I know it's hard for you guys to answer specific questions like this one if you've never met me or the guy i'm about to tell you 'bout. But thanx if you can give me your honest opinion on this, i'll rate you if your advice helped me!
Okay, so there's this guy I like. I'm on his bus. His locker's kind of near mine, and his house is within walking distance. We used to talk a whole lot last year, but we don't really talk to much now..I mean, we still do, but not as much.
So anyways. I have some signs that he likes me too. They are -
-when he passes me in the hall sometimes, he doesn't say hi, but he says "ew, it's you!" in a flirty kind of way..then he smiles at me.
-he always laughs when i try to make a joke or be funny
-one of his friends talks about me and the guy i like when i am alone with his friend (he just talks about conversations we've all had and stuff..nothing too important..)
-he always tries to sit near me on the bus, if he can. but sometimes he'll try to sit with his friends. Sometimes he even sits with me, but that was only twice.
Also- there are some signs he doesn't like me. They are:
-He flirts A LOT with other girls, not just me.
-He asks other girls if they like him (BUT NOT ME)
-He says he doesn't like me (my idiodic friend asked him one day! now he avoids me a lot, cause he has the right idea, that i DO like him!)
-He also tries to sit next to this one girl who I HATE (cause she's pretty and seems like she's perfect, pretty much everything that i'm not!)
-His friends and him talk about me sometimes, and they were calling me retarted and stuff..but that's just the way boys are lol
I'm SO sorry this is so long, but my real question is - do you think there is any way I can get his attention on ME and not other girls? Also - do you think he likes me and what can i do to get him to ask me out/what can i do to ask him out? Please help. Thanks so much! Like I said I will rate if it helped ♥
soccergurlie1220 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 9:40 pm: lol ihave the same problem! Well I'd just go to a close friend of his and MAKE them tell ya if he likes yea. Or you get one of your friends to become real good friends with him and have your friend tell ya what up. Or just plan out ask him if he like you. Sorry that's all the adivce i really have hope that helps though!
summerlovex3 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 4:01 pm: Ok this kind of sounds like a thing I had with a guy. The way it turned out with me was, taht he did like me a little bit but he liked the other girl more. He found out that the girl was a slut but he stoped liking me. So my best advice would be is flirt with him, get his attention and be nice, bc if he does loose interest in the other girl, he might've lost interest in you, so keep him interested. Hope this helps.
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Melanie4981 answered Friday September 9 2005, 11:00 pm: Hey chick-a-dee (this is an english girl saying!) one o fthe first ways you know a guy likes you in a way that is more than friends when you have been mates with him before is that he ignores you..... this is because he is embarressed/nervous talking to you.
If you were friends with him before all this happened then try anf collar him on his own one evening and see how he acts, If he can't find anything to say to you then chances are he likes you and doesn't know how to act around you.... it happens to all of us! Promise (I spent a whole year chasing my secondary (high school if in US) school sweetheart aroud playin on the same joke.
naimee answered Friday September 9 2005, 10:56 pm: Hey!
Well, from what I see the things he does towards you are signs that he could possibly like you. But boys are boys you know how they are, they flirt with every girl possible. Do you think it's possible he knows that you like him? That's why he doesn't want to ask you? Or maybe he doesn't want to ask you just in case you might say no, then that might make your relationship awkward?
I think since you guys were closer last year more then this year you need to talk to him a lot more so you can get to be as close as you were last year. But, I definitely don't think you should give up on this kid, try & actually have a conversation with him asking him who he likes and stuff! See, if he actually likes the girl that you hate, or if he likes you back! =)
o0xQTpiex0o answered Friday September 9 2005, 10:53 pm: a boy does the samething with me but hes just messing with you and hes your friend i think he doesnt have feelings for you but if he starts like flirting alot he probaly does
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