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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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how do you get over someone that you care soo much about but they could care less about you? pleasee help me!!

It takes time to get over someone. You have to be patient about them. Sometimes you just can't let go of that special someone. You'll forget abnout them soon enough. Hope I helped!

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okay i want a guys opinion or answer since its about a guy. how can a gurl tell if a guys likes them. like my ex boyfreind said we broke up b/c he thinks of me more as a bestfreind than a gurlfriend and he like is always looking at me and like teasing me and stuff like that but he has a g.f. and i have another freind that i likie but i cant tell if he likes me..there r 2. like a games and stuff we joke around and he puts his arm around me and stuff. HELP! i rate 5z for good answers!!!

They hang around you more and might do silly stuff. He may even lean in for a kiss. Just wait it out and he may tell you his feelings. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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How do you get to know someone that you kinda like but dont know .. like .. at all. Hes new and i think i really like him. Hes so funny and different than any other guy. I like him and i wanna get to know him and maybe ask him to homecomming even if i ts just as "friends"

My advice 4 u: Don't be afraid and just go ask him. The worst that can happen is if he says no. Become friends with him and see what happens from there. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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im getting headachs alot and i recently got an ipod so i have been listening to that alot.. could it be that? also i heard if you dont blowdry your hair, you end up getting headachs.. i wash my hair everynight and i dont usually blow dry it ..what could cause these headachs?

IPod's can do it if you listen it for longs periods of time on full blast. Also, make sure you get plenty of sleep. Other than that, I don't think not blowdrying your hair will do it. Hope i helped!

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Ok yesterday at lunch he decided to come and bother me and my friends (with his 2 friends) and EVERYBODY was like can you leave bcuz they HATE him and SO they wouldnt.... SO we all moved to a diff. table so when i got home i was iming him asking him why he was so immature and shit and he was calling me a bitch and never to talk to him again and that hed die if i ever got a BF (loser)... SO he blocked me and today at lunch i walked by his table coming from the snackbar and he and those two friends screamed "slut" as i walked by and they were all laughing and shit... WHAT DO i do hes my frigin cousin and he totally embarassed me in front of this BOY I LIKE and everything...

Well this sounds tough but the thing is you have to deal with him. And the other thing is you're related to him. Reality is, you can talk to him but it may not do any good. Just hope that he will leave you alone. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do

and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i don't know what to do and she's always saying how they are moving to california after her degree.

help i am hurt, confused

Well that's not a friend, that's a backstabber. She's just jealous. Let things blow over and you can talk to her. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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What do you do when you have a teared vocal cord??? How do you fix this... I hurt it today and chorus and IT KILLS!!! it was on accident too and i HAVE CHORUS EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!

Have your mom or dad write your teacher a note explaining what happened. Don't talk, sing or do anything that can cause more damage to it. Go see a doctor ASAP and he can tell you what's wrong. And since you won't be able to talk, I suggest learning Sign Language to communicate. It's a language that allows people to speak with their hands. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok so here i go before i talked about this guy i met at school at registration and he was so kl. well i saw him the other day and all he said was Hi!!!! compared 2 before when he talked for like 1 hour and 30 mins.... im not sure what 2 do? i really want his number and email or something but im so not the type of girl 2 ask a boy for there number! i heard he hangs around in the common room shall i just go there and see if he talks 2 me. someone advice me i will rate u high.thanx in advance.

Yeah go there and see if he talks to ya. If not, well don't die to get him to notice you. Go up and introduce yourself. You'll get his # and e-mail adress. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My best friend who isn't a virgin, and I am 18 and am still a virgin, by choice I feel that I should wait until I am truly in love. Well any ways we got in to a fight to day and she said some ignorant thing, saying that I am a virgin because I can't get none. Which is so not true. I don't know if I should still be friends with her or not. And then we get in to fights because she is with her boy friend all the time, and we never spend any time together except for school. what should I do

I think its OK to be a virgin. I'm still a virgin. I'm waiting untill marriage. Hope I helped!

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What are some healthy snacks you can replace with junk food to not eat just a bunch of swets- but somethign actually nutricious! Lol please don't send me to a website to look b/c i hate it when they do that...
Thanks in advance- I rate high!

I won't send you to a website. Instead I will tell you that carrots, celery and any kind of vegetable or fruit. HOPE I HELPED!!!

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I'm new to the school, and I just talked to this kid today who doesn't talk to anyone either, well I just asked him a question. He seems really cool & I really want to start being friends with him, or just talk to him. I don't want him to think I'm super weird, but I just want to start talking to him, because we're the only two that don't in the whole class of 25 people.

What's a good way to start conversation with this kid. The only time I see him is in that class, so I don't really know what to say. =/

Thanks a bunch.

Just ask him how he's doing or ask him about the homework. Hopefully you two will become friends. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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okay well on my progress report i got a 75 in 1 of my advanced classes. well my mom told me to pull it up or no more football games(which i love) & i would be grounded forever..well on my AR tests i got an 80/300 so it pulled my grade down to a 50 & i have this paper my mom has to sign with my grade average on it. i got it on thursday but ive hidden it because im scared to show her. my scores arent really my fault though. the books i read 2/3 of them werent AR. so it led me to have to take 1 test on a book i never read & i got a 20 & the other i was almost finished but not quite & i got a 60. what should i do? im really scared to show her..

Wel first of all, never be ashamed of yourself or what you've accomplished. Just show her and she'll understand. She's your mother. Or you can show it to your dad who will probably be easier on you. Hope I helped!

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I think im an average looking girl. I have chestnut borwn hair, blue eyes, long lashes, and I nice body. My friends tell me I'm funny and fun to be around. At camp one kid even said I was hot! At school, no one has ever liked me. Not even in elementary has anyone had a dumb crush on me! What don't guys like about someone like me? I'm not nerd though I get staright As and stuff. I don't get it! I know looks aren't everything but I have a PERSONALITY! Guys, what wouldn't you like?

OK you may not believe this but trust me when I say that one special guy is looking for you. Just wait for him to come to you. Every girl is pretty in their own special way. This is why God put us on Earth for a purpose. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Im 13/f

There's this guy I really like. Last year, we were really good friends, especially since we had all our classes together. Now we're in the 8th grade, we have NO classes together (grrrr)! I barely see him during the day. Now we've kind of spread apart. What can I do? Do you think Instant Messaging could help in any way?

Yes IM can help. Get his IM adress and hang around him like during a break or lunch. Hope I helped!

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Okay, I'm curious as to what you all think about this.
My boyfriend tends to travel in the summer. The summer between 11th and 12th grade, he went to Vegas. The summer after that (this one), he went to Florida. Both times, I cried quite a bit (I also happened to be PMSing both times, I think, but I'm not sure if that actually has anything to do with it). On saturday, he left for Florida again, for college. This is the start of (essentially) a five-year separation. I know this, and it upsets me...but I didn't really cry. I mean, there were a couple of tears, which he adorably wiped away, but there weren't like..."storms of tears", as a friend would put it. I really don't understand why I'm not more upset about him being gone. I won't see him until mid-December, and I'm used to seeing him quite a bit. (We're a very clingy/touchy couple)
We're engaged, so I'm not worried about him going and finding some other girl. He was only home for about two weeks, one of which I was stuck at school for, so I only got to see him for...well, threeish days (I kidnapped him, kinda, and kept him in my dorm), and then about four hours on friday before he left.
Shouldn't I be more upset that we're separated?
I think part of the reason I'm not is because I told him to go. He's going to Full Sail, which I hear is an incredibly good tech-school-type-place, and I wanted him to go and get a jumpstart on his career. I don't do regret, so I don't regret telling him to go, but I miss him...
But at the same time, I'm not upset...like...at all.
What's going on in my head? (Not that you can actually answer that...but you can try, right?)
Please, no stupid answers or chatspeak. I'll only rate you down.
-Siren =)

Well its best to support him in his needs and put aside your own. But on the other hand, he's leaving for like 5 years so I would make the best of this situation. If he has a cell phone and they get coverage up there, call him like once a week just to let him know you're thinking of him. I know its tough but you guys sound like a pretty tough couple that won't let anything tear you apart. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok i have like a redish brown hair and today im going to get it died mayb like just a brown then get like cranberry blonde and carmel highlights...do you guyz thinks its a good look or not?

I'll right all 's for all answers!
thanks

Yeah that sounds like a good look for you. Hope I helped!

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okay my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 1/2 months and we haven't made-out yet....i am scared to make-out...i have never made out with a guy before (sad i know) but i need help....i get all these feelings inside of me like scared, nervous, and (funny)but i get a feeling like that i think i will mess up... ihave no clue on what to do i despiratley need someone's help....( i dont know if we should try it the next time we go to the movies or what, help)
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Well if you think you're going to mess up, you will. Just go with the flow and let him come to you. If either of you have braces, keep it light and simple. And if both of you take mints beforehand, it can be very pleasurable for both of you. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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13/female...

I know it's hard for you guys to answer specific questions like this one if you've never met me or the guy i'm about to tell you 'bout. But thanx if you can give me your honest opinion on this, i'll rate you if your advice helped me!

Okay, so there's this guy I like. I'm on his bus. His locker's kind of near mine, and his house is within walking distance. We used to talk a whole lot last year, but we don't really talk to much now..I mean, we still do, but not as much.

So anyways. I have some signs that he likes me too. They are -
-when he passes me in the hall sometimes, he doesn't say hi, but he says "ew, it's you!" in a flirty kind of way..then he smiles at me.
-he always laughs when i try to make a joke or be funny
-one of his friends talks about me and the guy i like when i am alone with his friend (he just talks about conversations we've all had and stuff..nothing too important..)
-he always tries to sit near me on the bus, if he can. but sometimes he'll try to sit with his friends. Sometimes he even sits with me, but that was only twice.

Also- there are some signs he doesn't like me. They are:
-He flirts A LOT with other girls, not just me.
-He asks other girls if they like him (BUT NOT ME)
-He says he doesn't like me (my idiodic friend asked him one day! now he avoids me a lot, cause he has the right idea, that i DO like him!)
-He also tries to sit next to this one girl who I HATE (cause she's pretty and seems like she's perfect, pretty much everything that i'm not!)
-His friends and him talk about me sometimes, and they were calling me retarted and stuff..but that's just the way boys are lol

I'm SO sorry this is so long, but my real question is - do you think there is any way I can get his attention on ME and not other girls? Also - do you think he likes me and what can i do to get him to ask me out/what can i do to ask him out? Please help. Thanks so much! Like I said I will rate if it helped ♥

Well its your call on whether or not he likes you. Sometimes when guys don't recieve the right signals from the girl, they move on. To get attention, maybe like if he sits by you again, touch his arms and legs a little, move closer to him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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hey...my mom is older than some moms and im only 13 aand im scared that something bad is going to happen to her while im still young.

Its all going to be OK. Just don't worry about her as much and spend time with her. Hope I helped!

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i need some great yet easy pranks to get my friends. we all ways prank each other, but i havent had a good one in a while. all suggestions will get 5's.

Get a robot to talk to them and that will be funny. Or put hunny and string in their beds when their sleeping. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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