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OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!! (link)
Aww that is soo cute!

Just talk to him. Tell him you didn't mean to say all those things you were just upset that your secret got out.
Since he is your best friend I'm SURE he will understand and forgive you.



I downloaded the new AIM Triton,and I don't like it. How do I download the old AIM? (link)
I had the same problem.
I hate AIM Triton.
Since www.aim.com doesn't have the old AIM on there anymore what you need to do is go to this site and just download it there:

http://www.download.com/AOL-Instant-Messenger-AIM-/3000-2150_4-10316798.html?tag=lst-0-3



Hi, I'm a 13 year old female. My friend Amber and I have been friends for about a year. Yeah, I know not long but were are or were best friends. It all started when she made me extremly mad over not telling me she was going out with my Ex boyfriend. I have no feelings for him what-so-ever. But I felt that since I told her everything and we had agreed that we would tell anything to each other that she should have told me.
So I wrote her a letter telling her I was upset and that she should have at least told me when she first started dating him. She always takes things the wrong way, like for example when I wrote her the letter; she thought that I was not her friend and that I didn't want to be around her. When I clearly stated in the letter that I didn't want our friendship to end.
She always takes things that way and she made me feel guilty over it. But I when I wrote the letter I wasn't like, "You stupid hoe! You should have told me!!". Not like that. So my question is. Did I have a right to do what I did? (link)
Writing a letter to her was perfectly fine.
And you did nothing wrong.
If your friend took it the wrong way then I suggest you sit her down and explain that you still would like to be friends with her but it was wrong of her not to tell you from the begining that she was dating your ex boyfriend.



lately I've had a really bad craving for junk food. like mcdonalds, ho hos, chocolate, pop, stuff like that. oh and definetly cheese its and doritos....i cant have any of that cuz we never buy that stuff. and if i ask my mom she'll just say "no, you don't need that stuff" im not fat and im not a food maniac. im just really in the mood for junk food. and watermelon...anyway, why is this and how can i stop it? thnx. will rate 5's (link)
It's perfectly normal to get cravings for junk good and or any kind of food during your teen years.
Because you are still growing.
It happens to almost every one so don't worry about it.
When you have cravings for junk food try eating an apple or just any fruit.
You can't really control your cravings they just happen.



OoK I'm gunna see this guy next tuseday and I really like this guy. So anyways i worte him a really nice letter and i really expressed my feelings about him and iam gunna give him my yearbook picture when i give him this i think hes not gunna like it or something. But is it a bad thing to do like write a note to someone that you really like?? Iam scared giving it to him i don't know how he will react.

Thanks,
Lauren (link)
Writing a note to some one expressing how you feel is not a bad idea at all.
Don't be afraid to give it to him.
If you have second thoughts about this and you end up not giving it to him you may loose your chance.

Goodluck & let me know how it goes!



So for valentine's day, I was thinking of giving the guy I'm going out with tickets tot he fall out boy concert because we both like him. But my winter formal is in a week, and I was thinking maybe I should give him the tickets during winter formal to make the night more special. I really want the night to be special because he turned down four girls who asked him to this dance for me and then asked me out! So I really want to make it worthwhile. But I figured the gift was awesome enough for valentine's day and along with the tickets, I could paint on a guitar pic "Happy Valentine's Day" and give that to him. (I like to be creative) SOOOOOO tell me what you think. Any ideas, suggestions, or advice... (link)
I think the idea you have with the guitar picture on it and everything is so cute!
I think it is best if you give the tickets to him on Valentine's Day because it will have a little more meaning.



My friend is a crybaby. I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, or freakishly blunt, but come on. The girl is thirteen years old, and she burst into tears when these two kids in my class wanted to see her yearbook. ALSO, she takes everything WAY too seriously. Every time anyone tries to offer helpful criticism, she gets all mad and starts talking shit about you to other people.

My question to you is...What do I do about this? Should I be friends with someone who is so...out of control? And what can I possibly say to her? (link)
Friends except friends for who they are.
I have a friend who is VERY sensative.
People may say something to her without having the intentions to hurt her feelings but she takes it the wrong way and gets all sad.
I except her for who she is because she is a wonderful person.
You on the other hand are questioning your friendship and it shows that you have a problem with the way your friend acts.
No one is the same.
No one can just sit there and deal with their problems and not cry.
If you really have a problem with your friend then you two should not be friends.




On myspace where do I go to change my font color ? (link)
On Myspace the font color comes with the layout.
So in order to change the font color you need to change it in your layout.

Here is a site with the color codes:

http://www.myspacehtml.net/colorchoose.htm



i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo? (link)
I have Limewire and I love it.
It barely causes viruses and spyware.
From what i have been told Bearshare does cause all those things and really messes up your computer.
So you are better of with Limewire.



is the show summerland over? i loved that show!! (link)
Yeah it is over.
I got so sad because that was one of my FAVORITE shows!



hey y'all i'm having a party next weekend and i need some good slow songs. i need some good makeout songs too.

thanks. 5s for all (link)
Dance Songs:


Amerie - Touch

Britney Spears - Outrageous

Garbage - Why Do You Love Me

Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman

La Bouche - Be My Lover

Ace Of Base - Beautiful Life

R. Kelly - Burn It Up



Slow Songs :


Amanda Perez - I Pray

Ashlee Simpson - That's Why I Love You

Aslyn - That's When I Love You

Bon Jovi - Always

Deestylistic - I Still Love You

Deestylistic - Last Cry

Dierks Bentley - Come A Little Closer

Delta Goodrum - Lost Without You

Enrique Iglesias - Hero

Jessica Simpson - I Wanna Love You Forever

Leanne Rimes - How Do I Live

Maria - I Give, You Take

Nivea - Complicated

Sarah Connor - Just One Last Dance

Usher - You Got It Bad

Vanessa Carlton - Pretty Baby





does anyone know a good website that i can use (pay by mounth) to download songs on my ipod? thanks! (link)
I use Limewire.
The downloads there are really fast and it's free.
Limwire doesn't give alot of viruses like other programs do.

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml



Ok this guy asked me out, hes 13 same as me, now hes not the best looking guy out there but hes really nice and sweet..and i know i should like him but for some reason i just dont

ive thought about saying yes but every time i look at him its like eww no i cant say yes to that

and i know it shouldnt be about looks yadda yadda yadda but i cant get past the way he look

what should i do? should i go out with him or should i not?
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Honestly if you look at him and all that comes to your mind is "Eww" and you can't accept the fact on how he looks then no. You should not go out with him.



can someone with a yahoo screen name talk online to someone with an aim screen name? sorry if this was dumb, but i didn't know lol =P (link)
Nope.



okay so at my highscool in feburary were having a winterfest dance and its girl ask guys. and i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me back since weve told each other that. and i wanna ask him to it, but the thing is i dont know how. i want to make it cute, but not really cheesy because we arent close enough for major things.. just something simple and cute that i could do but not over the top and i dont just wanna be like hey wanna go with me
so if you have any ideas at all then let me know please.. i dont want someone else to ask him before i do!
thanks.. i rate (link)
What would be a really cute idea is to leave a note in his locker to meet you somewhere.
Then when he meets you in that place you can give him a rose and ask him to go with you.

I think that is so sweet to do.



What is a thesis statement?? I have to do a project along with a thesis statement and summary. I did the summary but im not to sure if i included a thesis or not. i just thought it was an opening paragraph to the story but i could be wrong. (link)
A thesis statement is what you are going to prove in your essay or in your case your summary.



Hello, I've looked up Limewire and everything I've read says it's legal. But I still can't help but wonder...
So does anyone know if it really is legal? Because I want to download it, I just don't know if I'll get in trouble for it. (link)
It is.
I had it for about 2 years already.



Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....

Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?

and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?

k thanx i rate 5's. (link)
Basically the number one reason is because they don't want people to talk.
They don't want to be teased about dating a chubby girl.
I agree with you. Guys are jerks when it comes to dating girls.
They go straight for the most pretty and skinny ones and that is just so shallow.
They don't take the time to get to know a girl who may be chubby.
A girl may be chubby ; so what? she still has feelings too.
But most guys don't understand that.
But there are guys that will get to know a girl and date her and accept how she looks like no matter what.



what happens when you run out've rollover minutes?? can you get more er can you only use your 500 a month if thats how many monthly you have??

thanks!! (link)
I have Cingular and if you go over the amount of minutes you have monthly in this case it's 500 and you have rollover minutes then you use those.
If you run of out your monthly amount of minutes AND rollover minutes then you have no minutes left and you have to pay extra if you use the minutes you don't have.
Make sense? If you need anymore help drop one in my inbox


ilove this guy what should i do? (link)
Go out with him.





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