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my boyfriend cheated on me with my 2 best friends
so what i want to know is what to do about my boyfriend cheating on me with 2 bff's.i am still dating him and he does not know that i know he is a nasty cheater. me and my 2 bff's are making a list to get back at him. so what i am saying what do you think i sould do?
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Two wrong don't make a right. As angry as you are, i think you should just end it. you have your best friend for support, and the fact that they want to get back at him show that they love you, but getting revenge isn't something that is necessary. what would you prove by doing that? i don't think you want to do something you would regret. and staying with him knowing that he has done something bad and using that against him in revenge doesn't make you any better.
so please, i advice you break it off and go your seprate ways
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Dump him - Razhie is right
Seeking revenge on your boyfriend isn't going to benefit you or him, Your boyfriend cheated on you and I can put a finger on it that your revenge games aren't going to piss him off because he clearly doesn't give a crap.
Your boyfriend is unfaithful, So are your friends. Friends don't go and back stab other friends, You call them your "BFF'S" but lets face it they are not BFF's. Revenge is childish and immature, Getting back at him is not going to get you what you want it will only make things worse for you in the long run. My advice, Be the bigger person and find someone else.
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Just dump him.
Revenge works great in the movies, but in real life is never gets you what you want.
He's already proven he doesn't give a shit about you, it's unlikely anything you do will have nearly the effect you want on him. If he doesn't care about YOU, nothing you can do will hurt him much.
In the end, you'll just have wasted a lot of energy and planning on something that barely works, isn't funny, and make everyone else who knows about think less of you.
Tell him what you know. Have the satisfaction of saying exactly what you think of him to his face and end the relationship with your head held high. If you want revenge, watch some good movies where the jackass cheater gets it in the end. I promise you that will be more satisfying than anything on your list.
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I'm sorry to hear your bf did this, but take a step back and think...not only did he cheat on you, but your "bff's" were part of it. They must have known you were dating and that it would hurt you so why would they do it? Sounds to me like you need to dump your man and your so called "best-friends".
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