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okay so the guy ihave had a crush on might come for my b-day but if he doesnt his sis is and i want to write him a letter telling him how i feel of him but im afraid that we will lose the freindship we have cause of that so any suggestions on what to write or any other stuff try not to make it nasty make it okay for a 14 year old guy
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I guess you and his sister are friends.
Here is the deal. Writing a letter is fine but I wouldn't involve his sister in it. Most siblings don't get along real good for one thing and he may not want her knowing his business. The next thing is he could just think it is a giggly girl thing that you two or doing and are only joking around. In that instance it may even make him mad. So, If you can't speak to him in person ( without sis) Write a letter yourself. Write what you feel. :)
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Truthfully I wouldn't write a little because if he's not going to take this seriously about your feelings towards him, he might show the letter to everyone. I would try talking to him. Tell him how you feel and dont feel embrassed or ashamed. Your telling the truth and that all that matters. If you rather write a letter then thats fine because its your decision. In your letter tell him how your starting to develop feelings for him and it makes you feel better letting him know. When writing your letter dont obess over him. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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i know writing a letter is easy... but you need to TELL him how you feel (in person phone w/e). plus you can get his reaction as soon as he hears it and you wont have to wait on a response.
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hey im ash and i think that you should just be like i really like you and even if you dont like me how i like you i really hope we could still be friends and explain youur feelings just lets you heart pour out and at the end say if this doesnt make to much sense its because it all came from my heart i didnt think while righting i just wrote how my heart feels about you. good luck Ashlee
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Wow... It's been awhile since I was 14... well 4 years... You just need to write in the letter that you have developed feelings for him. and that you would like to try and see if you can develope a relationship.. Also let him know that if he doesnt want anything further then friendship to go on between you two not to let the letter ruin what you guys have.. That even through he doesnt wanna date... That you would still like to be friends... I hope this makes sense..
Hope This Helps.. Good Luck
**Jackie**
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forget about rating im just here to help. write something like....ok____ i kinda like you or i realy like you, watever you feel comfortable saying. that is all i wanted to write to you so i hope you dont think this is too corny. say that just in case he does, but im prety sure he wont. well, best of luck.
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Hmm... You kids are into hip lingo these days, i'll try.
Yo Dog. Word to your mother, your mother is representing, as are you. I will let you molest me for a small fee, I are a sleezy garden hoe word dog? I am hip to the lingo, you dig?
git-r-done.
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