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ok im best friends with this girl i knew her before but this year we are best friends. but whenever we make plans they'll either change or she'll blow me off! i dont know why! and we've been best friends all year and i have never been inside her house but shes been to mine so many times, and she says its because shes self consicous about it but do you think shes lying? SO my question is... why do you think she is being like this and is she using me?

Maybe she really is self consicous about her house, you never know. Tell her your her best friend and your not going to stop liking her just because of what her house may look like. It doesn't sound like she's using you, more like not being a true friend to you. I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. How you get sad when she ditches you and such because your always excited to be able to hangout with her. Maybe something is wrong lately that she rather not do stuff with anyone. I think you really have to talk to her though. Ask her why she's been doing this and you don't feel like you really have a friendship anymore, because your never able to hangout. If she really is your best friend, she'll understand and change.
♥ Krissy

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why do guys always have to date popular girls why cant they date regular girls like myself for a change?

Guys think it's "cool" to date the popular girls. When really, it isn't. A lot of popular girls are stuck up and probably wouldn't even think about going for a guy that is in the "loser" crowd. And I don't really know why guys can't date regular girls like yourself. If this guy doesn't want to be with you because of the crowd you hangout with, he's not worth it at all. You should start crushing on someone else, because he's not even worth having a girl like you. If he wants to go with someone just because they're "popular", let him. It's going to be his lost, not yours hun!
♥ Krissy

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how can you find out what people rated you on this thing?

All you do is go to your column page and click on "View Feedback". Then it'll come up and there will be your ratings with comments (if they leave one).
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my dad is in the navy, so 4 like 2 or 1 more year he'll be stationed in bahrain.
my mom 1 time answered his phone when he was here visitin and out golfin.it was a womans voice. and then again when she text messaged him.
im worried,and my mom has been cryin every now and then. i need desperate help. im so sad, i always feel like cryin and feel like goin goth.
plz help me

First off sweetie calm down a bit. Tell your mom everything is okay and you're always here for her to lean on when she wants to cry. You need to talk to your dad about this next time he calls. Ask him what is up with a woman answering the phone and such. Maybe they're just friends, so don't jump to different thoughs. Be there for your mom, don't let her cry. You should take her out sometimes, to a dinner and a movie. It'll help her and you get your mind off things. But next time your dad does call, just ask him about it. That way you'll know for sure what is going on.
♥ Krissy

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Okay, I have a problem. I don't know if it's normal or not. I guess I'll start out by saying I'm fairly outgoing and loud. Anyways, my friends and I and some other guys went to this guy Micheal's house today. Micheal's a 9th grader (I'm in 8th) and we were there for like 4 hours without his parents home. Anyways, when basically everyone except one other guy had left, we started cuddling on his bed. He was holding my hand and like rubbing his hand on my stomach and stuff while we were watching a movie and earlier we held hands while I was just sitting on the bed and he was on the floor (his matresses are on the floor) and I don't know, I liked him being there with me and doing stuff with him, but I got so nervous! I don't know why, I just felt kind of awkward. Do any of you get this way too?

P.S. Micheal likes me if that means anything for details.

-Christeena

A lot of girls get nervous, especially if they're around the guy they're crushing on. Try to be yourself around him. I'm sure once you start hanging out with him more or spending time with him alone, you'll get more comfortable with him. A lot of girls are shy and nervous at first and this is totally normal.
♥ Krissy

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I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?

Creamy Natural is good. It comes in Cover Girl and NYC. You could also get the new foundation that is out, True Blend. I heard it works really good. But Creamy Natural is good. It works good for people with pail skin.
♥ Krissy

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haha congrats on bein da column of da day or w.e :D

Thanks =)
♥ Krissy

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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m

That is so sweet and amazing. Good luck on trying to keep your virginty for that special girl. That is great that your waiting. At least you'll know that she loves you and it will mean something. Don't let losing your virgin be something you want to lose to say you lost it. It's great that you thinking this way. You seem like a great guy, because not a lot think like this! You'll make some girl happy someday
♥ Krissy

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i want to know what a girl likes in a guy and what they dont like give me all your knowledge on it please

Us girls like guys that know how to treat their ladies. We like guys that are: sweet, kind, nice, funny, caring, out going, cute, won't cheat on her or two time her, will do anything to see their girl smile, will go out of their way just to make her happy; when she's having a bad day, will come up with cute things to do while together, will always be there for her no matter what; her shoulder to lean and cry on, will never make her cry; only tears a joy and finally, will love her for her!
♥ Krissy

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okay so i just moved form a city to a town 3 days ago and i had to switch schools and everything.. and i new a few people from this new school already but not many and the people are so different than my old school so i was wondering if there was any way to get people to like you and get friends easier? i dont know btu they arent very welcoming .. lol please help

That's always hard, switching schools and trying to meet some new people. You can always try to strike up conversations with some of your classmates. You could say you don't understand your work. Then look around and find someone that is worth asking about your work. Once they show you how to do it, you chould say a simple "Hello, my name is (Your name). I just moved here". Then the converstation should start to pick up from there. Or if you see someone in the hallway, smile. If you smile a lot while your talking to people. They'll know that your nice. If people realize that your a nice/caring person, they'll come up on their own and start talking with you.
♥ Krissy

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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much.

Hun, you really need to get over this guy. He isn't worth the pain. Think of it this way; he moved on and found a new girlfriend. Why can't you move on and find yourself a new boyfriend? I know it's really hard to get over someone, especially if you love him. I think you should get out there and try dating new people. Maybe it'll help you get your mind off your ex and you'll start to crush on someone new. Remember, this guy wasn't your Mr.Right, or else you and him would still be together. Keep looking for that special someone, you'll find him. But you got to get out there dating again, so go to it. You'll get over him, I promise you that. You just have to find a guy that is better then him. One that makes you feel so special and you'll forget all about your ex!
♥ Krissy

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well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do?

Yes, it does look like he's being using you. But he could also have a good reason for not calling you as much. Maybe he's been busy? I think you really need to talk to your boyfriend and see what is going on. Ask him if he does still you like because he hasn't been calling in the last few days. Maybe you'll work everything out with him, maybe not. But this does seem like he's been using you. And if I were you, I'd dump him. He shouldn't be putting you through this type of heartbreak!
♥ Krissy

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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?

I know you can't control your feelings, but you really shouldn't be crushing on your friends boyfriend. I know it happens a lot, but this is how some people loose friends. Even though, like I said, you can't control your feelings for someone. You heart just goes out to someone and you start to fall and there's no stopping that. You should tell your friend that you are crushing on this guy, but your not going to do anything about it because you know she really likes him. She should understand your point-of-view and I'm sure she will. While your talking to this guy, maybe you could talk to him every so often. This way your feelings will fade.
♥ Krissy

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ok so theres this guy that i "talked" to for a few weeks, and we went on a couple dates, then one night it went a lil further...then the next day he stopped calling me as much and stopped texting me, and we never hang out ne more. But wenever i see him at school he comes up and gives me a hug. Which sucs cuz everytime i see him he like takes my breath away...but for the past week i've been trying to play it cool and pretend like i dont like him, n wenever he gives me a hug or talks to me...i just pretend like i don't care...but the truth is I'm insanly attached to him, and i miss him sooo much. So i still call him like every night, n he used to pick up and we'd talk for a few hours, now he doesnt even pick up...I dont know what to do...he broke my heart, n now he said he's back with his Ex..how do i get over him...he drives me insane,I just want to be with him, but i know i can't.
-broken hearted-

You really need to start showing him that you do like him. He may think that your not interested in him anymore, because you aren't really talking to him like you used to. He probably stopped calling because he thinks it's pointless. You really have to show this guy you like him. You can tell he likes you; he's always calling, talking to you and giving you hugs. He might just be back with his ex because he knows he can't get you. I think you should tell him how your feeling and see where it goes from there. He could feel the same way, dump his ex, then go out with you. You never know, but if you really like this guy, you should take the chance of telling him. If he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, your going to have to move on. There are probably a lot of other guys that like you. I'd suggest you go on somedays, try to get closer with some of your guy friends, etc. That way, it'll help you get your mind of this guy and maybe you'll find a new crush.
♥ Krissy

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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help

You really need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling. Tell him you feel like your not really in a relationship. You guys never talk, hangout and do things a real couple should do. He does sound like he may be using you though. After you had sex with him, did he just stop talking to you? You also really need to talk to your best friend. If she's really your best friend, she shouldn't be ditching you like that. She may think she's cool because she's doing drugs and such, but shes not, not at all. And that's right hun, maybe thinks will get better. Don't be cutting yourself over a guy. Believe me! You don't need a guy that treats you like crap. You need a guy that will always be there and will love you. This guy doesn't seem like your Mr.Right. If you really can't stand him and you feel like he treats you like shit, dump him. As time goes on, he's going to keep hurting you and will keep doing the things he's doing. If he really loves you and cares about you, he'll change his ways. If not, find another man. You don't need him. You're worth so much more then getting your heart broken over some guy!
♥ Krissy

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Guns N' Roses

Since I Dont Have You


by Guns And Roses

Since I Dont Have You
I don't have plans and schemes,
And I don't have hopes and dreams.
I don't have anything,
Since I don't have you.
And I don't have fond desires,
and I don't have happy hours.
I don't have anything,
Since I don't have you.
Happiness, and I guess,
I never will again.
When you walked out on me,
In walked ol' misery,
And he's been here since then.
Yeah, we're fucked!
I don't have love to share,
And I don't have one who cares.
I don't have anything,
Since I don't have you.

this best describes me Krissy! I hope you realize that !

Aww, thanks hun. You're sweet! PS - Your not even online :(
♥ Krissy

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okay- i have been getting cramps, and i have that "discharge" stuff.. am i getting my period??

Them are both really good signs for getting your period. It looks like it is right around the corner, especially when your getting both, cramps and discharge.
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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out?

Have it just you and him one night, then make your move there. Maybe you could rent a few movies and cuddle up to him. Then just look at him and kiss him.
♥ Krissy

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What are solar nails?

Solar nails = False/fake nails.
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Okay, i've been dating this guy for like 2 months...and he's being really immature and he can't do things very often cuz his parents r really strict and he's been really busy. I want to wait for summer when he can do more stuff because i really like him....what should i do? dump or wait~*Kt*~

It depends on if you really like your boyfriend or not. If you do, stay with him. If you don't, tell him that being with him right now is really hard on you. He's always really busy and you don't feel like your really in a relationship with him. Tell him everything you feel about him and how you want to take a break until the summer. Then once the summer starts you can hook back up, because it'll be easy to hangout with eachother and such.
♥ Krissy

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