like and don't feel stupid if you say smthn dumb because no one remembers every word you say to them!!
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hey guys whats a good music download thing? besides winmx because it doesnt work for me! i get no results. does anyone know any good ones? will i get in trouble if i use kazaa? and doesn't kazaa give you loads of viruses? please help, thanks!

Napster is really good they have a TON of songs..its 99 cents for most downloads but if you don't want to use a creditcard or you don't have one or smthn then you can go to the music section in Target (*I know they have them) and buy a card and then you enter the code and you can download as many songs the card has (*like a $10.95 card has 11 downloads, $14.95 has 15) You can't get introuble so you won't have to worry about that
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saturday after the game i went to my friends house and her house was forked at like 10:30pm right so me and her had to stay up and watch out for the kids who did it and so her cuz came with us in her room and we were under the cover on the floor and i was by her cuz and we were holdin hands and all a sudden my hand was on his penis and all this crazy stuff wa happenin and she dont even kno about it but see thats the 2nd times ive cheated on my boyfriend with the same guy and i just dont kno what to do...what do i do? who do i tell if i do tell someone?? ..i still kinda like the guy i cheated with hes my EX..

It's so wrong to cheat on your boyfriend (*unless hes cheating on you first) so I'd either stop cheating on him, or break up w.him. If you were him would you want to make-out with you after you've sucked some other guys dick?? If you have one of those relationships where you're totally honest and stuff then you might wanna tell him, but that'd just screw stuff up. So like, if you think he'd just get mad @ you and break up w.you then you might not wanna tell him (*unless you want to break up w.him) but if he found out he'd be soooo so maaad! So thats hard. But if you're not going to tell him you should really stop cheating on him. If you break up with him, tell him about how you cheated on him and be like "You deserve better then me" or smthn so he might not be so upset (*but say it honestly...like if he couldn't get anyone better, def. don't say it) If you went out w.the guy you cheated on..it might be kinda weird. Like hes your ex, so that'd be weird, like whatever reason you guys broke up, you'd have to fix it. And does he like you back...or just like doing stuff with you? Don't waste your time going out w.him if thats all he wants. And if you guys WEREN'T going out when you did all that stuff, you're def. going to be doing a lot of stuff when you ARE going out. You just have to ask yourself why you like him. And you def. need to find out if he likes you as a girlfriend and I think theres no reason to be in a relationship for ONLY the physical stuff. If you want to tell someone, maybe tell a really really close friend that will take it to the grave and not tell anyone. You might also want to talk it over w.your ex & his cousin because he knows all about it anyways (*and of course your friend will eventually find out) and you need to make sure he doesn't tell anyone because he'll brag to his friends...then rumors will start going around and that will suck bad.
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14, M

I know this guy at school and we're kinda friends. the thing that bothers me is that he always tries to take what i have. In 7th grade he took my best-friend and made my best friend his. he did the same thing last year with another really close friend of mine. now he's trying to go out with my ex-girlfriend! am i over-reacting... or do i need to do something?

I don't think you're over-reacting. He should NOT want to go out w.your ex unless its OK w.you. You probably just need to tell him "I don't think its a good idea to go out w.my ex" If he makes a big deal out of it just say you don't want her to turn him against you because...she def. will. Like seriously no matter how nice she might seem, shes gonna have a grudge against you and she'll trash talk you and then he'll be like "omgosh he did that" and stuff and it'll ruin your friendship. Even if your just kinda friends explain it to him and if hes like "Oh don't worry" tell him if he goes out w.her...you don't know if you could be friends with him. Because its hard watching your friend go out w.your ex, it sucks =( and if he trys to steal anymore of your friends be like "____ used to be my best friend and now hes really close w.you. I wonder what happened" and he'll probably get the message that its his fault. Or if hes starting to become really good friends w.your friend try hanging out w.your friend a little more and be like "____ always turns my friends into his and it's really annoying, and I think hes trying to get you to be better friends with him then me" and then he'll realize it and not let the other guy take him away from being your friend =) And if nothing works tell the guy that you don't want him to turn your friends into his and you've lost friendships because of what he does and you'd appreciate it if he just found his own friends (*that might be a little hard to say but try to liek, work it into a conversation and it won't be so bad)
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