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I have a boyfriend and he really likes me and i like him but theres this other guy that i like alot and i see ihm all the time and he sees me i dont know what to do about ym boyfriend or what to do with the guy i like Plese help i rate high...
Sighned Cunfused

trust me, dont break up with your boyfriend. you'll regret it afterwards and then you wont be able to do anything about it. just go with the flow. if you dont like your boy friend at all later on in the relationship then you should break up with him. but you dont want to live your life regreting that moment. i hope i helped.

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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do?

look, i know you dont want to go up to boys but sometimes you have to be strong. just think to yourself that you can do this and you are tough. you should go up to some guy and say, hi, arnt you in my ____ class? and start up a conversation. if you REALLY think you cant do that then here it is. i think you should dress up in some cute clothes. i hope i helped and rember that you CAN do this.

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Hey, my best friend wants to have a summer party, before school starts, and we have no idea where to have it. We can't have it at her house, she said it won't work. We don't live by the beach, and we want to have it somewhere where we can be alone with some guys. Please help, we're totally stuck. Thanks.
x3 Erin

have everyone meet at a pool, or a skating rink, or the movies.

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okay so the guy ihave had a crush on might come for my b-day but if he doesnt his sis is and i want to write him a letter telling him how i feel of him but im afraid that we will lose the freindship we have cause of that so any suggestions on what to write or any other stuff try not to make it nasty make it okay for a 14 year old guy
will rate HIGH!!!

forget about rating im just here to help. write something like....ok____ i kinda like you or i realy like you, watever you feel comfortable saying. that is all i wanted to write to you so i hope you dont think this is too corny. say that just in case he does, but im prety sure he wont. well, best of luck.

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my mom wont let me see my boyfriend at all. he doesnt have a computer so i cant e-mail him or IM him. and my mom has total control over the phone. i havent been on a date with him at all! ever!! and i've been going out with him for about a month and a half. i wont see him in school because we're in different parts. i miss him so much and i love him so much. what should i do? heeelllppp!!

wow, talk about a sucky situation. i dont WANT to say this but i think this is the only way. you should tell your mom that your going to a friends house and then go somewhere with your bf. if that doesnt work for you then show your mom that you can be resposable. clean when your not told or something like that. i hope i helped out. later gater.

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my brother is a troble maker last year teachers got me in trouble for something i didnt do all the teachers treat me the way they treat my bro im not like him i look diffrent and im my own person but they dont belive that i dont know what to do should i stand up for my self but then maybe get in trouble i dont want that happen im not a trouble maker and i want to show peope that i have a totaly diffrent meaning in life
i dont know what to do
help me please

i really think you SHOULD stand up for yourself. but do it in a calm way. talk to your teachers after class one day. say, look, i know my brother was like that, but im not, and if you want to blame things on me then go ahead...becasue i wont let you get me down. dont yell it at her just in a firm voice. i hope i helped and feel free to drop something in the inbox.

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what are some good song lyrics or quotes that like you'd dedicate to your boyfriend or someone you like

http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/love/
its some really cute quotes.

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My boyfriend is super nice. He is always telling me I'm hot, im sexy, im pretty, im cool, when I don't really think i am. He says he loves me way too much and its strating to get a little annoying. I basically just met him and don't know him as well as I would like to. I feel like hes rushing things, but still hes super nice and he loves me and hes really obsessed with me.....

I rate....

you need to talk to him. tell him that he might be moving alittle too fast for you. tell him that you like him but you just dont feel cofortable when he says awhole bunch of stuff to you. i hope i helped you...if i didnt then sorry.

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Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!!

boys= calob, ryan, jack, charlie, garret, spencer, or kyle

girls= kayla, danielle, leah(my name lol), chelsea, brittany, or hannah.

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how everyones mean to me and i rate them 5 because i think its funny when there mad lol!!! like.. people who said im ugly. i didnt mean it like im think im pretty i was being carcastic.

FREE 5S!

i could talk a five : ) i love you! i mean...i hate you......urg...: (

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ok well our softball team won the state champions and so were going to alabama (we live in texas) and the ride is like 13 or 14 hours. we will need a bunch of games and snakcs.what should i bring?

A CD PLAYER! to just chill and listen to music. or bring some chips for everyone..or cookies that always puts a smile on someone's face right?

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I'm really nervous bout starting highschool, especially the meeting new people part. I'm outgoing, but only when im with people that i know. How will i be able to make friends(and i dont mean join clubs and stuff, i mean like talking to ppl). Whats a good way to make conversation. Just please help me, or at least gimme some support. I will rate 5s.

alright, im here to help you. try to act like your outgoing to ppl you dont know. if you see a few people at the lunch tables then say hi, can i sit here. or in between classes go up to someone and say, hey, arnt you in my english class? just be friendly to everyone. they should like you. if you need anymore support then just drop it in my inbox. : ) leah

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I really need to lose 20 lbs fast if anyone can tell me some ways please i will appreciate it
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jog, watch wat you eat, leg lifts, push ups, and sit ups.

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how do i make a first move on a guy, he knows i like him and schools about to start so i want to make a move on him before i dont get the chance. thanks

go to a movie together...its somewhere dark..hehehe. ya know what i mean. just go for it. if he knows you like him then it shouldnt madder.

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my hands are always really sweaty. i dont know what to do to make them stop being sweaty. what can i do to make them normal?

put some lotin on them. it works

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i'm having no luck getting a boy friend.
Are there any things i can do?
i dont mean like, as far as beauty things. but just flirting things...get things moving again.
thanks, i know its a weird quetion, but i do need help!
i rate high!

get to know some guys you wouldnt normaly talk to. you might be surprized. try to flirt alittle more and put on more lip gloss. i hope it helped you.

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can somebody give me some good country songs please? :)

when the sun goes down-keney chesney & uncle cracker

this kiss-faith hill
i love you-martina mccbride
im here for the party-gretchen wilson

p.s. sorry if i spelled anything wrong

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ok me and a really close friend of mine that are about to hook up are going to the mall together on wednesday and i noe we going to do stuff like hold hands, kiss, make out and yea. i have never had my first kiss but i am not worried because i like this guy and i am just goin to fallow his lead. but anyways he lives across the street from the mall and his parents want to meet me.. i dont know what to do.. i am scared they may not like me or if they ask me something and i answer in a way that i shouldnt?? i am only goin to talk them for 5 minutes because i am not supposed to leave the mall anyway but yea what should i do??? o yea i am 14 and he is 15.. thanks

well, good thing its only for 5 minutes right? lol, ok everyone is afraid to meet the guys parents or who ever's parents. just be polite, smile, and be talkitive. parents like that. dont be scared bc it will be over before you know it. trust me on this one. o and good luck with you and you friend. ♥ leah

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ok I like this boy who is a year older than me...where neighboors and i really like him!! sometimes when my bff comes over we play soccer with him and his friend..how can I tell if he likes me? And should I ask him out? plaese help

try flriting with him. if he flirts back then hes interested. and tryt o catch a glance at him to see if he ever looks at you when your not looking. that is a sign as well. and yes you should ask him out...but only if he shows any signs. i hope i helped. ♥ leah ♥

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I dont kno him this guy likes me. He calls me like 4 times a week and we talk for like hours, If he likes me i dont want to hurt him cuz i dont like him that much. I have a bf and i want to tri to make this work. But this guy is talking to me alot and i might start having feelings for him. So i dont kno if this guy likes me or he might just like me as a friend. I dont want to break up w/ my bf just bc he likes me. But im not sure if he likes me.
Thanks you

lol, im pretty sure he likes you. i agree with you when you say not to break up with your bf. only do that if your SURE that you like him more than your bf. i hope this helped you.
♥ leah

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