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Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?! (link)
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if shes only your friend its not weird. shes a good friend to you and you love spending time with her, its completely normal. hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend? (link)
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just because they arent each others type doesnt mean you shouldnt be friends with both. they may even get along better than you think they do. dont drop one or the other, their both good friends so stay with both of them.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet... (link)
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well since you already act like your going out then why not try it, you have a pretty good relationship with this guy it seems. go out and it can only make things better. things may not seem much different though because like i said before, you already act like your going out.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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ok so there is this guy.. he is a senior and he knows i like him... and i think he has been dropping little hints that he likes me too, like one day he had sugar all over his mouth and he asked me to wipe it off for him... and it was so sweet.. he is always so flirty around me but idk... im not the most attracted girl and this guy is pretty popular... what do i do? (link)
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well to start off i think he definitly likes you. be flirty around him and maybe one thing will lead to another and he'll ask you out. and as far as "popular" goes... just because someone isn't considered popular doesnt mean their not a good person, i think he realizes that.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~* (link)
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well i think you should do it when your ready, theres no question about that. when your ready (and he obviously is) then go ahead, you've been in this relationship for alomost 9 months now. so its up to you.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx. (link)
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theres a chance, you could be or you may not be. its definitly possible though. wait and see. go buy a pregnancy test to see if your pregnant or not.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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theres no specific age, go ahead when your ready to. its your choice and your choice alone. if your ready and you know that then go ahead. if you feel pushed and your not ready then dont. its your decision.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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I really like this boy. (lets call him Popcorn) But...the thing is I met him online. Not in a chatroom. Actually, I met him on advicenators...and...I started talking to Popcorn and we never made a connection really until during this past summer. We started talking a lot on AIM and I really like him. I told him...and he said he likes me too (this happened in the summer) He told me we shouldnt get into anything serious though because we live across the country from each other.
It's hurting.
I mean I thought it was all okay because my friend Brian asked me out...and we started going out and I thought that was better and stuff because Brian was someone whose actually here (not across the country and not someone I just talk to online)...and I really really liked Brian (we started going out in November)
Ever since September my computer has had a virus so I wasnt able to go online and talk to Popcorn for months...the only time I talked to him since my computer crashed was when I was over my friends house and we were online. So then Popcorn came online and I told him that I've been going out with someone named Brian for about a week, and he's like "really?!? I was just gonna tell you that I had a girlfriend."
And the freaky thing is...me and Popcorn both started going out with someone in the same week...and so we notified each other that we were going out with someone else...and we were both fine with each other going out with someone else I guess...
Then on Dec. 3 I broke up with Brian, (not because of Music) but just because it wasn't working between me and Brian and Brian said he still loves me (but I never loved him...I just liked him)...and we are still really really good friends...and since I broke up with Brian I cant stop thinking about Popcorn...and I really dont know if Popcorn still has a girlfriend.
And this may sound terrible, but I hope he doesn't...cuz I really like him again. I feel so selfish. I don't know why. Last night I was thinking about him and it just scares me that I really like him this much and I've never met him, although I love his personaility and his voice when he talked to me on mic before.
I just don't know what to do. My internet at home should be fixed soon...and I'll start talking to Popcorn again hopefully...but what if he still has a girlfriend?...and even if he doesn't, what can I do? I like him and I was thinking about him last night and you know how when you like someone you think about being with them and holding hands or kissing or something?...well...lets just say that's how it is with Popcorn. It was all of a sudden too. LIke I thought I stopped liking him and I still liked Brian after I broke up with him (I broke up with him because of a certain reason thats too hard to explain)...and yeah its just all confusing now...
But all I know is I still really like Popcorn, and I dont know what to do because obviously if he has a girlfriend he doesnt like me anymore...and even if he doesnt whose to say he likes me then?
Im sorry for it being so long of a question...please just help me with anything you can do...
I'm also a cutter, and I'm afraid to think about this too much because if I get upset I'm afraid I may cut myself more...and I cant because my family knows that I do it and every once in a while they check my arms.
okay sorry Im done now. Please help asap I have to get off this computer in about 30 minutes.
Thank you if you help.
-Me (link)
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well thats some story you have there, seems very diffucult for you and i understand how you feel. i think it would never work witt a long distance relationship like that. you would never ever get to see each other. talk to him and ask if he still has a girlfriend and tell him you broke up with your boyfriend. keep talking to him. he can be like your best friend, your guy to flirt with but until your old enough to move out of your house and go live in the same area as him most likely it will never work. all you can do is be really good online friends. i know you like him alot and you may not be able to resist going out with this guy. so if you do try to be as honest as you can with him and talk to him alot. i hope it all works out for you.
good luck!
~~StEf~~
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me and my bf r going to have sex. im a virgin and he isnt. how much does it hurt? and what are all the ways u can get pregnant? thanks (link)
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it depends, for some girls it hurts alot and for others it hurts only a little bit. it hurts the most when he first goes in but after that its fine. and you can get pregnant by not using protection.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice? (link)
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you should tell him about it because then you have a better chance of going out with him again. also no one deserves to be led on like that. its just not fair to anyone.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else. (link)
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i think you should go out with him again. he seems like he really loves you. give him another chance! see what happens and then decide what to do next.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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ok-----I have a stepsister named Danielle. She's 16. She has a boyfriend named DeShaun.---He's 14. (I'm 13.)I don't think they deserve each other because they are always on the phone fighting about something. Secretly, Danielle sucked her ex-boyfriend's dick behind DeShaun's back. He dosn't know. No one knows----but me. They are so dysfunctional and they distrust each other so much. To the point that it irratates anyone around them. It's confusing----some nights they could be on the phone making nasty sounds and the next they are screaming at each other. Danielle has had soooooooooo many boyfriends since she was like 11-----but shes had DeShaun for one and a half years. Now..... Danielle is sort of a slutty gold digger, (if you ask me), and DeShaun just happens to be rich. Well, alot richer than me and Danielle (i dont know your perspective of "rich")Even though I think Danielle is a slutty hoe-bag, (she took my 15 year old summer "boyfriend" Laron(i hung out with him every day in the summer----and she knew we liked each other!!!!) away from me for like a week and got his phone number, (that bitch!!!!)but i feel bad for DeShaun because Danielle constantly cheats on him------and DeShaun's not very smart so he has no idea. What should I do??? (link)
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you need to tell DeShaun about your sister cheating on him. he has to know. as far as Danielle goes shes a slut and its gonna be that way. make sure you tell Deshaun that hes being cheated on and tell him everything you know.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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Theres this boy I like, Zach. I only met him once and that was at my almost but now ex-almost-boyfriend. My ex-almost-boyfriend-and-now-ex-friend(Lets call him MEABANEF) Well, MEABANEF had a birthday party and thats where I met Zach. MEABANEF paid no attention to me hardly and only to his ex-girlfriend who is now his girlfriend. Zach did pay attention to me though. A lot. And in a flirty way. Like, when I fell asleep, coming downstairs a lot to try and wake me up so I wouldn't miss out on stuff. Just basically paying me a lot of attention and in more flirty ways as time went on.(Oh, yes, I fell asleep at MEABANEF's party. It was so much fun, I just couldn't stay awake) So I got his(Zach) screenname and I've been talking to him but I'm not sure if he likes me. We exchanged phone numbers and we plan on chillin together at the mall some time with a few other people but I just don't know how to tell him I like him. I seriously want to and I'm very outgoing with these things but theres a problem with this one. If it turned out he didn't like me, and he started trying to not be around me so much anymore/talk to me much anymore. I would never see him or talk to him because we go to different schools. So, I'm not quite sure what I want or should do. I just know I really want to go out with him and I think this boy is a good choice, I just need help going about getting him. (link)
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if you like him then keep hanging out with him and be flirty and stuff. then when you know each other good and there seems to be "love" tention then ask him out, if he acts flirty around you then he probably feels the same way!
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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I think that my friend and I about ready to try . But I know that it is going to hurt her. Is there nething that I can do to help reduce her pain? (link)
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well yeah its gonna hurt her but shes gotta start somewhere, it will always hurt at first, theres nothing you can do to relieve her pain. eventually she wont feel any pain after doing it for a long time.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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OK.. kind of a complicated situation.. I am currently dating this great guy.. hes 16.. and we just got through a temp. break up.. well.. today.. i found out my ex just moved back to his dads from tennesse.. he was the guy i lost my virginity to..hes now 18.. im 14.. i know im young.. but i love them both.. and i know they both like me.. the 16 year old is in love with me.. i found out the 18 year old was back today when i saw him walking.. i met up with him.. and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. well.. we ended up in a french kiss.. i told him me n my boyfriend were broken up..
i dont feel bad about the kiss.. it was great.. but i feel bad that i lied to the guy i kissed..
i have to choose between these two guys.. who do u think i should choose? (link)
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well you obviously like the 18 year old better. you should dump the 16 year old because you need to go with the guy you like better. follow your heart!
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks. (link)
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well if you cant afford counceling and he definitly wont try harder to work things out then it may be better for the child to be brought up with you not together. things could get worse and worse for the child with the relationship you and this guy have. i think its just best that you try to bring the child up as normally as possible. thats how things will have to be. im sorry your in such a situation like this.
hope i helped,
~STef~~
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Okay... I am a fifteen year old female and i have this male friend that is 17 years old and we are talking about becoming b/f-g/f and he doesnt want to become b/f-g/f right now but he wants to do more with me than i want to do with him unless we are going out and i dont know how to tell him without him getting the wrong message (link)
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tell him you dont want to get involved in anything if your not going to start a relationship. tell him you want to be b/f-g/f or its not gonna happen. thats just how it is.
hope i helped,
~~StEf~~
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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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you should talk to your mom about this or go see a gyno. if your mom doesnt know what to do the gyno. probably will. this isnt normal so you need to find out immediatly whats going on.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on? (link)
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invite him over your house or go over his house sometime then maybe you can take it to the next level when yours/his parents arent home. thats the only way i can think of that you can be alone.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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you may have or may not have. see what happens, you should be flirty and stuff so if he does still like you maybe you have a second chance. you never know unless you give it a try.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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