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He likes me, but doesnt want a relationship.
15/F
Theres this guy "Z", well he has been a really good friend of mine for a while- He has had a gf for like over a year, so i didnt even think bout anythin 'with' him. But they broke up resently. He is a flirt, and happens to like alot of girls, and ive always been the one girl he talks to about them. Well he knows i like him now, and he says he likes me to. He use to say, yha were "just friends" alot, so i said it back to him and he said "yha for now" and now we always joke around about it. He doesnt talk to me about the other girls as much but i ask about them sometimes, so he knows im OK with being just friends... well yesterday he said somthing about kissing me on sunday when he comes over, ive never kissed a guy so im nervous, advice? also he says he doesnt want a relationship because he is supose to be moving in a few months and doesnt want to disapoint me. and then he turns around and says stuff like "yha, just friends FOR NOW" what should i think about this? I really like him, and really want to be with him, advide for how to win him over? and my first kiss?
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You need to listen to him. He's trying to protect you and your feelings. As of your first kiss, its nothing to be nervous about. Its all instinct. Your body knows exactly what to do. Let him lead the way, and all you do is just go along with it. If he sticks his tongue in your mouth, than simply do the same. Now one things most guys love, is when a girl sucks on their bottom lips. Try that, or even try to suck on his tongue. Its something different, that will make him think you know what your doing.
If the boy is moving, than there isn't a real point in trying to be with him. You failed to mention how far away he's moving, minutes or hours wise. That could be helpful. If its not out of state. You also need to realize that he just got out of a long relationship. Maybe he wants to have fun with other people, since he was tied down to his ex. Let him get all the sexual gitters out, along with the flirtatiousness. If he really likes you as much as he claims he does, than give the boy time. He will come to you as soon as he is ready. All you can do is be there for him, and let him know how you really feel for him. Just prepare yourself for the rejection ahead, incase their is one. Don't get your hopes up either. I know easier said than done, but just try to think a little negative, so your hopes aren't completely trashed if things dont go in your direction. Guys are full of mysterious things, so make sure you know exactly where he is planning on going with the two of you. Like you said he is a big flirt, so when he makes comments like "we are friends just for now" try not to think too much into it. YOu never know what he's saying to those other girls.
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