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FrIeNdS wItH bEnFiTs?¿?
saturday after the game i went to my friends house and her house was forked at like 10:30pm right so me and her had to stay up and watch out for the kids who did it and so her cuz came with us in her room and we were under the cover on the floor and i was by her cuz and we were holdin hands and all a sudden my hand was on his penis and all this crazy stuff wa happenin and she dont even kno about it but see thats the 2nd times ive cheated on my boyfriend with the same guy and i just dont kno what to do...what do i do? who do i tell if i do tell someone?? ..i still kinda like the guy i cheated with hes my EX..
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Goodness Girl...My opinion about friends with benefits is WRONG. You never know if he could be doing things with another girl, thats how STDs get around and it's just plain disgusting to share a guy with a lot of other people. It sounds like you have no self control in a situation like that, and I'm not trying to be mean, i'm trying to be truthful so hopefully you can get yourself out of this mess.
Now, as for the part about who you should tell....I think your boyfriend is the person who deserves to know the most out of anybody else. It's not fair to keep him in the dark. Even if he does break up with you and dosn't give you another chance, wouldn't it feel better knowing that you don't have anything to hide from him anymore or hurt him? Maybe he'll stick around to give you a second chance...even if you did cheat twice with the same guy that is your Xboyfriend...because I really don't know him or how he'd react to it but I do know that anybody who found that out would be upset. And also, its better that he hear it from you and not from somebody else, because you're being truthful and straightfoward with him even though it means admitting you were wrong.
If you don't want to cheat on your boyfriend anymore, then maybe you should stay away from this guy you've been cheating with. If you still kind of like him, you need to take time away from both guys and decide who you want to be with more (if your boyfriend will still have you). You really don't want to get a bad reputation. =( I hope everything works out for the best deary....and I hope I helped any at all....
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Well you should decide which guy you like better. And if you like your boyfriend then stay with him and tell the other guy to back off and try not to spend time with him. If you like the dude you cheated with better then break up with your boyfriend for him. But you need to tell your boyfriend what you did, because it wouldn't be fair if you didn't.
-Emmy
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It's so wrong to cheat on your boyfriend (*unless hes cheating on you first) so I'd either stop cheating on him, or break up w.him. If you were him would you want to make-out with you after you've sucked some other guys dick?? If you have one of those relationships where you're totally honest and stuff then you might wanna tell him, but that'd just screw stuff up. So like, if you think he'd just get mad @ you and break up w.you then you might not wanna tell him (*unless you want to break up w.him) but if he found out he'd be soooo so maaad! So thats hard. But if you're not going to tell him you should really stop cheating on him. If you break up with him, tell him about how you cheated on him and be like "You deserve better then me" or smthn so he might not be so upset (*but say it honestly...like if he couldn't get anyone better, def. don't say it) If you went out w.the guy you cheated on..it might be kinda weird. Like hes your ex, so that'd be weird, like whatever reason you guys broke up, you'd have to fix it. And does he like you back...or just like doing stuff with you? Don't waste your time going out w.him if thats all he wants. And if you guys WEREN'T going out when you did all that stuff, you're def. going to be doing a lot of stuff when you ARE going out. You just have to ask yourself why you like him. And you def. need to find out if he likes you as a girlfriend and I think theres no reason to be in a relationship for ONLY the physical stuff. If you want to tell someone, maybe tell a really really close friend that will take it to the grave and not tell anyone. You might also want to talk it over w.your ex & his cousin because he knows all about it anyways (*and of course your friend will eventually find out) and you need to make sure he doesn't tell anyone because he'll brag to his friends...then rumors will start going around and that will suck bad.
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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well i think that maybce u shuld tell ur friend that is the cousin of tha guy u cheated on ur b/f with...n u have to balance otu hwich guy u want to be with more.....make a lsit with both of them with positive n negatives...n pick tha guy that has more positives cuz taht means u like them more...n when u have a b/f u hsuldnt have friedns with benifits cuz thas cheatin n if u want a steady relationship then u dont want no cheating....well thas mi advice i hope it helped...
~!*MaNdA*!~
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ok well you cheated theres no question about that talk to you bf and tell him you did something wrong and you made a huge mistake and you have to break it off if you tell him you cheated on him dont expect him to just say oh it ok people make mistakes no he will never trust you again. you might as well just break up with you bf and just get with this other guy. plus this isnt the 1st time so yeah just break it off before it gets worse. dont just wait to tell him because then he wont just be mad because you cheated on him 2 times but that you waited to tell him thats not always the best decision.
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