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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do?
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Change your look,
Makeup
HAIR.. THAT REALLY PUTS IT ALL TOGETHER.
CLOTHES
SHOES
BE MORE, WILLING TO POP UP TO A GUY AND SAY HI
BlessEs.
-Soraa.
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Get people to notice you. Throw a party.
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smile and just plain old be friendly. if you walk around smiling for no reason people will be friendly towards you (including the guys) and if a hott guy is sitting alone go and talk to him! he'll enjoy the company and may even notice you! they may not notice you alone.... they may need your help!
hope i helped
<3<3 anne givings
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Sometimes attractive girls intimidate guys. Sometimes they think things like, "She's so hot, she would never date me." Or, "She's so good looking, she has to be a stuck up brat." They assume things, just based on how you look. I don't know if that's what's happening with your situation, but it's possible.
Try being as friendly as possible, without being air-headed friendly. I don't mean slutty like flirting or whatever, I mean just smiling at people... Saying "Hi, how's it going" to people. Not just guys you want to date, but people in general. Then guys may see you as a down-to-earth girl who is accessible, and they might be more likely to strike up a conversation with you.
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all the guys in your skool are stupid gay ass losers ... if they cant see what those guys online do then they're stupid gay losers who arent worth your worries
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look, i know you dont want to go up to boys but sometimes you have to be strong. just think to yourself that you can do this and you are tough. you should go up to some guy and say, hi, arnt you in my ____ class? and start up a conversation. if you REALLY think you cant do that then here it is. i think you should dress up in some cute clothes. i hope i helped and rember that you CAN do this.
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i think its because on your xanga they see you. just you and they dont see all the other girls in your school around to compare you with them. not saying that your ugly or anything compared to them but im just saying when people see other girls it kind of makes them lose interest in the ones they were interested in. i dont know if you understand what im trying to say but i hope you do leave a comment if you dont. sorry if it was a little confusing.
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I'm a senior in highschool and since 8th grade I have only had 2 boyfriends. I had never had a boy friend in hs until my Junior year. It's okay, and he didn't even go to my highschool. He's probably the greatest guy I have ever met. I don't know why guys at my highschool don't like me, but I'm okay w/ that. Be confident in yourself and you'll probably meet someone that likes you the way you are (not from your highschool). Just be patient, cause if you are a gorgeous person, it may not take very long. Get involved w/ local places like youth groups, and you might get lucky like I did. Good luck and i hope I helped.
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