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one night stand or more?


Question Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 9:08 am

So I met this guy back in Sept, and that night we went back to his place and messed around but never had sex or oral. Even though we both told eaqchother how much we wanted eachother. He said he was a good man and he wanted me the right way. lol. Everything has been causal since, only spoke a few times and went on 1 date a month ago. I ran into him last night after not talking for awhile and we wonund up going back to his place. We wound up f**king after he was done kissing me everywhere and eating me out. However here's my question....you could tell he didnt want to fall alseep with me so I left, he walked me to car and that was it. So with this said, do yo think it was just a fuck...one night stand or could it be more? Do guys really go down on chicks in a one night stand?

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julie75 answered Tuesday January 25 2011, 6:28 pm:
I had my fair share of one night stands and usually I coudn't even get comfortable enough to fall asleep and I love to sleep. There was quite a lot of those guys that went down on me and I never say no to getting eaten. It was a little stange that he didn't make a move the first time around but I sense that he may have a girlfriend. There may have been a little bit of guilt but guys seem to be able to get through that when it comes to sex. If you think you like this guy, you should call him and make plans with him. If he makes up excuses why he can't, he was probably using you for sex. I hope this helps and good luck.

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Xui answered Tuesday January 25 2011, 5:52 pm:
One night stand

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Razhie answered Tuesday January 25 2011, 9:46 am:
It's a one night stand.

Oral doesn't make 'more'. Some guys like going down on girls (some guys have a the sense to realize this might even help the girl enjoy herself, and a girl who is enjoying herself is a better sex partner).

It might become more in the future, but it seems unlikely unless you follow up and go on a few more dates. It sounds like you both wanted to have sex that night and you went back to his place to have sex and then left.

If you want more, follow up with him, 'cause I would bet he isn't imagining more with you right now.

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