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Fat ppl have feelings to
Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....
Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?
and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?
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hrm. I may not like to admit it, but i'm guilty of this, and i will continue to be so.
Its because guys see much more of girls that arent overweight, and they dont like to be around people that look differnt. Like, would you want to hang around someone who is mentally challenged all day, every day?
They dont like to date girls like that because like I said, theyre differnt. It also ties into the whole reputation thing, but not as much as it seems.
Physical apperance is the first thing someone will notice, its what sparks intrest in someone.. You can be the best person inside, but if they dont approach you and see it, it wont help.
(and, though it may not count for anyhting, the fat people in my school dont lose self esteem, they think theyre better then everyone else, and go around that way.)
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Im a pretty good looking guy who has dated all kinds of girls, never a extremely fat girl because the opportunity has never appeared. I can honestly say(not stereotyping, its just in my case) that I had the most fun with the chubby ones, they are great in bed, and most of the times, they are not stuck up, and they always keep it real. I love my chubby girls, like the saying says " more cushion for the pushing.
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Not all guys are like that.
Some guys like skinny girls. Some guys like fat girls. It all depends on the guy and his maturity level.
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It's a group mentality thing brought out by individuals being dumb. Consider it a way of them removing themselves from the Potentially Dateable field.
Heh. Most girls I've dated have been fat chicks. Maybe it's my spectrum of friends, but we never make fun of fat girls. No, we make fun of dumb people, who can be all shapes and sizes.
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Not all guys are jerks to fat chicks, but some are. They are because in our society it is viewed as a weakness if a person is fat. It's the same reason we make fun of gays. And you don't like to date fat guys, so don't chastise us for not wanting to date fat girls. Fat people should expect to get someone fat in return. If you want to be with a good looking person, then it helps to be good looking yourself.
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Ok don't jump on me but.. do you like to date boys who are fat or have greasy pimple faces or who know how to turn on a computer than turn on a girl? Yeah.. I didn't really think so.
Another important question to ask is why are girls suck jerks toward fat girls also?
This is a situation that is not a fault of boys or girls alone but society in general. I'm not going to get into a rant about this but I'm just going say that right now it sucks hard but as you and those boys get older you'll all start to notice what's on the inside of people and not just what's on the outside. I am 20 years old and have never been the toothpick or the fat girl... but I still got picked on. There will always be assholes and there will always be truly kind people- it's part of life and you just have to learn who to surround yourself with. What exactly is it about the "cool" guys that makes them so cool and why are you so attracted to them. Is it their abs, their guitar, or their infectious vibrant personality? If it is the latter then you are a lot more mature than most people your age(or mine). All I can assure you is that I promise people eventually grow up.. and if they don't, you'll realize you don't need to be wasting your time around them.
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dont worri some guyz just liek to show off especially if it means that they hurt someone's feeling and if they get attention.. wen you find the person that truely loves you he wont be such a jerk.. some guys do like cubby gurlz. the guyz who dont look onlii at the lookz.. who actually look for someone to havve fun with and have a good and normal realation ship wont do that.. they will love you for who you are..
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Because they are fucking pricks. They can't see past the boobs or the butt or the "drawn on face". Some guys love chubby girls. And if they do like chubby girls, i think that's very mature & nice of them.
Guys tease chubby girls because they know that the chubby girls get very sensetive about it. I have this chubby friend of mine & these guys CONTANSTLY tease her about her weight. So whenever i walk with her to class or something i'll always have to tell them off because she's so embarrassed & hurt to do it herself. Ugh i just feel like kicking their ass!
Guys are just shallow. They piss me off when it comes to something like this.
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Guys are such big asshloes they always go out with some stuckup skinny bitchy cock weird girls and they just need to look that thick girls are as better than these skinny chicks,and these thick girls need to stop letting themself go when a hott and sexy guy dates them and dumps them they want to stay in their home and eat till their sick.
I am very happy that you agree with me about this
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Because people are ignorant fools, and those who treat people in such a manner will get what's coming to them; don't you worry about that. Karma is a bitch, and they'll get theirs.
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I really have no idea. They're all stupid jerks.
Well... most of them...
My boyfriend actually prefers girls with "curves." So you just have to look.
Really, I think it's stupid and jerky and ... ugh [hkleahklrheiy893y4032ukdja] that boys are like that. I mean.. you hug her too hard and she BREAKS IN HALF!
Boys just, sometimes, want to get in your pants. The one's that only go out with 'sticks with a drawn on face' usually just want sex. I will admit, there are exceptions. [A very FEW exceptions....]
It's hard to find a nice boy. My best friend is a boy. He's nice. My boyfriend is a boy. He's also nice. But then again, they're both homeschooled geeks. Try being friends with the homeschooled geeks. They're really nice. Even if they look strangely gothic... or maybe strangely... smart. They're nice.
This is an inadequate answer to your question. But maybe it's provided some insight.
-FunnyCide
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Honestly, as hard as it is to believe in high school, not all males are dicks. There is a period of time between about 12 and 18 where they all SEEM like dicks. But many of them overcome it.
Women are beautiful and attractive creatures, not just in their physical appearance. Many men come to understand that is time, but when they are young they just 'follow the pack' and the pack says that women you can snap in half are the only ones worth dating.
The ones who don't over come this pack mentality are not worth speaking to; in your adult life it is much easier to simply choose not too associate with them.
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because the sa truth is, most guys are shallow. they only want girls who look perfect, they dont care what they'er like inside. i know, it really sucks, but when you find a guy who really likes you, he wont care about how you look (at least not too much) ;D
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Basically the number one reason is because they don't want people to talk.
They don't want to be teased about dating a chubby girl.
I agree with you. Guys are jerks when it comes to dating girls.
They go straight for the most pretty and skinny ones and that is just so shallow.
They don't take the time to get to know a girl who may be chubby.
A girl may be chubby ; so what? she still has feelings too.
But most guys don't understand that.
But there are guys that will get to know a girl and date her and accept how she looks like no matter what.
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basically guy s are all dicks, they think becuase they have them they should think with them. most guys think of girls as a piece of ass and they want the nicest piece of ass to talk about to their friends. basically just dont listen to what they say becuase maybe theyre the ones dating the skinny girls now but when they grow up theyre going to be the ones all alone while your dating all the hotties :)
hope i helped!
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