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ok well im not quite sure how to ask this but....anyways my boyfriend came over today and fingered me but i didnt orgasm or even come close and im not sure why like i felt like i had to go to the bathroom realli bad so i like tried to hold it but i wasnt sure ...and does what im thinking while hes fingering me effect having an orgasm?
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no.. he must not be doing something right..and its normal for you to have to go to the bathroom..much luv dez xox0
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Hey gIrLy! Most women don't have orgasms from vaginal stimulation. Most of them get orgasms when the clitoris is stimulated — whether or not they are having vaginal intercourse. So, if a woman's clitoris is not being stimulated, she may not have an orgasm. For the peeing thing: There could be a number of reasons for this. Sometimes a finger or a penis inserted into the vagina can put pressure on the bladder, making a girl feel like she has to urinate. Also, if a girl's vagina or clitoris is being stimulated, she may be rubbing the opening of her urethra which might also make her feel like she has to urinate. girls might confuse the sensation of an orgasm — the pleasurable release of built-up muscle tension that results from arousal and sexual activity — with the urge to urinate. This might happen if they do not know what an orgasm feels like. Hope i helped Ya babe!
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Usually you get tight down there and let out a kind of thin-ish white liquid. It ussually feels like you might have to go to the bathroom really bad before it comes out if you're not used to the feelings.
Was that your first time being fingered? Because you usually don't orgasm until you're relaxed and used to it. Most girls don't orgasm on the first time.
I'm pretty sure that if you were thinking about, say, flowers while he was fingering you then it would be harder to achieve an orgasm. But not impossible.
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I'm not sure about the bathroom part, but usually what you're thinking/watching/doing has some effect on whether or not you orgasm, because if you're horny (by thiking or watching something) and someone is in some way trying to pleasure you, then it would have some effect. But if you're thinking "This sucks" or "Ow" or something that isn't a pleasurable thought, then it'll probably have negative effect on how you climax. Not really sure about the 1st one though... I guess you'll have to look at other answers to get that. Sorry I couldn't be more help.
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