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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help
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Well the first thing is dont do anything stupid please. Look it seems like ure boyfiend is a total idiot - i really dnt think you shound be with him. Even if you love him, he has to treat you right and he obviously doesnt.
And with your best friend. when you get a chance i rekon you should sit down with her and tell her everything. You could even show her what you have written on here. If she is a true friend she would understand how you feel.
and with your school work, just dont give up - you have to do your best otherwise life is going to be so hard (moneywise) in a few years time when you leave school.
you seem like a really sensible girl and I really hope everything goes ok, and please please please dont do anything stupid.
Let me know how it goes please xxxxxx nicki xx
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You really need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling. Tell him you feel like your not really in a relationship. You guys never talk, hangout and do things a real couple should do. He does sound like he may be using you though. After you had sex with him, did he just stop talking to you? You also really need to talk to your best friend. If she's really your best friend, she shouldn't be ditching you like that. She may think she's cool because she's doing drugs and such, but shes not, not at all. And that's right hun, maybe thinks will get better. Don't be cutting yourself over a guy. Believe me! You don't need a guy that treats you like crap. You need a guy that will always be there and will love you. This guy doesn't seem like your Mr.Right. If you really can't stand him and you feel like he treats you like shit, dump him. As time goes on, he's going to keep hurting you and will keep doing the things he's doing. If he really loves you and cares about you, he'll change his ways. If not, find another man. You don't need him. You're worth so much more then getting your heart broken over some guy!
♥ Krissy
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well there is no reasom for you to take your own life or hurt yourself your best freind is a total bitch if she is treating you like this and as for your boyfriend he has got what he wanted from you and that was sex and now he don't care but you do so tell him and tell him he has to change or you will dump him but if he gets angry get out of there incase he turns on you and hits you.....
Please Don't Kill Yourself You Have Done Nothing Wrong..............
I hope my advice has helped
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Oh boy, hey babe. It seems as though your bf is using you. Talk to him forsure on the phone. Talk to your friend as well. You should get a counsler and telk to them. The school has a therapist too, try talking to the therapist.
♥ Michelle
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