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What does it mean when ur Gf of 2 1/2 years makes me decide all the time, gives me options, (eg) go to my house her house or out, then when i say, choose my house she will tell me she has no way to get here, it really pisses me off, because she should know what she wants and not make things difficult. what should i think from this? i hope that makes sence, i know it probly isnt that big of a deal to you but it is to me. Thanks

Just ask her why she's doing it. She probably doesn't realize she's doing it in the first place. Giving you options means she cares about your opinion, so it's not really a bad thing. Just whenever she says she has no way of getting there, politely ask her why she mentioned it in the first place. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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A lot of people at school call me teachers' pet. I don't like any of my teachers, nor suck up to them. I only get good grades because I want to get into the Naval Academy. I don't show off or anything.. i think.. so what should I do to shut these bitches up? (13, F, 7th grade)

Just tell them you're trying to get in a good college unlike some people...lol. Good luck! Hope you make it into Naval.
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♥ Erin

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There is this guy at skool he has a girlfriend (his girlfriend is my friend) but I don't think that he likes her. He is always looking at me and like walking by me and smiling ( we have a very big school so there are many different ways for him to go) I really like him. Does he like me? What if he does will my friend be mad?

I think he likes you, but even if he breaks up with your friend, DO NOT go out with him. That's totally betraying your friend. If you really feel like you have to go out with him, first ask your friend and be sure that she's ok with it. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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well i have been talking to this guy for like a week now and we talk about everything. i mean everything. and i want to like talk to him about dating in stuff, but im not sure if i should. or what to say.
help please!

What you need to do is say to him, "My friends keep bugging me about how we'd be so cute together, what do you think?" If he says no, just leave it at that. If he says yes, then there ya go! Wear something you look hott in, so you feel better about yourself. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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hey. my best friend has this problem. her parents wont let her go onto this website because of so block thing that my best friends other friend gave to my Best friends mom. she likes this site. and wen ever shes at my house shes on it. how should i help?

When you're at her house, ask her mom, "There's this website we really like, and it's blocked. Can you take the block off, because there's nothing bad about it." Even offer to let her see it if she unblocks it. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ive become really depressed lately..bc of my weight...im five feet tall and i weigh 135. i dont think im fat but then again i dont know...i have big boobs and a butt..so that sometimes gets mistaken for fat also and makes me look bigger...can someone plz tell me how to get rid of all this weight? i dont have a gym memebership so i cant work out...any suggestions??

Well, you need to make a plan. Exercise before going to bed. Like, do 20-30 pushups, situps, and crunches. And eat healthier. Cut down on carbs and no junkfood. And always remember to eat breakfast, because if you don't, it really screws up your metabolism. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.

He probably just forgot to take it off. It sounds like he really likes you, because he got you a diamond necklace (bling bling!). Just tell him it makes you mad that it's still there, and if he doesn't do anything about, dump him and keep the necklace! Lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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On the flap outside of my vagina, i have this bump, and its been there for about a month, im still a virgin and ive NEVER done anything like fingering or blowjob or that stuff. I do shave, do you think its just a razor burn? Or what do you think it is, and what are ways to get rid of this? Thankyou

I think it's probably razor burn, since you never "did anything". I'm not sure if there's anything you can do about, but it'll probably go away if you leave it alone for awhile. There might be a cream you can buy at a drugstore, but I'm not sure. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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hey im terribly surrering from being overweight for about 1 year. ive tried many diets and other formulas and none of them helped! what should i do?!!!!!!!!

There's a lot of different diets you can go on. There's Atkins, Jenny Craig, South Beach Diet, a no-carb diet, just pick one that works for you. Just remember to cut down on carbs and fat. Exercise to burn the calories after you eat. No junkfood. You just have to develop a plan. Do about 20-30 pushups, situps, and crunches at night. And never skip meals, because it will screw up your metabolism. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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how do you calculate a grade point average? thanks.

Well you calculate all your grades and then divide the number of grades you get, kinda like averaging numbers. Here's the scale if you need it. A-4, B-3, C-2, D-1, F-0
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♥ Erin

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My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?!

It sounds like he likes you? He asked you why you never give him a hug didn't he? And when you asked him, he was all excited and said sure, so I think he definitely likes you.
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♥ Erin

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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?

Well, stop doing whatever you're doing, but don't stop seeing the guy. Tell him your not really allowed to do that yet. Just stay with him and wait a few years til you're older and your mom won't care as much. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ok when you see people on tv they always have like glowing faces... like in the movie mean girls... i was wandering... where can you get stuff that looks like that shimmery or whatever? any suggestions? thanx
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There's stuff in drugstores, like Bronzers, I think that's what does it. They have different kinds in different make-up brands. I've never used any, so I can't tell you a certain kind, but ya, go look and see what works best for you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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i have a friend.. she's 5'9 and 127 pounds.. she's athletic and all, she lifts weights and plays vball all year around. recently her and her bf broke up and shes been really depressed. shes been losing sleep and she can barely eat.. she only eats like one thing a day. would she be considered anerexic ? and are there any other symptoms for it besides lack of eating ? anything is appreciated ! thank you

She's not anorexic, she's just really depressed over breaking up with her bf. You just have to be there for her and offer her a banana. Lol. Trust me, she'll get over it. It just takes time. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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i have sorta olive/ tan skin... what casual nailpolish colors look good with that?
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Try blue, that'd look really pretty. But red would look absolutely awesome! Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do?

Try writing him a note about how you feel, and have one of your friends give it to him. Tell him that you DIDN'T say that about him, and repeat it 10 times if you have to. And ask him why he can't believe you when he's heard things about you, too? If it doesn't work out, I would just forget about it, because it wasn't meant to be. Just go looking for other guys, and it'll keep your mind off your ex. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

That's a hard situation to be in. I would definitely tell him how you feel. I think he really likes you. And it's not uncommon for a guy to like 2 girls. If you're too shy to talk to him about it, I would just be really great friends with him right now. If he breaks up with her, he'll go to you. Just remember to be there for him if that happens. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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when you are at your column when you click to a diff. part of it it like.. fades or whatever. whats the link for that.. the address or whatever i'd really like to have it.please. thankx

Here it is: http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx#transitions
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♥ Erin

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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!!

If you like him, go out with him. Who cares what those other people think? If they ask you why, tell them he's nice once you get to know him. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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hey i have a problem getting my comp to have my favorite advice colominst on them how do i add them thanks bunches

You have to visit their column and click on the thing that says add as favorite. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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