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Ok my neighbor is bi and she invited me over one time with her and another bi girl who i didnt kno was bi but then we got really really drunk and i made out with both of them and i woke up and i thought it was REALLY gross i mean ok and then i found out they werent drunk but i was and so they kept telling me i was bi and im like NO IM NOT and they keep telling me i am soo i dont believe them but am i?
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Not technically no, if you don't believe in that sort of thing, then no you're not. They played a very mean trick on you. There are people out there who will experiment with other types of sexuality, but not fully cross over...just say you did that. It looks better than saying they got you drunk...and be careful of who you trust. Hope all works out for the best! Much Love!
XoXo
Jessie
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no jus cause you made out with a girl doesnt make you bi.. i mess round with my friends and we have made out before as a dare *none of us were drunk* if your attracted to girls and have deeper feelings then friends for a girl thats how you know your bi..much luv dez x0x0
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oh my gosh , if you feel your not bi then your not bi ! they took advantage of you ... they knew what they were doing , they knew you were drunk and they werent . your not bi .. there trying to make you feel so un sure of yourself you will belive it and so then you'll go further with them . i would stay away from them !
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OK. First off, you need to let them know that it's *not* acceptable to get someone drunk in order to make out with them. Writing a letter is usually easier than talking about it. If someone's really drunk, and your still sober enough to realize this, you don't do sexual things with them that you haven't done already. When everyone gets drunk, people do stupid things because their inhibitions are lowered and no one is sober enough to be responsible. I definitely wouldn't get drunk with them around again.
Remeber, being drunk lowers one inhibitions - it gets rid of the parts of your mind that say "this isn't socially acceptable" or "mom would get mad" and lets you do things that you at least kinda want to do. It doesn't create new urges in you, it gets rid of the things that stop you from admitting those urges to yourself and others. Your still responsible for your actions while drunk.
That being said, sexuality is pretty complex. It's not just a pick one of three groups and stay there sorta thing. Around the edges of any defined group, there's some wiggle room. The bottom line is that you don't have to accept any label you don't want. If they pressure you, remind them that your all still figuring out your sexuality, and tell them that you don't want to encourage the image that bisexuality is just a phase - that it's disrespectful to those who really are bisexual.
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i know a girl who has done more than that, and the sick part is she 14. she was drunk too so dont worry. as long as ur drunk ur in the clear.
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O YOU WERE DRUNK RIGHT? HELLO!!!
NOW IF YOU WANNA KNOW IF YOU ARE BI NOW MAKEOUT WITH ONE OF THOSE GIRLS AND WITH A BOY!now if you liked both well there you go your answer
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They took advantage of you while you were drunk, thats for sure. You know what you are and don't let these girls tell you who you are, I don't think you are, but you were drunk, they tricked you into it, are you really going to believe them? Your sexuality is your decision, not someone elses.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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You where drunk and you had no clue what u where doing. Dont rely on what they are saying to you on wut your sexuality is. Nobody can tell you YOUR BI or YOUR GAY you decide if you are or not.
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no your not a bi they just set you up you didnt no what you was doing because you was drunk and thats there fault not yours keep away from them and just ignore them
luv roxie
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NO.It sounds like maybe these two set you up by getting you drunk.They don't sound like they are good friends so steer clear of them.Good friends don't set you up like that.......what losers.You are fine, nothing to be ashamed of. However what they did could very well be considered rape.They are no friends of yours.
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No, you are not. You were drunk and they took advantage of you is what happened, you do crazy things when you are drunk. Hanging out with those girls is not a good idea anymore, especially because they weren't drunk! You are definetly not bi, the only chances you have of being bi, is if you know yourself you like girls too, but you were drunk, even straight girls have made out when drunk and their sexuality didn't change because you aren't yourself when drunk. So, I'd say to stay away, or else you won't wake up dressed next time.
-TheTeenGirl
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nobody can tell you what you are or arent...only you can make that decision. Dont listen to them when they say that...you know if you are or not. If you really didnt like it, then most likely youre arent bi. During the teenage years its alright to experiment, to try new things to decide how you feel about them, and to me it sounds like you feel as if you did something wrong. You shouldnt feel that way...you didnt do anything wrong at all.
(P.S. If you do think that you are bi...its ok, its not wrong. Just do what YOU think is right and dont worry about other peoples opinions)
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