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he loves someone else
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so the guy i like, likes someone else. he asks me advice like how to ask her out and stuff like that. he obiously doesn't realize i like him. so yep, he likes this girl( who has bigger boobs than me and is probably 8 pound lighter than me, but diefidentally not as pretty)
how do i get him to forget about her and focus on me. in other owrds how do i get him to like me?
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I know exactly where you're coming from. I think that you just need to be honest with the guy. Sit him down and really tell him how you feel. Or atleast say that giving him advice about other girls is making you uncomfortable and he might catch the hint. You cant exactly MAKE people like you but you can do all you can to make a really good impression. Start just really talking to him about things. If he can trust you enough with advice about that, then he might start to think of you then more then a friend. Just dont get all up in his face because that kind of throws a guy off. So be patient and it'll work out.
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You could flirt with him, but ultimately who he likes is not really in your control. Just flirt and be nice and hope sometime he'll see you the way he sees her.
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Tell him you like him!!!
Or if you feel like thats hard...
Make it obvious that it hurts you when he asks you that stuff!!!
Just go for it!
If you still need help feel free to leave one in my inbox.
x3Teresa
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First, I don't think that this guy likes the girl because she has bigger boobs or weighs less than you do, and he's not going to like you just based on the fact that you're pretty. If he truly likes this girl, and he's interested in her rather than her looks, then you're not going to easily deterr him from her. However, if he doesn't really know her or doesn't share some interests, it's probably just a crush, and you can wait for it to blow over. Then you can show him that you're interested in him and that you want to get to know the real him, and if he likes you back, that's great, but if not, then it wasn't meant to be. If he's asking you for advice, I'd guess that he really values you as a friend that he can trust.
I was on the other end of this situation not too long ago. I was completely head over heels for one of my friends (we'll call him John), and, as I didn't know at the time, John's best friend, (Jake), also a friend of mine liked me. So I went to Jake for advice on how to get John, not realizing that I probably hurt him. Eventually, he asked me out, and even though I love him to death as a best friend, I had to say no because John was just 'that person' for me.
What I'm trying to say is that no matter what, you can't make a person like you if it won't work, and you can't stop a person liking someone else just by liking them. It may not be the best thing to come to terms with, but it's true. So wait it out, but don't try too hard to get this guy away from the girl he likes, or you could end up losing his trust and respect.
I hope it works out for you, and that this guy will see that you like him and (possibly) realize he likes you too.
Love,
Nevaeh
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I would just be honest with him on how I felt. Maybe he just doesnt realize you have feelings like that for him. It could make all the difference.
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you cant make him do anything really but you can make it clear to him that you like him and if he dont like you dont waste your time on him he's not worth itif i didnt help im srry
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I know that this might make you rate me low, but that is the problem. If you try to get his atention, he will probably loose interest in you at all. To me, people like other people that are interested in them. My advice is to help him get the girl. At least you will have a friend. The worst thing about dating a friend, is that if you brake up, you lose a friend. I was one of the lucky ones. Yuo just don't want to lose a friend that way. It would suck, hard core. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Tell him you like him. Maybe once he realizes that you like him, he'll forget about that other girl. Maybe he likes you too. It's better if you speak up rather than never know. hope i helped.
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