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He wants to come in me without birth control.
I've only been dating him a week and he asked me at dinner if I would get off birth control and let him cum inside of me! What's crazier is this isn't the first time I've been asked to do that! Why would a guy want to get a woman he doesn't know pregnant?! Just out of curiousity I asked him why and he didn't really have a good answer. He also noted that he wanted 2-3 kids and wanted me to breast feed! Why so specific? I don't know if he's a frequent impregnator or what but he has recent papers proving he is std free and he's really successful.
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I'm going to second the 'dump him' motion.
It's not unusual for a guy to want to have sex without a condom but to want to cum inside you with no birth control whatsoever after a week? Not normal.
Do YOU want 2-3 kids to breast feed? Because if you don't, and I suspect you don't, I can only tell you to get out of there sharpish.
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Well if you ask me I think you should tell him how you feel about the situation. If he has a problem with it tell him you need a break. If you feel it is not worth it then leave him.
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A vagina does not want for anything. Neither does a penis. They are parts of our human anatomy and have no minds of there own.
Dump him.
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We as men are sometimes hard to understand...Individually, we are even more difficult to understand....In order to understand why a man would want to verbally state that he wants to have sex without protection, you need to understand that mascalinity is God....The world that we live in, is gender role based...Most of the time in todays world, gender doesn't seem to be taught anymore...Especially with todays homosexual cultures....Penis's represent the basic principals of adult mascalinity...A penis could in some ways be seen as an individual being; seperate from the human brain....Lust is very powerful in the penis world....A human's nature is interaction....We speak to each other and listen to eachother.....Any type of giving and receiving, is considered sexually oriented....A word comes out of a mouth and goes into an ear; similar to sex.....The male penis has it's own nature,called sexual attraction....
Combined with the human mind, most penises are
totally about beauty(booty)....To a woman's mind, unprotected sex with a stranger may seem inapproptiate but, to a man with a penis, it is just good talk.....The penis is doing all of the talking, when sex is concerned....The man probably doesn't feel that a woman with a vagina ,
is any different than him.....There really isn't much difference, in sexual need, between a penis and a vagina....A vagina wants to be comed in, just like a penis wants to come inside of the vagina....The complexity comes in , with todays
female liberation....A liberated vagina, has too many well mannered morals, for a penis....The next time a guy comments to you in this way, just speak on it, and move on....Don't take it in offense....This is just the way of the penis.....Of course, medically and professionally speaking, unprotected sex is not considered wise;this is true...Yet, being overly offended can lead to negative affects also...Just take it easy and don't be surprised when one of your most desired tv stars, asks to come in you and your vagina accepts; that would just be a healthy minded vagina speaking.....
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I'm going to be blunt
Dump him, The guy sounds like a creep.
You two have only been dating a week and already he is trying to convince you to get off the birth control? Do you really want to have children with someone you don't know?...I find it weird that someone you just met would jump the gun so fast. Honestly, In all of what you've posted sounds like the guy just wants to get in your pants and screw you over in the process. Find someone who will appreciate you and the relationship. Kick this creep to the curb.
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