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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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Can you get STD's from kissing?
Yes, It is possible.
i am 21 i smoke and do pills and i am on high blood presure meds but when i went to the bathroom a hour ago it seemed that ....that erge i had was blood more then feces the water wasent totaly red but more red then clear no pain or anything maybe alittle burning or iching after if you canhelp me i would be much apritated
You need to see a Doctor, Blood in the stool COULD be a sign of prostate cancer. See a doctor ASAP
why do guys like when girls dress up in slutty costumes, but girls dont really care for that typically? would a guy think its weird if his gf was just randomly wearing a costume?
Guys are visual, It's every man's fantasy to see a woman dressed in a costume.
Remember, Sometimes guys think "INSIDE THE BOX" ;)
I'm 2o years old (female) in college. I just recently moved out of the dorm rooms and into a house. I am sharing the house with two other people. I want to decorate my room so its cute. The walls right now are a dark beige. The room is onnly like 10ftx10. I know its not huge, but i'm a broke college student. Does any one have a few ideas how to decorate? I can paint if i really want to..but at this point I really dont want to. I have a black shelf that will be in room, so i would like to some home incorporate black ish colors...but i definetly like bright colors
Here are a few tips to try...
Rugs, Lamps, Posters, Pillows...
It's always possible to decorate little space, If you do decide to paint in the future this is where you could add in a bright color.
Ok so hey everyone well to start off I am 13 female and my friend is 12 female and the other day she started liking this 14 year old in the grade ahead of us, well she wanted me to help her, so I was like yeah this'll be fun because I don't even know him he don't know me. Ok so she wanted me to text him first so I did and he ignored me didn't text back (guessing because he didn't know me) (plus don't know what I look like) now anyway she finaly text him and they t4ext forever and they flirted and had good conversations, I read all of it off her phone! and then yesterday morning I was sitting at the 7th grade table and I was the only one there noone else had came in yet, and he was the only one at the 8th grade table across from me and well every two seconds he would look over and stare at were I was sitting, then this morning me and my friend that likes him got there first and he was there then 8th grade left first so I decided to look and find him and when I did he was looking right at me and our eyes met then he jumped startled and walked off. It is really wierd because he don't even know me and that stuff happens, then he acts like yeah he likes my friend and stuff, and from all this helping my friend I am starting to like him myself!!!! so please help I am confused about a couple things like I said!
1.) He keeps looking and our eyes meet (but he don't even know me)
2.) I think he likes my friend they talk/ flirt a lot!
3.) I am starting to like him!!! so please help(: thankkss(:
Your friend has already started talking to him, They are flirting with one another therefore let her decide what the next move should be.
If the guy keeps looking at you, Look away. Your friend developed a crush on him and it would be a hurtful thing to back stab her by feeding into it. Be happy for her, If he continues just ignore it and don't show interest. The truth is...Guys come and go but friends stay forever.
Okaii well he broke up with me and got with this girl that i HATE sooo what to i do i want too tell her off sooo give me somethings to say thanks
Telling her off won't solve anything, He dumped you.
You're best bet is to move on, There are many fish out in the sea. There will be someone who will appreciate you for you, You just have to find them.
How bad would it hurt for me to get a tatoo of a butterfly on my arm or hand?
On a scale from 1-10, how bad would it hurt?
Everyone's pain tolerance is different, If I had to describe the pain...Imagine getting shots repeatedly in one spot...that is the best example I can give ya.
My best friend got her wisdom teeth out today and I am over taking care of her:) does any one have any ideas of stuff to eat that will be easy and good for her? We know the usual like soup and milk shakes and water and stuff but she is bored with all that. I needed some fun different yummy ideas or just anything that might have slipped our minds. THANKS ALOT GUYS!! :D
Yogurt, Jello, Pudding, Pasta is okay as long as it is not hot, Anything that is not hard to chew should be okay. Mac n cheese, Eggs, Oatmeal, Apple sauce.
Keep in mind that she should only eat foods that are not going to get caught in the socket. When I my wisdoms taking out I was eating pasta salad a lot.
So I met this guy back in Sept, and that night we went back to his place and messed around but never had sex or oral. Even though we both told eaqchother how much we wanted eachother. He said he was a good man and he wanted me the right way. lol. Everything has been causal since, only spoke a few times and went on 1 date a month ago. I ran into him last night after not talking for awhile and we wonund up going back to his place. We wound up f**king after he was done kissing me everywhere and eating me out. However here's my question....you could tell he didnt want to fall alseep with me so I left, he walked me to car and that was it. So with this said, do yo think it was just a fuck...one night stand or could it be more? Do guys really go down on chicks in a one night stand?
One night stand
I don't have bad acne, usually a very small handful of pimples at most. And most of those are barely visible, but my face doesn't feel smooth in that area, so it bothers me.
What is a good acne wash / treatment I can use to remedy this? I need something that works and isn't very expensive.
Try Proactive, It is supposed to be a great product and isn't that expensive.
16 / F / 5'7 / 117 lbs
(If that has any thing to do with it.)
Usually when I stand up I blackout for about 8-10 seconds, but I can still walk the path I'm going if I know it well. (Ex: From my bedroom to my staircase) But this past week it's gotten worse. It's to a point where when I stand up I black out & I get dizzy, so I'm forced to either just sit/lay down on whatever is closest, which usually happens to be the floor. I don't know what's causing it.
I'm not sure if it has anything to do with this past weekend, I was very sick with nausea which made me lose my appetite for two days, & really bad chest & lower stomach pains. I was also falling every time I stood up. But like I said, now I just have to sit down, I'm not collapsing anymore.
Sorry if it's long, I'm just worried.
It could be several things, You mentioned pain in the chest and stomach area...
It COULD be an infection, internal bleeding or clot. You need to call the doctor a.s.a.p. I know it's a huge bummer but I would lay off the skiing until you do so.
is there a way to have sex with a garuntee of not getting pregnant?
Nope,
Better off sticking with the rule. No Glove, No Love buddy!
Where can I buy bigger buttocks pills that will my butt bigger?
There is no such thing as a pill or a website that will make your butt bigger. If it is advertised then clearly it's a scam. Unless you are planning on surgery..There is no way.
If you are looking to boost and firm your butt, You can look at exercise.
I've only been dating him a week and he asked me at dinner if I would get off birth control and let him cum inside of me! What's crazier is this isn't the first time I've been asked to do that! Why would a guy want to get a woman he doesn't know pregnant?! Just out of curiousity I asked him why and he didn't really have a good answer. He also noted that he wanted 2-3 kids and wanted me to breast feed! Why so specific? I don't know if he's a frequent impregnator or what but he has recent papers proving he is std free and he's really successful.
I'm going to be blunt
Dump him, The guy sounds like a creep.
You two have only been dating a week and already he is trying to convince you to get off the birth control? Do you really want to have children with someone you don't know?...I find it weird that someone you just met would jump the gun so fast. Honestly, In all of what you've posted sounds like the guy just wants to get in your pants and screw you over in the process. Find someone who will appreciate you and the relationship. Kick this creep to the curb.
so what i want to know is what to do about my boyfriend cheating on me with 2 bff's.i am still dating him and he does not know that i know he is a nasty cheater. me and my 2 bff's are making a list to get back at him. so what i am saying what do you think i sould do?
Dump him - Razhie is right
Seeking revenge on your boyfriend isn't going to benefit you or him, Your boyfriend cheated on you and I can put a finger on it that your revenge games aren't going to piss him off because he clearly doesn't give a crap.
Your boyfriend is unfaithful, So are your friends. Friends don't go and back stab other friends, You call them your "BFF'S" but lets face it they are not BFF's. Revenge is childish and immature, Getting back at him is not going to get you what you want it will only make things worse for you in the long run. My advice, Be the bigger person and find someone else.
I've been texting this guy and he definetly wants to hookup and he wanted a picture and everything (i didn't send him one). but it's weird because he said he just got out of a 2 year relationship and didn't want anything serious at the moment. but when I told him I wanted to wait to get to know him better before/if we have sex and that I didn't want to send him a picture because I didn't know him that well and he didn't try to force it out of me or anything he just accepted it. and he said he didn't want anything too serious but he stayed up texting me until 2 in the morning. I'm really confused what do you think he wants? he also goes to school an hour from me and doesn't have a car. i like him obviously and I want a relationship but I don't want to be pushy.
Be careful, The guy just got out of a 2 year relationship and he already wants pictures of you? Hm, Maybe he didn't push the situation but lets face it that is just plain weird. I would back off a little bit, The guy just got out of a 2 year relationship and if he told you he didn't want anything serious then take it slow. Cut the texting down to a minimum, IF you were to hook up then there shouldn't be any rush to wait and slow it down a bit. Sex, shouldn't even be on your mind nor his he is fresh out of a relationship and if that is what it seems of him to be talking about then there ya go obviously that is all he wants out of you. Now for the distance...
An hour apart without a car is difficult, The question is could you see the relationship working out if you two were to have one? Long distant relationships are stressful. My main concern is how he just got out of a 2 year relationship and he is already talking to another girl? .. Wanting pictures from you?...Exactly how fresh out of the relationship is he? Make sure he is the type to commit to you..and not just take your relationship for granted. Don't be pushy, Make sure he is right for you from the sound of it the guy is confused and doesn't really know what he wants.
Okay so I've sorta known this guy for 3 years. Never really talked to him until the beginning of this school year. He has a girlfriend and at first we would just flirt in class. He made me laugh so much without even doing anything. Our teacher would always get mad and eventually he just moved us. Well we stopped talking after that pretty much then a few weeks later I asked him about something and that started it again. He would always put his arm around me and joke around and stuff. One night I was at a friends who lived a couple houses away from him and we went to walk her dogs I texted him and invited him. So we were walking and I told him I didn't think his girlfriend believed him about liking me bc he'd told her earlier that day and she told my friend that she didn't believe it. Well somehow that got mixed up to him as she didn't trust him ever. He called her about it when he got home and they fought and almost broke up. He was pissed at me for like a month or two. We didn't talk at all he wouldn't talk to me or believe that that's not what I said. We got over that and then last week my two closest friends that knew everything about me n him told his girlfriend then lied to me about it. Well they told him to stop talking to me but he didn't. when i did get them to confess they said they did it so i wouldnt get hurt because he was playing me and blah blah. I know that probably his plan because hes kinda a player. Sorry to say I don't talk to those "friends" anymore. But anyway I hung out with him and his friend yesterday for the first time
1, This guy has a girlfriend and you interfered with that.
2, The guy has a girlfriend and continues to flirt with other people.
What makes you think he would be committed to you if he can't commit himself to the girl he is already with? Of course his girlfriend wouldn't believe you, Nobody wants to believe their partner is being unfaithful to them. At this point, There is nothing I can really say that is going to change your mind, You've basically already made that up. My advice? I would move on, Find someone who is available to you and not already involved with someone else.
will boys like me if i have big breast
Guys should appreciated you for who you are, Not what you look like. That is shallow and those tend to be the guys that go for only one thing.
so I messaged this guy in one of my classes because I had a question. Then we started talking and he said he wanted to hangout before he left for vacation (he left today). He didn't give me a date though he said we'd just play it day by day because we were getting a huge snowstorm both days he was gonna be home(which we did). I gave him my number and told him to text me and let me know. He texted me right away saying "so what do you wanna do ;)" and we were texting for awhile, basically he wants to hookup. then 2 days after i texted him just saying hey and we talked for a little:
him:what's up
me:nothing just trying to fall asleep this bed is so uncomfortable and everyones asleep :/ haha
him:awww what are you getting at hmmm haha
me: maybe i could use some company :p
him:hahahaha
me:hahaha :)
so my questions is do you think he actually wants to hangout? he says he does but i kinda hinted it and he just laughed. and how much should i text him? i don't want to come off as obsessive but i want him to know I'm really into him lol. thanks! oh and also i'm 18 he's 20 if that matters.
Sounds like he likes you, However just don't rush things.
How much should you text him? You can text him as much as you want just don't hound him and become annoying. When I text someone, I usually send one text and wait for them to reply back and make it no more than a 10 minute conversation. If you two have facebook that is also another great way of connecting.
I think he may want to hang out, Just make sure you take it slow. You don't want it to be one of those things where he is all about "hooking up for sex" I'm not saying this would be the case, But you can never be too sure.
So okay I've been dating this guy for like ten months. He's sixteen, junior and I'm fifteen, sophomore. Well about a month ago this random dude facebook messaged him like "Hey I saw your girlfriend at walmart today!" (They know eachother from a baseball camp I guess, not well though, and my boyfriend doesnt really like him. my boyfriend was alright cool and they had a conversation and what not, mostly talking about me I guess. I've never really talked to the guy much... he's kinda creepy, a little out there, not really in my crowd but he's pretty nice so we didn't think much of it. Well since then this guy keeps sending me and my boyfreind messages (also texts) but he'll send me facebook messages every single day, nothing really interesting (latelly I have not been replying). The interesting things are the things he's been sending my boyfriend. He's sent things saying:
"(My name) is a really great girl, you're so lucky." and eventually he go up to "Would you possibly let me hook up with (my name)" and my boyfriend was kinda like "excuse me??" thinking maybe he was joking or something. Keep in mind, this guy and my bf aren't friends. At all. At first he just didn't wanna be a dick but now that this kid is getting really creepy he's blocked him on facebook and is trying to block his number. He'll try to talk to my boyfriend when he see's him (cause they go to the same guym) and I guess he always brings me up... Some of the messages he's sent my boyfriend have really scared me. Even though my bf isnt replying to him (and he didn't want to show me the messages but I kind of made him) he's sent things like "I just wanna f*ck her till she screams" and "Everyone's gotta price man, I'll pay anything for a night with her"... I don't know what to do... Once the dude's number is blocked I think most of it will stop but what if he keeps bothering him...? My friends don't really know what to do either. I'm kind of freaked out but I'm trying to keep cool cause I don't wanna stress my boyfreind stressed out about it anymore than he already is... But he doesn't know how much longer he can keep it together with out confronting this guy. It's not like I can go to my school though because all three of us go somewhere different... I don't know what to do!
Tell someone, Harassment can only go so far before it really becomes a problem.
If your boyfriend is having a hard time blocking him on his cell phone, Call the phone company and let them know you are being harassed. Sometimes the phone company will charge you a small fee (Usually 10 bucks or so) to block a number. You can also buy a new sim card for the cell phone transfer the number that way also. This is NOT okay, Ignoring it isn't working and this is where you need to let an adult know what is going on.
In the meantime until you do so, Continue to ignore the messages, Keep him blocked on facebook.