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how am i supposed to live without him
I never got a chance. He never game me one. For 3 years i begged for him to want me, even for one day. His name is Drew and he is a year older than me. When i was in 7th grade, and him in 8th, I fell head over heels for the cute and innocent, yet devilish boy. I never expected much from the crush, maybe a week of staring and pining for this boy. But instead I got 3 years of heartbreak, because in my heart I knew he would never want me. He has had plenty of girlfriends over the past 3 years, none of which was me. Although I have been strong over the years, last night he told me that I need to get over him because he never liked me and he never will. How do I just move on with my life? I built my world around one boy, and that one buy tore my world apart. How do I move on? I need as much advice as I can get. Please Please Please HELP ME... Love Kelsey
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Move on..thats all I can say, if he breaks your heart, then hes not worth it. Theres plenty of other guys out there, and way better than him.
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well, you are so much better than any girl that he should get. guys are so insensative. just try to forget about him i know that it is hard. but its better to at least try to forget about him. I think that you just need to focus on your friends, and think about the good things about yourself, and this guys is sooo mean, you dont wanna be with him! espically after he did that to you! you are gonna find a guy that will finally treat you right! maybe try to look for a few guys or something, and/ or make friends with some guys. i know that its hard, i have been in your position before! and just try to get him off of your mind!!! its really your best bet! and try to not fall in like that again!!
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Awwwl! I'm sorry, Kelsey. Anyway, I think I can help you cause I have been in your exact same position. You have been building this world around this Drew guy for 3 years and you had nothing else. I think its time you looked at the world around you, not that little universe you built for two. You'll start seeing other guys that you like, trust me. I mean, Drew is right, you have to move on. I know it'll be hard to like other guys, but you just gotta move on. And I bet you're a great girl and that he's just making a mistake. I hope you try to move on, for I am trying to do the same thing. You're not alone. I'm always here for you. If you need anymore help, just contact me, and we can get through this together.
xOo Nikki xO
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Hey Kelsey,
THIS sounds familiar. I've just been dealing with a situation very much like yours. What has helped me is hanging out with my friends alot, reading, going to youth group events, just keeping busy. I know it doesn't seem like it, but time will help. You just need to surround yourself with other things and other people. Good luck:)
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chicken soup for the teenage soul anyone? Seriously this sounds like a passage right out of it :P Pick up a copy, read it, be inspired to move on, and then possibly send in your story to them and enjoy the money!
You are fifteen, you've barely lived a quarter of your life. Your world, as you put it, is still being built; it's not being torn down, think of it as a renovation. All you need is some perspective to see that there are way bigger tragedies in life than this. Go watch an infomercial about starving African children, or Extreme Makeover: Home Edition.
Or spread nasty rumours about how big of a jerk he is- although from what you said they might not necessarily be rumours.
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become a writer this sounded more like a poem than a ? asking for advice
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