ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female
talk to him about it and see if he still likes you..much luv dez x0x0
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Okay,I was with this girll for like the longest time..Months & months.Everything was good then suddenly she broke up with me..She didnt give a reason.she still tells my friends she loves me but isnt with me again & I dont get It.should I talk to her or would that make her mad??:(
You deserve to know why she broke up with her..she has no reason to be mad if anybody does its you cause you are completely lost on what happened to your relationship and you dont know what went wrong or why it fell apart..you should ask her whats going on and why she feels like she needs to break up with you.. tell her you atleast deserve to know why she broke up with you.. much luv dez x0x0
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what is a bikini wax. and im a girl. am i supposed to shave the hair off.. down there?
please hellp!
a bikini wax is where they wax your bikini area so like your hair isnt all out or your bathing suit or underwear.. most girls shave down there.. much luv dez x0x0
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My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!
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i would be mad too...sounds like she likes to play games.. tell her you want a more mature friend that isnt going to be lien about stupid childish things..much luv dez x0x0
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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.
He apparently doesnt love you enough to stop the shit he is doing.. you only been together a month you can move on and find somebody you arent goin to worry about and be stressed over...your way too young for that kinda thing to go on in your life.. he has took the wrong path in life and it sounds like he wants to stay on that path.. a bad boy is sometimes good to have but not one who is doing things thats just going to hurt you in a way also.. you need to talk to him about this and if he doesnt straighten up dump him.. cause like i said your too young for that kind of drama... if you need anything email me at xxallcuddles4uxx@aol.com.. much luv dez x0x0
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I have a friend and he is a guy but we are "just friends" how can I get him to like me more than that?
Well it has to come naturally.. you cant jus exactly do something that he will like.. jus tell him that you like him and would like to have more.. but you understand if he wants to remain friends and that you will accept that... dont try to push him into liking you..much luv dez x0x0
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Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like?
Well you should tell em the truth dont lie about what you are.. if you tell em you arent a virgin they gon think they would be able to get it and then after they ask you if your a virgin then they want to know how many guys you slept with so there goes another lie *if your lieing about it*.. then if you are a virgin it shows you have respect for yourself and that you arent easy or anything.. you should tell em the truth one way or another and maybe dont listen to everything your friends say.. and who cares bout what a guy thinks of you.. he should respect you if you are a virgin or if your not...much luv dez x0x0
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Ok my neighbor is bi and she invited me over one time with her and another bi girl who i didnt kno was bi but then we got really really drunk and i made out with both of them and i woke up and i thought it was REALLY gross i mean ok and then i found out they werent drunk but i was and so they kept telling me i was bi and im like NO IM NOT and they keep telling me i am soo i dont believe them but am i?
no jus cause you made out with a girl doesnt make you bi.. i mess round with my friends and we have made out before as a dare *none of us were drunk* if your attracted to girls and have deeper feelings then friends for a girl thats how you know your bi..much luv dez x0x0
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okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx
i understand where your coming from with this... i would be the same.. um i think you should try to become more of a friend cause you arent getting what you want except having sex thats the only way youve became some what close to him.. telling him how you feel is a good idea for anybody its good to say how you feel.. but you should tell him you care alot for him and wanna be there for him through thick or thin things that go on in his life.. sex causes emotion and stress on girls alot.. and we worry alot bout whats going on with the person we care and love for.. this most likely isnt going to go away til you open up more with him bot whats going on in your head.. much luv hope i helped x0x0
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Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f)
Well if you cant do anything you might wanna figure something out to do cause he's going to get tired of it and probably break up with you.. Maybe you should jus wait til your allowed to date cause you might jus get hurt in the end of this..much luv dez x0x0
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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??
most girls wear skirts with jus there underwear under them..much luv dez x0x0 but i really dont know i dont own a skirt..
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is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?
yea its normal.. your 13 and boys have that happen at times.. she probably will freak out if shes your age and might think your weird but when it happens jus walk away or something.. or figure out a way to hide it.. dont worry about it hun..much luv dez x0x0
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Hey does anyone know where i could get some really cute bikini's for the summer? i am going on an early vacation so your help is greatly appreciated! x0
Victoria Secrets is a great place and they usually have sales around this time..much luv dez x0x0
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My boyfriend and me have been going out for like a week or so now and hes 2 years older. What is the farthest we should have gotten by now, im 14 and im just wondering if we are going too fast.
Maybe making out and cuddling.. i dont think you should of had sex its way to early for any feelings to make you want to do that.. and its too early in the relationship..much luv dez x0x0
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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do
Aw im very sorry to hear that.. um i think you should wait a while its only been three months since that has happened.. um im sure you want somebody thatwill be jus like her and nobody will be jus like her... who ever you get with you'll probably compare them to her.. but maybe try finding somebody to be a good friend and comfort you as a friend.. much luv dez x0x0
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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????
Everybody likes to have comfort from somebody and love thers nothing wrong with it.. if somebody tells you its wrong something is wrong with them.. and i think its okay..much luv dez x0x0
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I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend?
Dont be friends with somebody you dont want to be friends with.. and no you shouldnt be friends with her if you dont want to.. much luv dez x0x0
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what is the best position to sleep in while on your period? thanks
Laying on your stomach...much luv dez x0x0
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ok well im not quite sure how to ask this but....anyways my boyfriend came over today and fingered me but i didnt orgasm or even come close and im not sure why like i felt like i had to go to the bathroom realli bad so i like tried to hold it but i wasnt sure ...and does what im thinking while hes fingering me effect having an orgasm?
no.. he must not be doing something right..and its normal for you to have to go to the bathroom..much luv dez xox0
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I have a 36 year old son who is married with one child. For about a year he has slowly sunk into the depths. His wife has kicked him out of the house. He now lives in his truck. She tells me he is drinking heavily and smoking crack/crank. He refuses to get help. My question is: Do you think I should report him to the police before he harms himself or an innocent person driving around like this. Thanks, Christy
Well reporting him would help him alot.. he would get locked up they'll probably make him get help and he'll be done with drinkin and the crack.. he'll be in there a long time anyways cause he's on crack.. but your his mother and that would be right to do and would help him out.. hope i helped and best of luck much luv dez x0x0
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