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I have really bad dandruff on the back of my head and there are like yellow spots on my scalp there
is there any way i can take care of this????
thanksss (link)
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Try washing your hair with lime juice.
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I never got a chance. He never game me one. For 3 years i begged for him to want me, even for one day. His name is Drew and he is a year older than me. When i was in 7th grade, and him in 8th, I fell head over heels for the cute and innocent, yet devilish boy. I never expected much from the crush, maybe a week of staring and pining for this boy. But instead I got 3 years of heartbreak, because in my heart I knew he would never want me. He has had plenty of girlfriends over the past 3 years, none of which was me. Although I have been strong over the years, last night he told me that I need to get over him because he never liked me and he never will. How do I just move on with my life? I built my world around one boy, and that one buy tore my world apart. How do I move on? I need as much advice as I can get. Please Please Please HELP ME... Love Kelsey (link)
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Hey Kelsey,
THIS sounds familiar. I've just been dealing with a situation very much like yours. What has helped me is hanging out with my friends alot, reading, going to youth group events, just keeping busy. I know it doesn't seem like it, but time will help. You just need to surround yourself with other things and other people. Good luck:)
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Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!! (link)
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Hey there.
It's not going to help anything if you change yourself for this guy because it'd just be a lie. If you love him then you don't want to be lying to him, it'll just mess everything up more. It's probably best to take things slow because usually when best friends jump right into dating each other it destroys the friendship, and I'm sure you don't want that. If I were you I'd just give him time to decide what he wants, and you should also value the fact that you have him as a best friend at all. It's obvious that you mean alot to him by how much he is there for you even if he does only love you as a friend. Just give it time and he'll decide what he wants.
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Well I have this boy friend and I like totally in love w/ him! But I fing out all the things he does and some of his personal life I dont mean to I just hear now it's gottin into a habbit I like know his whole egaenda! Is this noraml? (link)
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Hello,
If you are just hearing this stuff without meaning to then it is perfectly fine. If you are trying to find out information you shouldn't then I would stop.
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hey i work as a cashier at a grocery store for 6 hours a day. it gets really boring and i feel like screaming!! can anyone please give me some helpful hints to get through the day without wanting to scream?( its so boring and i need help passing the time..) (link)
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You could always write or read whenever you don't have to be working.
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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?
thanks,
rob (link)
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Hey. It sounds like she is pregnant, but she could still get her period. You should have her take a home pregnancy test.
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ok friday night there was a basketball game and i went and i hung out with one of my bestfriends k but at the game i thought she was being mean right ok well after the game was a dance and i didnt go but i called my friend k and she was there and she hung up in face which made me really mad k and yesterday sunday i was talking to her on aim and shes all are u mad at me and i was like yea and shes all y and im like well you hung up on me when i called and lately you just start yelling at me for no reason... so she like got mad and blocked me... she came to me at school last week and just starts yelling at me telling me that i could have gotten her phone taken away and im just like ok well you gotta tell me that instead of yelling at me and yea shes done it more then once and like i was trying to explain to her that I hate when she yells at me cuz were supposed to be friends but she wont let me... and this pisses me off cause sometimes it feels like she doesnt treat me like a friend but something else... today i went up to her and tried to work things out cause shes my best friend so i went up to her and smiled and then shes like thats such a stupid reason for you to be mad and im like no you arent supposed to hang up in my face and this other girl standing next to me is like yea you should have just been like i cant talk right now gotta go bye but she didnt and then she starts yelling infront of some of friends that i shouldn't call her cell phone after nine and a bunch of crap so i just turn around and leave cause i serioulsy dont need her yelling at me... but still im so mad cause its like i cant tell her how i feel and if i do she will get mad isnt that dumb arent we supposed to be bestfriends and tell each other when were mad and stuff i even told her that it hurts my feelings in stuff but she wouldnt listen to me...
What should i do PLEASE HELP!!!
~!~Live Strong~!~ (link)
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Hey.
This girl doesn't really sound like a very good friend to me. If she keeps yelling at you then you should just spend less time with her because she isn't treating you the right way. You should still treat her well when you see her and maybe she'll see that you really do care about her and she'll follow your example.
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I hate this kid but i love this kid... He thinks his girlfriends a whor* and he wont dump her!! I love him and i want him to freeking stop if he hates her anyidea to make her belive me?? (( she doesnt belive me ))
- Erin (link)
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Hey.
I don't think it's your place to make her believe you. If her bf wants to dump her and go out with you then he will. Don't stress.
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my dad doesn't trust me... he has this thing in my computer that saves my IM's so he can see what i am saying... he says he will only give me 30 minutes out of mon - thurs. to talk to my friends on IM because thats what my aunt does to my cuzin... is there any way that i can get rid of this... my dad said there isn't but i no that there is... i can't talk to my dad about anything because he won't listen... its his way or no way... going for help is not an option i will take... what should i do (link)
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Alright, I've dealt with this alot with my own parents. I don't think that you should say that you want to committ suicide because then your dad might get you professional help and that could be embarrasing if you aren't really suicidal. It is true that you can IM from a browser but since your dad checks on you I think that you'd be in alot of trouble if he ever found out what you were doing, and he may just take away your whole computer forever. I would suggest just using the phone and e-mail for awhile if you don't want your dad reading your conversations. I'm sure that eventually he'll trust you and he'll let you IM people without reading the coversations.
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I volunteer a lot for a non-profit organization, and everyone in the group puts in TONS of hours. There's this one lady though who drives us all nuts, because she always has these ideas about stuff "we" should be doing, but she never wants to put a real proposal together for it or take on leadership of the project herself. We would all totally support her if she took on a project, but none of us have the time or initiative to make it happen just because she thinks it's a good idea. Plus, I think that if *she* thinks it's important for us to have a fundraising dinner, *SHE* should plan it!
So I have two questions: first, what's her problem?! second, how do we get the point across that if she wants something done, she's gonna have to do it herself? (link)
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Hey.
It sounds to me like this lady is just afraid to do things for herself. I would suggest that the next time she comes up with one of these ideas that you tell her that you would be glad to help her with anything that she wants to plan. That way the work isn't all on you and she has to lead it.
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I'm really upset. I just recently tried out for Grease. And I don't think I got in. And I think the only reason why is because the director couldn't read my e-mail address. I think I did good because the man I sang to for my audition said I did excellent. I am wondering should I e-mail the director? She didn't send out all the cast things yet but it's just not fair that she is sending out roles on different days. What should I do? (link)
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Hey.
I think that you should just wait for all of the parts to be cast. If you didn't get in, don't give up, keep on trying. You'll get it eventually.
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I broke up with my boyfriend because he was slacking off on his school work and getting in trouble. But other than those things, I still really like him. I can't get over him! Today we hung out and had a lot of fun. I think want him back but I'm scared to ask. And what about the reason I broke up with him in the 1st place? Has anyone got any ideas on what I should do?
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Hey Karen.
If he isn't still slacking off on his work or anything, then I would say go for it. But if he still has the same problems, then you two will be right back where you were in the beginning.
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ok im haveing a serouis problem i really like this guy but he has a gf and we went out once but then he dumped me and i miss him im supposed to see him tonight but with his gf and im serouisly clueless urs truley clueless (link)
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Dear Clueless,
If this guy already has a girlfriend then you and him are probably not meant to be for the time being. Just concentrate on being friends with him and maybe you two will end up back together. I would not suggest telling him how you feel as long as he has a girlfriend though. And remember, there are alot more guys out there.
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ok my best friend is dateing this guy that iu so totally had first and he kissed me and held my hand and then all of the suddenhe likes my best friend when i see them together i get so sad and she keeps on saying oh i will dump him and then she doesnt what should i do by lost and forgotten (link)
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Hey. Tell your friend again how you feel. Realize that you can't make her do anything, but if she is really a friend she will take your feelings in account.
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this boy went out with this semi-good friend of mine and they broke up w/each other. So he asked my bff out and she said no cuz our semi-friend said she still had feelings for him. weve been talking and he said he never wanted to go out with her (semi) in the first place. so yesterday we were hanging out and i let grab me ass a couple of times. And he kept complmenting me saying i was perfect and stuff like that. My bff said i should go out with him. Also my semi friend said i couldn't hang out with this other boy in our neighborhood cuz he "used" her and we Knew him befor they went out. iLL rate!!!1 (link)
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Hello there. If you don't mind losing your semi-friend, go ahead and go out with him, but make sure that you tell her first. I you want to keep her, I would suggest asking her how she feels about you going out with this guy, and then if she says no don't do it. If she says yes, then great. Good luck!
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well im going out with this kid that is rude to my best friend but she is really rude to him to and whenever im with him my friend always starts with him and my friend thinks hes totaly rude and wants me to dump him but i dont want to cu i like him alot and she is really mad at me cuz i wont dump him cuz he is rude to her what should i do??? (link)
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Hello. Just tell your friend how you feel. When you see it start to happen again, ask the person who is being rude to stop. If they are really your friends, they will respect how you feel.
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Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help! (link)
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Alright, here we go. If you see that your friend is smoking again, I would confront her about it later, actually telling her that you saw her. If you wish you may want to tell her that it hurt you that she lied to you about it in the past. However, you cannot make someone stop doing something. It is alright for you to voice your concern for her and let her know that you think what she is doing is wrong, but constantly telling her this will drive her away. She has to be willing in order to actually change.
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