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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him
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He used you, I'm sorry to say.. He really is not worth it.. dont Cry for him.. Your just showing that he is winning.. Don't let him win.. Be strong.. next time you see him.. don't make eye contact.. don't speak.. Don't even think about him! just walk past him.. act like you dont give a fuck.. even if you do!
and yeah.. 3 days is a bit soon to jump in the sack with someone.. you shouldn't be so fast off the trigger.. if they wanna have sex with you.. tell them if in 6 months you are still together.. you will have sex... if they stay with you for at least a month.. its ok to go ahead and have sex.. it shows they respect you.. and that they are willing to wait for you.. Good luck with the future
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He's a jerk. Don't love him. He's using you, get over him.
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You cant love someone you only went out wtih for 3 days, you're an idiot.
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tell him that he really hurt you. if he is willing to hurt you, then he is not the right guy for you anyway.
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anonymous -
Tell me what's wrong with this picture...EVERYTHING! You sleep with the guy after 3 days of dating, you claim to "love him" also? Hun, how can you love someone after three days??? If you ask me it's infatuation rather than love...
To be BRUTALLY honest, it looks like he just used you for sex...and already leaving you after three days? The sex must've been horrible then!
Oh yea, about the advice part. Just move on and mingle. Life's too short to get butt hurt over something like this. Yea you lost your virginity, but I'm taking it that the big v doesn't mean a whole lot to you if you lost it with a guy in three days. Just move on and forget about it. What happens, happens for a reason. It's better to be happy than wallow in your sadness right?
Sorry for the bluntness, but reality isn't pretty. You can't always be told what you want to hear all the time, sometimes you just have to accept things for what they really are. Good luck.
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hey i think that there is a small possibility that he was just mad about your friend with the whole kicking him out thing??? so he took it out on you first b/c you were there. But there is a bigger chance that he just wanted sex from you and that what he got. If you were only goin out with him 3 days, did you like have sex with him the FIRST day? maybe you just THINK you love him because you feel lust for him. but if you cried, i think you just like him WAY too much for what he's worth. sry hun, but i think the guy you "love" is just playin you and his little trick worked. Don't believe guys so easily- they do tend to lie to you.
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YOU SLEPT WITH HIM AFTER 3 DAYS??? thats a bit scary. he used you.
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well first of all, how old are you? try to work things out but if they dont work out, you'll find someone even bettter.
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If your boyfriend is being so mean to you, then you don't deserve a guy like him in your life. Did he start being mean to you after you two had sex? If so, then he probably just used you for sex and he is just being mean to you so you can leave him, which I think is wrong and unfair. If a guy makes you cry, it shows you that he doesn't care about you that much. If he hasn't called, it may mean that he is ignoring you. You need to try contacting him and tell him how you feel about all of this that he has done. If he is mean to you again, just dump him because there are other guys that wouldn't treat you the way you are being treated by your boyfriend. If you love him, then talk to him and try to make this relationship work but if nothing changes, you know this mean that you have to move on.
-Karen
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After 3 days, and then having sex with him. He doesnt like you, he doesnt love you...he justed wanted sex from you. So he got it, and now hes gone. Sorry but he doesnt care for you! Next time understand that guys who do you only after 3 days just want some pussy! So sorry sweetie, just move on..
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I've been in a relationship kinda of like you are in, he was in a different state, and I lost my virginity to him after only a couple of weeks of knowing him. I cried way before that because I knew I was already in love with him,but it would never work. More than likely same thing has happened to you, he took your virginity and now he just doesnt care. Dont take offense but its the truth more than likely. You can live without him, end it.
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Sweetie, this might be hard to hear, but it sounds like he was just using you. Once he actually got sex he started being mean to you and that's not right. You don't need a guy like that in your life, at all. You should be with someone who won't treat you like trash and will actually love you for you and not want you just because of sex. This guys sounds like a totally ass and I think you really need to get over him. I know it might be hard, but you have to. He's putting you though so much pain and you don't need that. You need a man that will stick by you and won't make you cry!
♥ Krissy
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OMG its been fucking 3 days, u have no idea what love is, and next time wait....i hope u used a trojan lol
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