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I dont know anymore...
I really like this boy. (lets call him Popcorn) But...the thing is I met him online. Not in a chatroom. Actually, I met him on advicenators...and...I started talking to Popcorn and we never made a connection really until during this past summer. We started talking a lot on AIM and I really like him. I told him...and he said he likes me too (this happened in the summer) He told me we shouldnt get into anything serious though because we live across the country from each other.
It's hurting.
I mean I thought it was all okay because my friend Brian asked me out...and we started going out and I thought that was better and stuff because Brian was someone whose actually here (not across the country and not someone I just talk to online)...and I really really liked Brian (we started going out in November)
Ever since September my computer has had a virus so I wasnt able to go online and talk to Popcorn for months...the only time I talked to him since my computer crashed was when I was over my friends house and we were online. So then Popcorn came online and I told him that I've been going out with someone named Brian for about a week, and he's like "really?!? I was just gonna tell you that I had a girlfriend."
And the freaky thing is...me and Popcorn both started going out with someone in the same week...and so we notified each other that we were going out with someone else...and we were both fine with each other going out with someone else I guess...
Then on Dec. 3 I broke up with Brian, (not because of Music) but just because it wasn't working between me and Brian and Brian said he still loves me (but I never loved him...I just liked him)...and we are still really really good friends...and since I broke up with Brian I cant stop thinking about Popcorn...and I really dont know if Popcorn still has a girlfriend.
And this may sound terrible, but I hope he doesn't...cuz I really like him again. I feel so selfish. I don't know why. Last night I was thinking about him and it just scares me that I really like him this much and I've never met him, although I love his personaility and his voice when he talked to me on mic before.
I just don't know what to do. My internet at home should be fixed soon...and I'll start talking to Popcorn again hopefully...but what if he still has a girlfriend?...and even if he doesn't, what can I do? I like him and I was thinking about him last night and you know how when you like someone you think about being with them and holding hands or kissing or something?...well...lets just say that's how it is with Popcorn. It was all of a sudden too. LIke I thought I stopped liking him and I still liked Brian after I broke up with him (I broke up with him because of a certain reason thats too hard to explain)...and yeah its just all confusing now...
But all I know is I still really like Popcorn, and I dont know what to do because obviously if he has a girlfriend he doesnt like me anymore...and even if he doesnt whose to say he likes me then?
Im sorry for it being so long of a question...please just help me with anything you can do...
I'm also a cutter, and I'm afraid to think about this too much because if I get upset I'm afraid I may cut myself more...and I cant because my family knows that I do it and every once in a while they check my arms.
okay sorry Im done now. Please help asap I have to get off this computer in about 30 minutes.
Thank you if you help.
-Me
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well ok from mty experience long distance relationships don't work like 7 out of 10 times so you want to try adn avoid that. and well maybe he doesn't have a girlfriend. maybe he's just saying that so that you both would and it wouldn't seem so awkward. so he prolly likes you like alot. but long distance relationship is the only thing keeping you guyz apart.
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well thats some story you have there, seems very diffucult for you and i understand how you feel. i think it would never work witt a long distance relationship like that. you would never ever get to see each other. talk to him and ask if he still has a girlfriend and tell him you broke up with your boyfriend. keep talking to him. he can be like your best friend, your guy to flirt with but until your old enough to move out of your house and go live in the same area as him most likely it will never work. all you can do is be really good online friends. i know you like him alot and you may not be able to resist going out with this guy. so if you do try to be as honest as you can with him and talk to him alot. i hope it all works out for you.
good luck!
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Well I can see you really like popcorn and all, but how will you meet him and all. For instance if he doesn't have a girlfriend any more he cnat exactly go out with him on the computer. You might have to tell your parents and he might have to tell his so you can meet. Also you should get his number and talk to him on the phone so you can get to know him better. Also send him your picture, and ask him to send his s you know what he looks like. Good Luck! ~Calie~
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Hey, you know even if popcorn didnt have a girlfriend I dont think it would be a good idea to go out with someone long distance. trust me..not a good idea. But you guys can still talk on aim and all that jazz..just dont think about really liking him in bf/gf way...really like him as a friend way..you know? I know its hard but if you wanna talk about it more ( I Know what your going through) leave one in my inbox!
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