There is this guy at skool he has a girlfriend (his girlfriend is my friend) but I don't think that he likes her. He is always looking at me and like walking by me and smiling ( we have a very big school so there are many different ways for him to go) I really like him. Does he like me? What if he does will my friend be mad?
XxCarliexX94 answered Friday January 7 2005, 8:04 pm: well you need to go for what you feel friends don't matter you will make more if she doesn't like you any more and if she does then she will get over it. good luck [ XxCarliexX94's advice column | Ask XxCarliexX94 A Question ]
fluffy answered Friday January 7 2005, 6:17 pm: well duh its her boyfriend if they're still going out than it means that they still like eachother [ fluffy's advice column | Ask fluffy A Question ]
Courckypooh answered Friday January 7 2005, 4:13 pm: Ever heard of the "two week rule"? If your friend breaks up or gets dumped, you have to wait two weeks to ask them out. I'd say after he breaks up with her (from what you say, sometime soon), then progress the friend/classmate relationship and then start the whole "can you find out if he likes me or not?" thing. DO NOT WHATSOEVER include your friend in this. She'll be depressed. But after a month or so when she's recovered, you can talk to her about it and if she gets mad at you for liking her ex, she's not a real friend. Hope I helped! ~Kylie~ [ Courckypooh's advice column | Ask Courckypooh A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Friday January 7 2005, 4:10 pm: at this point, you can't really tell if he likes you.. he could just be smiling you in a friendly way, ya know? if you're concerned about it, talk to him about it. ask him if he really likes his girlfriend and stuff like that. good luck =) [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Friday January 7 2005, 3:57 pm: I think he likes you, but even if he breaks up with your friend, DO NOT go out with him. That's totally betraying your friend. If you really feel like you have to go out with him, first ask your friend and be sure that she's ok with it. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
girlygirl answered Friday January 7 2005, 2:19 pm: Yep, your friend will be mad. That's a line to not cross...never date your friends ex's etc! I'm 39 and I can tell you...boyfriends will come and go in your life, but you will always have your girlfriends. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Friday January 7 2005, 1:49 pm: i wouldn't go there! if he is dating your friend just leave him be! yeh he is cute and everything but you shouldn't let a boy interfere with your friendship. he's probably just flirting with you that's all, and it's probably just friendly flirting. I would say he's off limits for now!
br0ken_x_smile answered Friday January 7 2005, 1:04 pm: I dont think that you should do that behind your friends bak even though you didn't do anything. Tell her that you like him and let her no the " looks " that hes been giving you.. put yourself in your place - would you want to be cheated on? not that you cheated on him yet.. but who knows it could happen
hope i helped
xo jessie -;- [ br0ken_x_smile's advice column | Ask br0ken_x_smile A Question ]
Michelley answered Friday January 7 2005, 11:38 am: I'm not sure if he likes you. Like, just from him walking by and smiling...you really can't tell. But your friend will be mad if he does (*unless she doesn't really like him either)and if you go out w.him, she'll be mad @ both of you....but she'll only be mad @ him if you're just like "Oh I definately don't like him what a jerk look what he did to you...he was going out w.you and then started to like your friend...what a jerk" So don't flirt w.him or anything and I wouldn't mention to your friend that you don't think he likes her bc then she'll probably be sad and ask him about it and start all this drama and when he asks her who she heard that from..she'll say you! and then if its not true..they'll both be mad @ you. Just let everything happen w.them and don't get into all the drama and if he says he likes you...say you don't like him back (*unless you do and you don't mind your friend being mad @ you)
=) HoPe I HeLpEd! [ Michelley's advice column | Ask Michelley A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:17 am: well a boy may like you but they don't show it i think he likes you well if he dosn't like your friend then he is all yours and i think she will be mad at you for a couple days but she can't stay mad at you forever you have to become friends again. sunshine 1232 [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
Farren answered Friday January 7 2005, 9:23 am: You're being a horrible friend. That's your friends boyfriend, your friends boyfriend! Besides, it sounds like you're just being dilusional. You probably think all your guy friends just lust over you. People can smile and be good friends without liking each other. He's probably just that type of person. And if he does like you, you should wait until he breaks up with your friend to pursue him, that way there might be a slim chance to save your friendship, but you probably don't even care about your friend. Honest -is- the best policy.
-Farren [ Farren's advice column | Ask Farren A Question ]
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