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I think im an average looking girl. I have chestnut borwn hair, blue eyes, long lashes, and I nice body. My friends tell me I'm funny and fun to be around. At camp one kid even said I was hot! At school, no one has ever liked me. Not even in elementary has anyone had a dumb crush on me! What don't guys like about someone like me? I'm not nerd though I get staright As and stuff. I don't get it! I know looks aren't everything but I have a PERSONALITY! Guys, what wouldn't you like?
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OK you may not believe this but trust me when I say that one special guy is looking for you. Just wait for him to come to you. Every girl is pretty in their own special way. This is why God put us on Earth for a purpose. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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ok you may not think this but there is one guy who knows you that you may not know but there is some person who likes you no mater what you think i promise the same thing happened to me
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i am like the exact same way! it seems like guys, at least the ones at my school, want girls they can fool around with ,and dont really want too much of an emoational relationship, or any sort of comitment. So, I dont like to go with those guys. For example, I have been broken up with by this guy because I would NOT give him head. I mean its the stupid stuff like that, and yess its true. I Have a boyfriend now who is two grades older than me and we have been together since Feb.2nd, 2004 and he is soo much more mature, and he never wants to fool around, and he is really sweet, and loves me for me both inside and out. And I had to do through alot of lemons first! man, I dated some downright awful guys! and actualy got pressured into stuff that i didnt want to do, and i did it anyways, with hopes that then the guy would like me, and oh no! he didnt, he got mad when I told people. And you DONT want any type of relationship like that. let the guy come to you, dont go to the guy. make him appreciate you. You may feel like a loser now, but who will be the loser when those guys and girls have slept with their whole class and had STDS and babies that they cant afford to take care of? THEY WILL BE! and you, you will still have your pride, reputation, and virginity! and if thats all you get out of highschool, thats sooo good! In the long run! even if you want to have a boyfriend now, wait for a nice guy who loves you for you, inside and out.
Your so beautiful! Inside and out!
Don't let some guy use you!
Here is the ultimate test. If he "loves" you and respects you and wants to stay with you even if you wont fool around, or do "stuff" then he is true, and real. But if you decide to test him, and stop the stuff,and fooling around, then he breaks up with you, then he wasnt true!
If you EVER need ANYTHING at all, PLEASE feel totally free to ASK ME ANYTHING AT ALL!!
Im always there for you, and I'll do my best to help you!!
-Kelsey-
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Do not ask guys your age what they like in girls they sure as hell do not know. I was one of them. Girls at this age are three times more intellectually developed than they are. Girls therefore know more often what they want than boys do and take cahrge and get it.
I have a feeling what is happening is lots of boys like you but feel intimidated to talk to you because you are beautiful and they are shy and think she would never ever want me so why bother? Make it easy for people by learning about them and leaving the door open to things.
Rsentment could be another reason you are having trouble. If you score top marks and the teachers dote on you the kids in your class will give you grief. You have to be modest, keep your marks to yourseld, never be loud, or precieved as an arrogant little priss.
Your personality is fine as far as I or anyone else will tell. Nobody is going to like you or love you even if you do not like and love your ownself. If your self-esteem is in the gutter than no wonder your mental vision on who does and doesn't like you is flawed.
Who and or what are you mentally out of tune with when it comes to relationships? Get the answer and figure things out. Be a listener first and then a speaker around people.
I KNOW YOU DID THIS AS WE ALL DO IT: Think about the people you did not listen to or brushed aside. Maybe those people are the best friends or lovers you could be with. What were you doing when they came looking for you or were too afraid? Think about that and be more open and people will come to you. Any arrogance, conceit, anger, fear will sink your boat.
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