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reading this guy
I've been texting this guy and he definetly wants to hookup and he wanted a picture and everything (i didn't send him one). but it's weird because he said he just got out of a 2 year relationship and didn't want anything serious at the moment. but when I told him I wanted to wait to get to know him better before/if we have sex and that I didn't want to send him a picture because I didn't know him that well and he didn't try to force it out of me or anything he just accepted it. and he said he didn't want anything too serious but he stayed up texting me until 2 in the morning. I'm really confused what do you think he wants? he also goes to school an hour from me and doesn't have a car. i like him obviously and I want a relationship but I don't want to be pushy.
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I think he just wants someone to be there for him. To support and care about him/
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This kid sounds like he just wants another relationship to have another relationship. I would just stay away. He's probably not worth your time if he immediately asked for pictures and didn't even take the time to get to know you first.
--Jack
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Be careful, The guy just got out of a 2 year relationship and he already wants pictures of you? Hm, Maybe he didn't push the situation but lets face it that is just plain weird. I would back off a little bit, The guy just got out of a 2 year relationship and if he told you he didn't want anything serious then take it slow. Cut the texting down to a minimum, IF you were to hook up then there shouldn't be any rush to wait and slow it down a bit. Sex, shouldn't even be on your mind nor his he is fresh out of a relationship and if that is what it seems of him to be talking about then there ya go obviously that is all he wants out of you. Now for the distance...
An hour apart without a car is difficult, The question is could you see the relationship working out if you two were to have one? Long distant relationships are stressful. My main concern is how he just got out of a 2 year relationship and he is already talking to another girl? .. Wanting pictures from you?...Exactly how fresh out of the relationship is he? Make sure he is the type to commit to you..and not just take your relationship for granted. Don't be pushy, Make sure he is right for you from the sound of it the guy is confused and doesn't really know what he wants.
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I think he wants to be friends with you for right now seeing as he said he doesn't want anything serious at the moment and he just got out of a two year relationship himself him admitting that is a good thing i don't think he wants to just hookup seeing as he didn't say much when you mentioned sex not to mention his past relationship him accepting the fact that you didn't want sex right away and you not wanting to send the picture is also a good thing it's a advantage for you i think he wants to get to know you better so the both of you don't end up rushing into things and taking things to fast he seems sincere about what he said i don't think you'll end up being pushy i think you should continue to text him and see where the conversation leads between you two it's worth a shot there's no harm in you continuing to text him and getting to know him better :)
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