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inability to orgasm
I am a nineteen year old female living in Southern California. Years ago, when I was barely in elementary school, I was physically and sexually abused.
Though I believe I've moved past those issues, I notice that try as I might, I can't have an orgasm. I want to know how I would move beyond this problem and continue with my daily life.
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well think why you are still having problems. go to a counselor maybe. try everything! then when you work past those issures then you will be good as new. but it might be that you haven't figured out what will work
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I saw this Nip/Tuck episode once, and before the girl could have an orgasm with a guy, she first had to become comforable with herself. Being as the show is fiction, I can't say it would really work, but it sounds good. So try and learn how to pleasure yourself first.
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Sadly, some women can not have orgasms. Don't get me wrong its worth a try. You need to find a way to find the pleasure without one. Relax and enjoy the sensation. If you are trying to get off to the penetration alone... stop it! Most women can't get off on penetration (not even the ones who can "o") what you need to do is find what makes you hot there is nothing wrong with giving instructions when they are given correctly. If you are alone and you just want one by yourself then just "explore". I hope you find your "o"
I hope I helped
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Sexual abuse at a young age can often come back to haunt you. Moving on is never quite as easy as we would like. Regardless, unless it is in the back of your mind when you are having sex now, I doubt that it is the cause of a failure to orgasm. As one of the other answer stated, some women have considerable difficulty until they are in their twenties or even never. It does not entirely stop you having a thoroughly enjoyable sex life and does nto need to hinder your relationships. Just relax and be open with your partners and let everything happen naturally. Maybe it will and maybe it wont, but either way do not let this issue dictate how you lead your life.
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ya know what? you dont need to have sex if your now ready. you were sexually abused thats like the saddest thing ever! if you cant have sex because of that then dont. then you can settle down, get married, and have kids. but if your still not ready to have sex then than you can adopt a kid. hope i helped
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It is an entirely psychological problem that happens to many rape/sexual assualt victims.
If you haven't gone to one or received some form of therapy, you probably won't be able to get over it yourself.
People who go to support groups and all the works may often still find themselves unable to, however.
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i would go see a docter good luck!=)x0x
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