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OK, my bestest friend, hes a guy and im a grl, i dunno if i love him...i call him all the time and we talk for hours, and ya, we love eachother, and we both know it, but my question is, how much? I'm not sure if he likes me that way, and I think i do, but i dunno...What should I do?

Maybe you should ask him if he see's anything between ya'll more then friends.. um i would wait a little longer to tell him how you feel til your sure about your feelings that way you dont get with him or something then end up hurting him.. if you liked him more then friends you would for sure know..much luv dez x0x0

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i know how to put it on and evrything but how do you put in on the top og your eye and what brand works really well?

Well move your eye over like stretch it like a asian look..and trace the lining of your eye..over your eyelashes.. do it slowly at first then go over it so it dont look funny.. and dont put it on real thick.. and i use maybellei..it works good i know i spelled it wrong sorry.. much luv dez x0x0

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I like this guy and his sister and his best friends tell me that he likes me too he has also told me that he does. anyway, I tryed talking to him and he was just acting like a total asshole!After we hung up I started to cry because he just seemed like he didnt care about me and he didnt care about what I had to say. I want to talk to him again but then I dont because I dont want to feel like I do now. He's never online and I live a long way away from him.. What can I do to like talk to him and tell him how I feel? And by telling him how I feel is also including that hes being a major asshole to me.

Get his sister or his best friends to see whats wrong with him and why he was acting like that.. he probably still likes you he might of been having a bad day.. or try calling him back and see if he's ookay and why he acted like that towards you.. much luv dez x0x0

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i have a guy friend that i like for a while and i still do like him and he likes me one problem is that he gots a gf and we close and he always tells me that he loves me and we can talk for hours and not worry about who knows we talking but my question is is it a bad thing that he has more feeling for me and not his gf? plz help!

No its not bad.. or atleast i dont think so..it sounds like my situation i had with my ex.. i would blow my ex boyfriend off to talk to my current boyfriend and i would lie and stuff to my ex..which for some reason i dont know why but i had feelings for my ex boyfriend but i had more comfort and my boyfriend now had more time for me.. so then me and my ex broke up then i got with my current boyfriend and we have been together 9 months now..so maybe this will happen to you.. i dont consider it bad its jus how somebody feels.. i mean when i had it goin on i felt bad but i couldnt help how i felt.. i wish you luck sweetie..much luv dez x0x0

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Hey, I recently had sex with this guy I only knew for a week, and I found out the other day that I am pregnant, and he has giveing me some kindof STD but I dont know what because I havent been to the health department about it yet but I plan on going soon, the day befor yesterday I found out I was pregnant, and I'm thinking that I have no other choice then to get an abortion because whatever I may have it could affect the baby and the baby could be born with all sorts of problems, but I am so confused on what I should do, I talked to my ex boyfriends friend today and his friend told me that my ex boyfriend has been giveing people who he has sex with something but I dont know what and I am scared that I am in danger myself and that it could be deadly and I dont want to get my first child that I am ever pregnant with get an abortion because I know thats going to be with me for the rest of my life...my ex boyfriend doesnt know that I am pregnant and any of the other girls he has given something he doesnt care at all and he doesnt use a condom with girls...I am scared though I am only 15 and haveing to make up my mind about what I should do and everything leads to haveing an abortion because I dont want to have my baby suffering...does anyone think I am doing the right thing by haveing an abortion? Thats my question am I doing the right thing?...I know I shouldnt have had sex to begin with and I have heard of STD's but I never thought I would be the one haveing one...I know that I have made mistakes and believe me I am paying for them, but could anyone who has been through this tell me if I am doing the right thing by getting an abortion....Thanks, I'll rate high to any answers that are not being sarcastic..thanks Bye

Well hun i like how youve thought bout the baby and things..but go to the doctor first and see exactly what this STD is.. see if it can harm the baby in any way..and see how its cured and get help for it.. also i think if you can get cured and everything you shouldnt get an abortion.. if you dont wanna raise this child cause your so young give it up for adoption..this child deserves to live.. one way or another and you should try your hardest to bring this baby in the world..much luv dez x0x0

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Hey, okay i'm very attracted to my best friend. I would like to go out with her.Were both girls and i'm 14 and she's 13. She said a few times it would be easy if she could be with me and that i understand and care for her better than anyone. We have experimented 3 times and we loved it just being with each other being close and intimate. I want to tell her how i feel but i get more scared when i get infront of her face. I hate rejection! It's not that i've been rejected by my friends or guys or anything i just hate it. I even feel bad and low when i call someone and they can't talk or when i ask her if she can come over. I end up getting this pity look like she's doing me a favor if she went to my house. I hate it because i make good time to be over their at her house and she can't because of her mom and her little sister. I'm very afraid and when i wanted to ask her today i just looked at her like i was doing the worst sin in the world. I feel dirty when i wanted to tell her how i felt today. I just wanna keep it a secret that i have feelings for her so i can not have rejection and still have her as close to me as we are now. I just feel like a complete loser for asking a girl to be with me. I want her to do that and then i would fall into her arms and we'd feel the love between each other and i wouldn'r feel like a loser.

hun i know where your coming from with that.. i get the same way.. i feel stupid when i get rejected over things that shouldnt even matter.. but um you said she wants to be with you and thinks you guys should be together.. well hun i seriously would tell her how you feel.. you could get rejected bout the whole thing but you never know til you speak up..i would maybe wait a lil bit longer to tell her that you have those feelings.. jus so you can see how she might actually feel towards you.. And you can keep your feelings a secret.. feelings cant be crammed inside of you..they will eventually die to come out and then youll jus drive yourself crazy cause you didnt tell her.. and then theres a chance you could lose her..and then youll feel bad that you didnt say anything then youll be hurt cause you lost her or something.. Try to think positive which will be hard i know.. and jus do it and get it over with hun..much luv dez x0x0

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

Sweetie you really need to not freak out your perfectly fine it will take a while til your period becomes normal..much luv dez

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well the guy i like is 2 months and 7 days younger than me is that fine?

Yea thats cool..who cares its your business..age is just a number sweetie..much luv dez x0x0

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ok i like this boy and he likes me ..we both like eachother alot! and i want to be his gf like so much....and i no he will totally make a great bf...cause ever since my last b-day ..nov...we have been giving each other gifts...like b-days,christmas,valentines day, and i gave him something from my vacation...he is so sweet..and caring..and always apreciates me..NEVER laughs at me...and he always talks about me to all his friends and my friends(thats how i found out!) but i think the problem might be that i think i am to young. i seriously don't know what to do... please help!!....

Well just talk to him hun.. or get one your friends to do it.. Dont give up on him he sounds like a keeper if you get him.. dont be shy jus tell him how you feel and sounds like he might like you as well to talk about you so much.. age is jus a number..im 16 and my boyfriend is 1 year,2months and 3 days younger then me lol.. so much luv dez x0x0

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I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?

Wow wow wow alot of girls your age is thinkin they are attracted to girls.. um jus show em your drawings..tell em that its a very good piece of art.. and that its for something your doing for a guy friend lie bout it at first, but what ever you do dont ask to draw them or anything.. and maybe your not bi or whatever maybe thats jus the kinda art work thats in your heart..much luv dez x0x0

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okay my friend i will call her malina has a boyfriend but her boyfriend asked my other frined out!!! and she said yes and malina wants to know why her boyfriend is never home should i tell her or keep it a secert? and also i am mad at my other friend for going out with malina's boyfriend is that right to be mad at her?
Thank you in advance

Yea you have your right to be mad.. and you need to tell your friend,so she doesnt get hurt..do the right thing and let her know..much luv dez x0x0

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I like to be, well, free. When I'm in my room and the doors are closed I like to take off my shirt. I don't mind the free feeling, but I also go and stand in front of my mirror and look at myself. Is it wrong to look at myself like that, because I don't just do it for a short amount of time, I ususally have a stuck stair at my boobs.. what do I do, is this wrong?

Nah i think its pretty normal.. you aint harmful doing this and you'll probably grow out of it and not care anymore.. and being free is great i walk round my room basically naked..much luv dez x0x0

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My boyfriend like to fidle around with my chest, and oh do I not mind, I think it is pleasureable and feels incredible, but he also will ask me to touch myself like he does. The thing is, I don't mind touching my breats like that, I like the feeling of me touching them and it kind of turns me on. Is this weird or wrong?

Nah.. its okay.. if he likes it and you do too..then have fun hun..much luv dez

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im a girl and Im not a lesbian or bisexual & i dont ever want to like make out with a girl/date one or anything..but i get reallyyyy turned on when i like think about girls being active w/ echother..is this NORMAL


um i dont think so.. much luv dez x0x0

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ok so i like this boy and he likes me....we like eachother a lot..and i don't want to be his gf but i do! and he wants to be my bf.. .his friends asked me" so do you want to be "" gf" and i say not yet...but inside i totally want to say yes..then his friends tell him and he aslways sais " its ok ..thats fine..i will just wait" and i think that is sweet and all but ...well i don't know what to do...help fast!

Go for it.. you have no reason not to go with him..and it sounds like he's a sweetheart..much luv dez x0x0

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ok i had my period on the 7th or 8th and i have it again int he same month and the 7th was my first one i have had so i dont know if this is normal plz HELP

i dont reall know what your question was but this is what i think.. if your real paranoid bout be pregnant take a pregnancy test.. and your only pose to have a period a month..much luv dez x0x0

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i get these horrible and huge pimples on my vigina ..thay hert bad!!! wut shoul di do ... and i dont have sex or masterbate!

go see a doctor..much luv dez x0x0

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im 13/f and have been gettin discharge for more then a year...buti havent gotten my period yet..is this normal?

Yes thats normal hun that will probably happen til you do get your period..and it probably will get heavier..much luv dez x0x0

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so last month my bf fingered me and i gave him a handjob..he cummed and i wasnt sure if he had some on his fingers then fingered me...anyways i got my period the LAST day of february and i was totally relieved. well i havent got my period for this month...but i havent done ANYTHING what so ever this month...so yea i dont know whats up? could i be pregnant?

No your probably jus late calm down..much luv dez x0x0

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today im goin to watch a movie with my boyfriend and some friends. i want to wear a thong with the pants in wearing but im afraid that the pants might slip and show my it while im sitting there. im not a slut so i dont want him or anyone else to see it. i dont know if they would tell me if they saw it since most of them dont even know i have any. any pointers?

Wear a belt.. much luv dez x0x0

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