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should i keep texting him or no?
so I messaged this guy in one of my classes because I had a question. Then we started talking and he said he wanted to hangout before he left for vacation (he left today). He didn't give me a date though he said we'd just play it day by day because we were getting a huge snowstorm both days he was gonna be home(which we did). I gave him my number and told him to text me and let me know. He texted me right away saying "so what do you wanna do ;)" and we were texting for awhile, basically he wants to hookup. then 2 days after i texted him just saying hey and we talked for a little:
him:what's up
me:nothing just trying to fall asleep this bed is so uncomfortable and everyones asleep :/ haha
him:awww what are you getting at hmmm haha
me: maybe i could use some company :p
him:hahahaha
me:hahaha :)
so my questions is do you think he actually wants to hangout? he says he does but i kinda hinted it and he just laughed. and how much should i text him? i don't want to come off as obsessive but i want him to know I'm really into him lol. thanks! oh and also i'm 18 he's 20 if that matters.
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Yes i do think he want's to hangout with you
it seems like he was joking when he said what are
you getting at and wasn't serious about wanting more it's worth a shot you hanging out with him there's no harm in you doing so i don't think you'd come off as obsessive seeing as you just started texting one another and you haven't been texting long i could see if you were texting him for a while then you'd have a reason to worry but i think your fine when it comes to that i don't think you should worry about how many times you text him yes i think you should continue to text him and see where the conversation between you two leads so you can make sure he knows you don't want to just hookup with him and you do want to hang out with him get to know one another better and make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea take things slow at first and don't rush into anything :)
Good luck!
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Sounds like he likes you, However just don't rush things.
How much should you text him? You can text him as much as you want just don't hound him and become annoying. When I text someone, I usually send one text and wait for them to reply back and make it no more than a 10 minute conversation. If you two have facebook that is also another great way of connecting.
I think he may want to hang out, Just make sure you take it slow. You don't want it to be one of those things where he is all about "hooking up for sex" I'm not saying this would be the case, But you can never be too sure.
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