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playing a player part two?


Question Posted Friday January 21 2011, 5:22 pm

Okay so I've sorta known this guy for 3 years. Never really talked to him until the beginning of this school year. He has a girlfriend and at first we would just flirt in class. He made me laugh so much without even doing anything. Our teacher would always get mad and eventually he just moved us. Well we stopped talking after that pretty much then a few weeks later I asked him about something and that started it again. He would always put his arm around me and joke around and stuff. One night I was at a friends who lived a couple houses away from him and we went to walk her dogs I texted him and invited him. So we were walking and I told him I didn't think his girlfriend believed him about liking me bc he'd told her earlier that day and she told my friend that she didn't believe it. Well somehow that got mixed up to him as she didn't trust him ever. He called her about it when he got home and they fought and almost broke up. He was pissed at me for like a month or two. We didn't talk at all he wouldn't talk to me or believe that that's not what I said. We got over that and then last week my two closest friends that knew everything about me n him told his girlfriend then lied to me about it. Well they told him to stop talking to me but he didn't. when i did get them to confess they said they did it so i wouldnt get hurt because he was playing me and blah blah. I know that probably his plan because hes kinda a player. Sorry to say I don't talk to those "friends" anymore. But anyway I hung out with him and his friend yesterday for the first time

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Additional info, added Friday January 21 2011, 5:59 pm:
We were playing basketball and at one time he was trying to make a shot from directly behind me. He missed a bunch of times but didn't stop til he got it. That was the closest wed ever been and it felt good. He'd alway told me he wanted to kiss me and stuff over text but I don't feel comfortable doing anything with him bc of his girlfriend. Its so hard to resist him sometimes though. He also knows that he's not going to get sex from me though he still trys a little. Well one shot he threw the ball wayyy past the basket he asked me to get it and I said no well he kept begging and like 10 mins later he was like oh my god I'm going to die if you don't get the ball I said that sounds like a personal problem he said you would cry if I died tonight and said no I wouldn't (just joking around I didn't mean any of this) he was like you wouldn't feel bad if I died tonight because you would get the ball and I said no I could care less. We'll later that night he texted me and said. "You would care if I died tonight." And I said "I would care if anyone died" and he said "then y u say u wouldn't" I said sorry and ect. He was kinda being a douche. That's pretty much our story. I don't have a clue what to do about him? I don't want to play his game but I also don't want him to lose interest. I try so hard to ignore him but I can't do it. But then when I'm not around him I'm annoyee by him. He pisses me off then I see him and all of those feelings are gone. He's the only one that can make me really laugh. He brings out a foreign side of me. Please tell me exactly what I should do. Tips on how to play his game better I would appreciate too. I'm 16 & he's 17. Please no comments on how game are for children. I know this already. Thanks so much, hugs && kisses
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MissYMelisS answered Saturday January 22 2011, 8:57 pm:
I don't even care that I'm about to get a 1.

He has a GIRLFRIEND! He does not want to date you. If anything he wants to use you and move on. How would you feel if some girl came around and hooked up with someone you were dating? Don't be "that girl".

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Xui answered Friday January 21 2011, 9:14 pm:
1, This guy has a girlfriend and you interfered with that.

2, The guy has a girlfriend and continues to flirt with other people.


What makes you think he would be committed to you if he can't commit himself to the girl he is already with? Of course his girlfriend wouldn't believe you, Nobody wants to believe their partner is being unfaithful to them. At this point, There is nothing I can really say that is going to change your mind, You've basically already made that up. My advice? I would move on, Find someone who is available to you and not already involved with someone else.

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