I have been wanting to go to a nudist beach for years, with my husband of 36 years. We are both in our 50's yet fit and well. My husband has a very large penis and he feels that will make him uncomfortable. I have told him that nudists do and will not look or share, just get on with being nudists. How can I get him to feel comfortable nude in public? I have told him there will be plenty of other large penis on the beach and not to worry. Thank you in advance!
adviceman49 answered Saturday January 22 2011, 9:31 am: Bliz is right; Try going to a clothing optional nude beach or nude resort. What he will find is the people frown on those that stare. Nudist are not there to be gawked at. They are at the beach or resort to enjoy the sun and the activities in a naturalist environment.
I will caution you to the fact that your husband will most likely get an erection, new nudist usually do. The only thing I can tell you is that after he gets use to being nude with others this will not happen. Until then you might want to be prepared to find someplace (private) to help him with this. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
bliz answered Friday January 21 2011, 9:16 pm: Take a trip to a resort that offers an optional nude beach and give it a try. I suggest early in the morning, which is when I went. (We are of similar vintage.)
dearcandore answered Friday January 21 2011, 8:24 pm: Do some research with him. Go online and find different nudist sites that explain the philosophy and day to day workings of the nudist community. Encourage him to email/ask questions of people who attend nudist activities. He may feel more comfortable once he has more knowledge of what it is actually all about. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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