should i change for the best? :/

Question Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 3:02 pm

Hey well at school im preety likable by everyone. im a girl in the 8th grade and many say im really funny. im pratically the class clown for many of my classes.Its just that when it comes to guys that i like well...they just end up being my best guy friend and i dont mind but it gets annoying that i cant really find a boyfriend because they dont take me seriously. im starting highschool in a few months and i wanted to change for the best. Maybe if im less like how i am now guys will take me seriously but i dont know if i should because being somebody who you arent ALWAYS ends up bad!but i mean i have had like 4 boyfriends but they arent excactly what im looking for because i always end up dumping them. then the ones that i really do like well they dont take me seriously! ahhhhhh! so should i change and be "normal" in highschool or what???

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amaried answered Monday January 24 2011, 5:09 am:
Don't change! You should always be yourself-if a guy doesn't like you for who you are then he doesn't really care about you. You shouldn't only change for yourself-not for someone else. Going to new social places allows you to meet new people and have a pool to select from. Dating does take a long time-enjoy it. You're only in high school and there's plenty of time to find a steady boyfriend. I'm 20 and still haven't found "the one" and I'm not in a hurry because I want to be able to have fun and enjoy my youth-there's plenty of time for men later on. It takes awhile to find someone who is good for you. Dating is trying out different relationships with different people trying to find one who suits you.

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Ginguhh answered Sunday January 23 2011, 7:46 pm:
No boy in high school is going to take you seriously. (Trust me, I've learned the hard way).

Just wait until you're out of high school and in college. Wait for the boys to grow up and out of their immature stage.

And I wouldn't worry about guys at your age, you still have a lot of growing to do yourself and have to discover who you are.

(:

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