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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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advice

my best guy friend is leaving on wednesday to go to the philipines(where he's from) for five weeks. we went out last summer for like two months and i never got over him. i know he still cares about me and were the best of friends. everyone thinks he likes me and im pretty sure its true. ive tried to move on but i think theres always gunna be something there between us. anyways, we're going to hang out before he leaves. im not sure if it will be just us or with a group but im thinking of kissing him before he leaves because im going to miss him. i dont know if this is a good idea because i dont know how he'll take it. if i give him a hug and kiss after we hang out do you think he will get the wrong idea; like i wanna go out with him? i dont want him to think that cause i dont want to mess up the friendship. sorry its long and thanks if you read it!

Do it at the begining! Just lean in and do it. See what his reaction is and then be like "I've wanted to kiss you again for the longest time and I just had to do it before you leave" He's either going to be like "I don't like you like that" and you can have fun with him while you're hanging out and just forget it happened. He's probably going to think its sweet, though, and then the rest of the time you're hanging out you can kiss all you want!! If you wait till you're about to leave, then the whole time hes gone you're going to wonder what he was thinking and how he felt about the kiss.......so if you do it at the begining of your date or hang out or whatever then you can have time to talk about it and everything. Just be like, "I like kissing you, but I don't think we could date" if he says anything about dating. Just don't let it mess up your friendship. Dont let things get awkward and just HAVE FUN! you don't have anything to loose!! if hes truly your best guy friend, nothing can get between you
HoPe I HeLpEd!!*
Michelle

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okay..this is long so pleasee bear with me. i met this guy on may 19th..at a lockin and then we left in the mrning..soo may20th..then that night i got on the computer and started messaging him over myspace and i already had his number so i gave him mine and we started texting nonstop..then may21st..he asked me out, of course i said yes bc i liked him alot! he seemed so perfect at first and everything..then on friday..the 25th. he broke up with me and was like ilike you alot but well never be able to see eachother..and he lives 45 mintues away so, yeah, hes right.. well then that ngiht i was at my friends house and he texted me and was like will you lie for me im like about what hes like to this girl bc iwas talking to her while i was going out with u and shes mad that i didnt tell her i going out with u..he wanted me to say i never went out with him..but that i didnt do..bc he got himself in this mess i am not getting him out..anyways he went out with the girl then like a week later we were talking online and he apologized for basically cheating on me and everything and said he meant it..then that weekend he went to a festival with the girl and he did something stupid and she broke up with him..then that week we juss started talking again and he told me he knew it was a mistake when he broke up with m,e and he actually cried and he has never cried over a girl before..he asked for one more chance and i said okay..but if you blow it yuour done. i care tyhat he chjeated on me but he said he wont do it again..and yeah. im like watching him pretty well making sure he isnt talk to anyother girls..i talk to him friends and they say hes juss with me and there postivive and shit..is it bad that i dont trust him that well..im starting to trust him again its just hard..i dunno..? juss anything you can say about this please help cause im so confused..

I know how you feel!! My boyfriend cheated on me after 5 months, after 8 he was talking to another girl and broke up with me for her, and on what would have been our 9 month anniversary he called me and appologized for everything and called her and told her he cant talk to her anymore! I love him so i took him back but i majorly had trust issues. I always had to know where he was and everything...but now that time has passed I have realized that i CAN trust him. It's going to take time, i mean he hurt you and you don't want it to happen again. Just keep an eye on him and give it time. It might take like 2 months but as long as you're happy with him, stay with him. And if he DOES do someting bad to you, remember that you don't want to be with someone that keeps hurting you so much.
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Well me and my girlfriend have been going out two months on the 23 of this month and i'm trying to think of some good gifts that won't cost a fortune(i'm 13 she's 13, low budget)
I was thinkin of gettin her rose's but i'm not quite sure if i should get her anything else.
any suggestions? I'd apreciate it
Thanks

I'll have to go with everything else on this one, the roses are a great idea, and maybe a box of chocolates. I dont think you need to get her jewlery...especially since that can get really expensive. A teddy bear or a stuffed animal of her favorite animal would be really cute too. I personally think its real cute when a guy takes a girl to build-a-bear and they make a bear and then the girl keeps it..cuz its like their child. haha i know its a little cheesy but its so cute so you could consider doing that.
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13/f
okay well i always end up bumping into this guy and he is always looking at me and he never has the courage to talk to me my friends say that it is obvious that he likes me. does he like me! i really want to know. they say that he is super shy. and that i should go and talk to him. what do i do?

lOl girl trust me - no one on this site knows if he likes you or not. If hes shy and your not, go ahead and talk to him..theres nothing abnormal about a girl talking to a guy. You could just talk to him a couple times and then invite him to go somewhere with you and a group of your friends...that way it wont be like a "date" but while your at the movies you could just casually be like "sit by me" and then do cute flirty thigs and then at the end of the movie you could be like "we should do this again" If you're casual about it, it wont be a big deal if he doesnt like you, and if he DOES like you then he'll be really excited your taking the initiative to get to know him. Just look for signs, like if he smiles when he talks to you and looks into your eyes when you talk, that shows hes having a good time with you..and he might like you. Whatever happens, just remember that 13 is still young and in the next couple years you'll regret starting stressing over guys at 13. Theres so much boy drama to come in your life..keep things as simple as possible
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Hi everyone, this is the first time im trying this site, but my situation has gotten so serious, i really need some advice from outsiders. Im a 18 year old male.

Alright, the situation is that at our college we have this group of friends that we all hang out in. We are all a pretty close knit group, go to the movies together, lime at each others houses etc.. In this group there are a few relationships, one of which is Julia and Danny. They were in this constant on and off sort of thing for 3 years, he would break it off to give her space and they used to fight all the time. One time when it was off, me and Julia started talking alot, some flirting started and she eventually told me she liked me and i admitted i did to. I had liked her but was always afraid to admit it. Anyways, things took off from there and everything was great. She still didnt want to commit so soon after ending a 3 year relationship..which i understood..so we just dated.

But then we started to do "stuff". Not sex, but nearly evreything except sex. And I am not the type of person who just gets into a relationship to do stuff. I really want to be comitted..and even though we do evreything a commited couple do, knowing that we werent really together and she still thinks about gettin back together with him really pulls at my heart.

I have really falling in Love with Julia, I do these spontaneous things around her that in never knew i was capable of and she makes me feel complete. I know it is not Infatuation cause i have felt that before with another girl and this is far different. And btw, we have been out for two months constantly now, and we find it impossible to argue with each other.

The real twist in our relationship now, is that now he really wants her back, and he is saying all this mushy stuff like "he is changed person and wil treat her better". HE USED TO IGNORE HER FOR VIDEOGAMES! and didnt make alot of sacrifices for her. I would sacrifice anything for her. and i mean ANYTHING. So now she is between two minds wether to hold onto the past or wether to move on to something new. And she was kissing both of us at one point...now she has stopped kissing both of us till she makes her decision. Plz give ur comments on this situation, I want to be with her so badly it hurts...and give her some advice too, and i will relay it..anything is much appreciated

buy her flowers and tell her everything you just told us, how you would sacrafice anything for her and how you cant even picture your life without her. Dont like, campaign against this other guy but tell her you cant see him treating her the way she deserves to be treated no matter if he really did change or not and you cant stand to see her get hurt again. You dont want to annoy her about it, my advice would be to call her, set up a place to meet...dinner, a park, her house, your house, wherever, and tell her all of your feelings with out holding back. Let her know your not going to call her over and over or bug her about choosing you and you'll respect her decision. Personally, I cant see why she would choose this other guy over you. The only advice I have for her is to realize guys really dont change. and she cant change a guy no matter how hard she tries. This situation really sucks but remember in the end everything is ok, and if its not ok, its not the end.
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hi. im 16 and i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. im madly in love with him and i want it to be something really romantic i dont know what to do. please help

a picture frame with a cute pic of you two in it is always a good idea. getting him a cute outfit is a good idea too. i think it's romantic cuz your like picking out his clothes for him! some guys wear jewlery...so if he does then you could get him some of that...like nice things like a gold chain necklace or a diamond earring (if his ear is pierced ofcourse)
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Ok, my boyfriend is BI. I really like him and stuff like that. We haven't been dating long, and people are already making jokes about me, him, and his sexuality. I'm getting sick of it. And I need advise other than, ignore them. Because no offense, but it dosen't work. Thanks in advance. :]

when people make fun of you, put them in their place. Instead of ignoring it, listen to it, then spit it back at them. give them a snappy come back like if someones like "eww your boyfriend is bi" be like, "yeah he hooks up with YOUR boyfriend all the time" or just be like "I'm aware." or "I like him". people are so stupid sometimes, and dont forget that soon there will be something or someone else to gossip about and you wont be the couple to talk about anymore.
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ok..

so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..

SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not.

if he doesnt want to be with you, then dont wait for him. if he really likes you as much as he says he does, then he would want a relationship. to me, it sounds like he wants to "experiance" hooking up with other girls before he gets tied down to one. player. dont wait..find someone hotter and sweeter and more LOYAL and HONEST then him
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What do most people define as "hooking up"?

Thats whats great about the term...no one knows what it means! but i think what most people think it means...and what i mean when i say it..is pretty much "doing anything" with a guy/girl. It could be kissing or having sex or anywhere inbetween. It depends on how serious the person is when they're talking about it. Most high school kids dont mean sex when they say "hook up" because they're still young, but some do..but there really isnt a definition
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i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥

Been there, Done that. I'm an expert on this one.
1. If its just the way he dresses that makes you think hes gay, you still have a chance with him. A lot of STRAIGHT guys wear girl pants. It's not too big of a deal. Flirt with him and see if he flirts back. Look for signs, like does he have a lot of guy friends? If most of his friends are girls or other guys with questionable sexuality, he might be gay. but if he has a lot of guy friends who are definately straight, theres a good chance he is too. Talk to some of his friends and make something up like, "Didnt (your guy) date (a girl you know)?" and his friend will either be like, "no, hes gay" or "no, he didn't" and then you can be like, "oh well he must have dated a girl that looked like her because i swear i saw them at the movies" and see how they react.

2. If this guy actually ACTS gay, DO NOT waste your time. 6 months ago, i realllly liked this guy, he was so cute and sweet, but i thought he might be gay. Well one day he told me he liked me so obviously he wasn't gay and we started dating. Ohhh girl, let me tell you, it got annoying FAST. All the "cute, semi-gay" things he used to do were all the sudden REALLY gay and he didnt really act like a guy. I mean its one thing for a guy to like to shop...another thing for a guy to sit online for hours shopping off websites. Just trust me on this one - if he acts gay and its cute, it will NOT be cute for long. if you want to go for it..then just flirt with him big time and ask him to "hang out" so if hes gay, its not a "date". Say stuff like, "Orlando Bloom is so hott" and if hes like "yeah" then hes probably gay. if hes like "uhhh ok i guess" then hes probably not. but my advice is to NOT try to date him.
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i broke up wit my exgirl a couple months ago but i cant stand bein away from her i want her back i feel like i cant live wit out her wut should i do?

if you broke up with her...she was probably really upset. so unless she has a boyfriend/you have a girlfriend...i would appologize and be like "i'm so sorry if i hurt you in any way" and also tell her how you feel..tell her you miss her and you would really like another chance. i mean, whats worse..her possibly rejecting you...or never telling her how you feel and wondering what she would have said back. she might still like you too and totally go out with you again. and girls like it when guys tell them their feelings...a lot of times we have to assume things and we hate that
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what are some good couple songs

my everything by 98 degrees and this i swear by nick lachey..one of them is going to be my wedding song i'm just not sure which one yet..they are both so sweet!!
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i have this guy in our neighborhood who likes me. but the problem is he is shy around me... what should i do?

be really friendly around him! like if you're talking to him and hes just saying like "uh huh..yeah.." and stuff like that ask him questions that require more then a one word answer. hes just worried you don't like him back and he doesn't wanna look stupid. just act comfortable around him and once he sees you're not shy he'll start to be less shy. if you DO like him back then tell him! but if you don't you should tell him that too. or you could just be realy mean to him and ignore him. but i think it'd be easier for him if you just came out and told him how you feel about him and then see how it goes from there!
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last night we were online talking and i asked him who he was talking to, his ex gf carrie who goes to mentor and i dont even know her but i have heard about her and im like oh.... because i got extremely jealous and i never thought i would get jealous from him talkign to a girl and i dont even know why i did.... must have been because shes his ex and then hes like "she seems upset" and im like maybe she needs your makeup sex and i was being super gay about it and stuff and he stopped talking to me online and signed off to call her which made me feel bad....and.... then i signed off to go to bed cuz i felt upset and he called me and asked what was wrong and i said i didnt wanna talk about it and stuff and i went to bed but we still werent fighting and then today things were fine but i was still a little gay and just every little thing has annoyed me and i feel like talking to him im always being interrupted and i can never say what i have to say and everything i say is used against me and i feel bad for everything i say or do and i feel so frustrated and hurt and mad and sad all at the same time so we were on the phone and hes like "youre always selfish and i have never said anything" so i got super hurt and defensive and pissed so i was like "whatever im going bye" and he said bye and i hung up. and he just has a way of making me always feel bad. cuz hes like "sorry im a shitty bf" and i didnt say nething and hes like "thanks for telling me im not" and stupid crap like that. and hes like "ur selfish and i dont know how to get through to u". i dont wanna talk about it to him because he never says nething when im with my guy friends....but then again none of them are my ex's! im sick of always being scared to do anything because he will make me feel bad.... i cant deal with always feeling bad for everything! its like he can do whatever he wants but i cant because its wrong if i do it. what do i do?

any guy that makes you feel like that is NOT worth it. like, not at all. he sounds kinda immature but theres no way you will ver work out your problems if you don't talk to him about it. he might not realize how upset you REALLY are. tell him everything you just told us about the way you get jealous cuz you want to be the only girl that matters to him and how upset and hurt you get when he says mean things to you and stuff. if he doesn't care then suggest you guys "take a break" once you see what other kind of guys are out there...you'll kno wether or not you still wanna be with your boyfriend. and he might see how much you mean to him and how he has ben being rude. if he thinks you'll always be around he'll keep treating you the way he does. he needs to kno your not gonna put up with his crap and you don't play games. but really, just talk to him and see how that goes before you "take a break" or break up with him. and as for his ex, he still cares about her if he calls her when shes upset, but if your ex was upset, you would care too. everyone does..no matter if they have feelings for them or not, they still care. but he's YOUR boyfriend so tell him to start acting like it.
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why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me??

hes probably jealous...for whatever reason you guys broke up, you're not having that problem with your new boyfriend and your ex is remembering all the GOOD times you guys had together and hes remembering how nice it used to be with you. he might not like you at all, or he might, either way it'll pass in a little while, just try to ignore him and if your new boyfriend really wants things to work, he won't let your ex get in the way
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my friend wanted to know if getting braces affects kissing ???

nope..not really. i guess 2 ppl w/braces could get stuck..but probably not bc your teeth don't really touch when you kiss unless you're smashing your faces together..
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i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia?

I'm not sure...but I really doubt it

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so this guy that I rele like had a girlfriend. We are rele good friends now and even my friends think i like him. I even talked to him on the phone. Today he broke up with his girlfriend and now my friends think he likes me and they say wed make a good couple. I dont know if i should just tell him I like him. Hes asked me a lot when my friends told him they think I do. I think he might ask me out but the girls he likes, I think he only asks them out when he knows they like him. I think he already thinks I like him for sure but idk what to do!

I wouldn't just tell him you like him. Because heres what will possibly happen...you go up to him say "I like you" or smthn like that and he won't know what to say back...and he'll end up saying something dumb. What I would do is wait for about a week and see if he flirts w.you/asks you out. If there is one thing I reallllllly suggest you do NOT do is let your friends talk to him about you. If they try to hook you up..it'll probably screw up the whole thing (*it doesn't always happen...but you should really handle it yourself) If you just can't take it anymore and you really wanna tell him or you think he likes you...get into a convo. with him and bring up things like how cute a couple is @ school or smthn that has to do w.dating and while you're on the subject...tell him!! but don't just be like "I like you" talk to your friends about what you should do...they know him so they can help a lot...but DON'T let them get inbetween you and him! and don't tell him online...do it in person or over the phone
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Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno....

Buy him the patch and the gum. Then tell him you love him and you're so scared bc smoking is bad and you really want him to quit. When he says its 'not really working' he might have like, just started trying to quit...and it takes time. Just tell him to ease off the ciggs gradually..bc its not gonna happen overnight or in a day
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I Like this guy and i think he likes me back. When we sat by eachother in 2 classes he kind of always flirted with me. Now he asked out some1 else that he liked but i still think hed go out with me. I made a dumb mistake becuz i think he asks out girls that he know's likes them. My friends thought i did like this guy and they told him they thought that. One day online he asked if i liked him and i said just as a friend whatever their saying dont believe them. He didnt have a gf then so if i said yes i think he would have asked me out.
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Whoa, that was confusing. I'm not exactly sure what your question is. But maybe you should just be a little flirty w.him. If he's going out w.whoever he asked out..she'll probably get mad if you go too far, but he probably won't care bc guys just want ass no matter if its cheating or not. Its probably best to just move on but stay friends w.him. Just think of him as a friend more then a crush and it'll be so much easier. Or you could just tell him you like him and see if he dumps his girlfriend for you. If he does then thats good for you, but it shows hes kinda shallow and doesn't care too much about who hes going out with. If he ends it with her too quickly, then it shows he doesn't care about her very much and he was going out w.her, but he didn't really care. You won't want him to do that to you. So I really think you should just move on and find someone who doesn't ask out any random girl that likes him. I would stay away from him..he doesn't seem too smart
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