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I`m Desiree

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i want to curl my hair or something but i dont want a perm. my hairs like wavy kinda so i straighten it and the other day i tried to scrunch it but i dont know wut products to use. So how can i curl and scrunch my hair???

to curl it sleep maybe in curlers..or use a curling iron..to scrunch it use gel.. and jus use your hands to scrunch it..that works good and real cute..much luv dez x0x0

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if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite?

i dont think it matters you get it when ever your pose to..much luv dez x0x0

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Im too scared to use a tampon im in my 1st full year of my period and ive been using pads how safe are tampons i read in my bliss magazine that a tampon made this 18 yr old girl slip into a coma for 2 weeks what if that happens to me!! Do they hurt? After you used one are you classed as a non-virgin? Do they tickle? What are they like?
Luv ya x

Well istarted using tampons in my first year of my period.. you shouldnt listen to everything you hear in magazines.. if your too scared to use em maybe you shouldnt chance it..cause my freind used one and passed out.. and you are still considered a virgin if you use one.. maybe get your mother or sister to help you your first time..and no it doesnt hurt.. and no they dont tickle.. well they are way more comfortable then a pad.. it doesnt bother you or anything.. but much luv dez x0x0

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I have been taking birthcontrol for 2 years, I have two children, My question is if you are on birth control and you are taking penicilin can you get pregnant, if so how soon can you take a pregnancy teest to confirm if you are or not. Thank You

i doubt it.. but ask a doctor.. cause usually if they are going to give you something that messes with birth control they'd ask if you was on it first.. or it would be labeled on the medicine hun..much luv dez x0x0

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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me

Well if you think you might have something like that..you should go to the doctor to make sure.. You shouldnt be embarrassed.. you should get checked cause you cant do anything to get rid of it til you go to the doctor..much luv dez x0x0

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when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest?

The lowest chances of you gettin pregnant are on your period and the highest is anytime your not on your period..really two days out of the month you can get pregnant but most girls dont know when..much luv dez x0x0

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I have a date with a guy tonight. He's somewhat shy. I am a fairly outgoing person. I'm actualy the one who asked him to go on a date with me. I want to kiss him, but would it be alright for me to make the first move? Would that be too forward of me? Should I just wait for him to make a move on me?

No if want to make a move then do it.. dont wait.. or you could talk to him about it and see how he feels..much luv dez x0x0

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My mom and I never get along or even talk. She's just not someone I can go up to and tell things to. Well im 17 and this summer im pretty sure im going to lose my virginity when im on vacation to visit my friends. Im ready, i love him and hes the right guy, i know more than most people know, im aware of the consequences and precautions i need to take. I just dont trust condoms alone, so id like to get on the pill before becoming sexually active. I would like to tell my mom so we can set up an appointment with the gyno, but im scared that i could ever have the courage to ask her or even talk to her about sex. She's told me tons of times "If you ever have sex, use protection. And tell me." My parents trust me already, but a part of me feels like..if i told them im going to start having sex..that they may take my freedom away from me and wont let me go on vacation. I was thinking about just going to Planned Parenthood behind their backs and getting it, but because of several reasons, theres no way i can actually get away with it and do it. (Long story, but its seriously impossible at this moment.) I was also thinking about just asking to go to the gyno because of period problems. (Ive actually had problems for the past year or two that my mom knows about) But she still refuses to give me medical attention no matter what the situation is. My parents know im cautious and responsible, unlike my sister. (She lost her virginity at 13 and they could care less.) So my question is - if you were in my position and never really talked to your mom..would you talk to her about becoming sexually active and getting on the pill? I guess the only thing holding me back is not knowing how she will react. Or should i just be careful and use a condom only...and when i come back from vacation..tell her im sexually active and need to be on the pill?

oaky using a condom alone will always keep you wondering on your vacation..now vacations are suppose to be relaxing and fun..you dont wanna worry about if your pregnant or not im sure.. but you said your mom didnt care less bout your sister losing her virginty at 13! thats young..but anyways you should tell her you want to get on the pill.. any questions she asks all ya got to do is answer really no big deal.. um actually asking for the pill is responsible.. you could not be responsible and run off have sex and then al the sudden be pregnant now how responsible does that sound.. Just be real with your mom.. Much luv dez x0x0

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I am 16 (sophomore) and he is 18 (senior). Recently we have been getting into stupid arguements because he seems to like arguing and always has to be right. I always give into him just because I don't want to fight anymore. He also never listens to me when I say "no" when he tries to touch me. We both lost our virginity to each other and sometimes I let him, but when I tell him not to, if im just not in the mood he, doesn't seem to understand that. We've talked about it numerous times and I've tried everything. Do you think this relationship can be saved? Because he means so much to me and I would hate more than anything to hurt him.
Thank you
-Confused

Wow hun sounds pretty complicated but i got advice for ya.. Um well 9 months is a while ive been with my baby that long to so far and i could imagine how feel bout makin this decision.. well youve tried to make him listen and talk to him.. but it seems to not work.. Guys are like that first of all bout the whole sex thing cause my boyfriend does it too.. jus tell him you really wish he'd respect you bout not wanting to do it i told my boyfriend that and he does now.. um if your boyfriend loves you he'll understand that and respect you sayin NO.. Argumeants are pretty normal in any relationship.. but basically try not to argue so much with him he'll probably give it up once he realizes he wins lol.. um anyways i would wait longer to see if it gets worse or if he doesnt stop then i'd break up with him cause hun i know you dont want to break up with him.. if it gets better then you dont have worries.. i hope the best for you.. much luv dez x0x0

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I have naturally straight hair, but I like to wear it curly. I just bought my first curling iron, and I think the heat is drying my hair out. Did I buy the wrong product? Or am I just using it incorrectly?
Lour

Wear curlers to bed hun..much luv dez x0x0

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hey me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and everything is great until he got into some legal trouble and he has cournt on the 4th of this month. i live him with all my heart and he feels the same way that i feel for him but the thing is he said that if he gets locked up then i should break up with him....he thinks that when he gets out that it wont be the same but i no it will....my ? to u all out there is should i wait for him or no and why..i no that we will have a great furture together. he means the world to me. thatnks!!!
jazi14

Okay i was with my ex boyfriend tony for about a year he was always in legal shit til he finally got locked up.. yea i wanted to wait up for him so bad but my feelings for some other guy came to me and i had to break off with Tony.. hun i think personally you shouldnt wait up.. i mean if he gets out in a short period of time then hook back up.. but other then that maybe keep in contact with him while bein in jail.. and also if he gets out and ya'll get back together or even if you stay with him and wait up..you should tell him he shouldnt get in anymore trouble if he loves you enough he would do that so you can be together always..much luv dez x0x0

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
--I rate 5's!--

You should see a doctor for that..cause your cycle shouldnt be like that..much luv dez x0x0

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Ive seen a lot of girls wear cute sweatpants that say PINK on the butt. What brand is it? Where can I get them and how much are they? Thanks for your help!

i got some of those i got em from victoria secret..

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what are some good products for me to use to have the little hairs on my forehead and upper lip go away? i dont want a product that will have my hair grow back thicker, because that will be embarassing. i want a product that will have the little hairs removed quickly and wont come back for a while AND not grow back a lot thicker than before

thanx !!!

ps im not going to a doctor or whatever, lol sorry

um in avon books there this stuff for little hairs on your face ive never used it but i wouldn maybe try that..or um go to a store and jus look through stuff and read bout it..much luv dez x0x0

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heyy...
well i like hanging out wit these boys and wen my best friend is with them they all ignore me! most of the guyz no it bothers me but they say that they cant help it but my friend ignores me if shes hanging out with ANYONE thats not me..wat do i do??

You should talk to her about it..much luv dez x0x0

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I'm 13 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm blonde, blue-eyed, nice, sweet, smart, 128 pounds, 5 feet 1 inch. i have no idea why absolutley no guy wants to go out with me. please help!

Well your a lil young so rushing into dating isnt a good idea cause then you rush into broken hearts and everything.. Maybe guys arent after your looks Yea ya sound cute but maybe its your personality they dont like.. give it time.. much luv dez x0x0

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I recently found out that one of my guy friends that I'm pretty close to likes me. He's a really cool guy but I don't feel the same way about him. And honestly, I'm quite uncomfortable around him now. It's gotten to the point to where I have to sign of my screen name if he signs on. He hasn't tried anything (I don't know if he will) but it's extremely weird. I know I should be more mature about the situation but I just can't help it. I have no idea what to do. I feel as if our friendship is ruined. Any advice?

17/f

Okay well you should tell him on your screen name thing that you dont look at him no more then friends and that you kinda feel awkward about you finding out he likes you more then friends.. but dont tell him you feel your relationship is ruined cause hun im sure you wont let that happen if your really close with this guy.. Jus tell him how you feel bout the whole thing and he probably most likely will respect that.. much luv dez x0x0

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I have been going out with this girl for like 3 or 4 months and we haven't kissed not even like hug but i dont want to bring it up like... you know so can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP i love her and she loves me but im to afraid of asking her or some thing so help!! plz!

Well i take it your a male.. she probably wants the same thing and probably jus not speaking up.. you should make a move it will probably make her feel better hun..i would kiss her quite yet atleast not on the mouth yet..id kiss her on the cheek when you give her a hug goodbye.. jus make the move if she shows that she doesnt like it then she probably has issues.. but i wouldnt discuss it with her id jus take a hug.. its not such a big deal..much luv dez x0x0

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ok well im a 13 yr old female and i had my FIRST period on the 7th and now i am having it again on the 28 and i dont no if this is normal please help me and i am a virgin so i no im not pregnat



thx 4 ur help i ll hate 5's to EVERY1!

This is going to happen to you probably for a while and yes hunny its normal.. it will do it til your periods are regular.. all i have to say is always be prepared to have a period for a while..much luv dez x0x0

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me and one of my best friends like the same guy but she dosent know that i like him and he asked me out and not her what sould i do say yes or no please help me i dont know what to do?

Well tell your friend you like him first and see what she says.. then decide from there weather to ask her if its okay to go with him.. i mean wait and see how she reacts.. and also tell her that he asked you out..much luv dez x0x0

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