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feeling guilty =/
i guessed my mom's password for her email and it was right.. i know i shouldnt have, but i looked at all her emails with my aunt. i've been having a hard time lately w/ cutting and things and i didnt want my mom to tell anyone (she found out, bc my school found out and yadda yadda..im seeing a theripist..not important)but in these emails she told my aunt all about it. i am kinda mad but i cant say anything bc I wend snooping. im feeling really guilty and dont know what to do..any sugestions =/
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I think both of you were wrong. But nobody's perfect. Maybe your mom didn't know what to do.. maybe she was confused and needed help. My mom has done the same thing a few times, I know how it feels. It feels like you've been betrayed, by your own mother =. Just try to bring it up sometime as a reminder that you do not want her to tell ANYONE at all.
Hope I helped.
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Guilty about what? You should be mad and confront your mom for putting your business out there. I would just say that it was on a file you were looking at. Besta Luck
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I know how you feel, I always feel really guilty if I do something like that. I know your in a lot of trouble already but maybe it would be best if you were honest and just tell your mum. That way you would have one less thing to worry about and you would be able to stop your mum telling anyone else.
Alternatively, if you don't feel up to confessing to your mum, you could always tell your therapist about it and get her to tell your mum. They would be able to explain it in a nice way and you would therefore avoid most of your mum's anger.
If you keep it bottled up, it will just add to your problems and make you feel even worse. I hope you sort out all your problems, hope you feel much better. Best of luck
Claire xx
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Dear Guilty-
You should not have snooped in moms email.You wouldn't want her snooping in yours would ya?
The thing about mom's is this.If their kid has a problem,well, they kinda need to talk about it too.Us mom's are human!Please don't think about it like she was betraying you.It bothers her and she needs advice and support from her family and friends the same as you do.Okay?Might be something your therapist can help you with if still bothering you.
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Let your mom vent to your aunt a little. She isn't broadcasting it to the entire world now is she.
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Your mum is probably having a hard time handling the fact that you cut. You cutting doesn't only affect you, it affects your friends, and family too. Your mom was probably talking to your aunt about it to help her cope. As soon as your mum gets a grip on it, she'll be able to help you get better. Forget about the emails, move on to thinking about getting better, and stay out of your mother's emails. How would you feel if she went through yours?
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hi the best you can try to do is solve the problem about cutting and then be like mom lets play a game...hmm think i know your pw for your email...so is it whtever it is and if she's like how do you kno be like lucky guess and now you must change it like a jokeishly way or just pretend nothing happened and solve the problem with cutting...or you can tell her straight up that you were bored and found out her pw and you read one of the emails...and that you feel really bad for it. hope i helped...take care! x3 SweetStar.
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