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My Boyfriends Being Gay(stupid)
Okay, i've been dating this guy for like 2 months...and he's being really immature and he can't do things very often cuz his parents r really strict and he's been really busy. I want to wait for summer when he can do more stuff because i really like him....what should i do? dump or wait~*Kt*~
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well, the problem with dumping him is, he might not be there when summer rolls around. also, if you tell him you want to wait until then, he might be offended somewhat. but you shouldn't just stay with him if it makes you unhappy, because eventually he will notice, and then you two might drift apart, and he might not be there during summer. you could try to "take a break" as others are suggesting, if you think it is worth the risk of possibly losing him in that time.
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If you think he's worth the wait then wait for him. But don't let him hold you back from anything. It's not his fault he's never available.Tell him to grow up if he's being immature, but in a nicer way. If he's being immature it's probably just so he can heard you laugh. Just do what feels right in the long run.
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You should stay with him, maybe hes being immature because hes frustrated because his parents are strict, I know mine are like that too. And when I have a boyfriend I start worrying about if their gonna stay with me because we cant do stuff together and talk all the time. Therefore I get kinda bitchy, not really immature though.. Talk to him about it, if he keeps acting immature let him go.
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It depends on if you really like your boyfriend or not. If you do, stay with him. If you don't, tell him that being with him right now is really hard on you. He's always really busy and you don't feel like your really in a relationship with him. Tell him everything you feel about him and how you want to take a break until the summer. Then once the summer starts you can hook back up, because it'll be easy to hangout with eachother and such.
♥ Krissy
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i think ya should talk about it. try 2 see if ya can do more things 2 gether. if it doesn't work then ya should break up and wait till summer if ya still have feelings 4 each other
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If you really like your boyfriend, then you should wait until the summer when you two can do more things because it's not his fault that he can't do anything. Why is her immature? You should talk to him and figure out something between you two. Maybe you can take a break but not actually break up with him and then you two can go back out at the end of the school year? That's just a thought and you don't have to do that. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
-Karen
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Well, maybe you should ask him about it and see what you guys can do together. So it wouldent be just you dumping him, you would both agree on it. Like both agreeing to see other people until the summer and you guys can hook up again. Try that!
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