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ok so theres this guy that i "talked" to for a few weeks, and we went on a couple dates, then one night it went a lil further...then the next day he stopped calling me as much and stopped texting me, and we never hang out ne more. But wenever i see him at school he comes up and gives me a hug. Which sucs cuz everytime i see him he like takes my breath away...but for the past week i've been trying to play it cool and pretend like i dont like him, n wenever he gives me a hug or talks to me...i just pretend like i don't care...but the truth is I'm insanly attached to him, and i miss him sooo much. So i still call him like every night, n he used to pick up and we'd talk for a few hours, now he doesnt even pick up...I dont know what to do...he broke my heart, n now he said he's back with his Ex..how do i get over him...he drives me insane,I just want to be with him, but i know i can't.
-broken hearted-
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Honey, this guy completely used you and he is worth nothing. He is shit and you could do so much better than him!! One thing I would say you could do is write 3 lists; things you like about him, things you don't like about him and reasons why you shouldn't go out with him. Burn the list with what you like about him and keep the other two pinned up on the wall so that you will be reminded of them every day. When you find yourself thinking about him, slap yourself hard. You'll soon stop thinking about him as much. Also, go out guy-spotting with your friends, it'll make you feel much better and you may even end up with a couple of phone numbers ;-)
All these have been recently tried by my friend and believe me, they do work! You are a beautiful and unique person, remember that. He is not worth your tears, you deserve so much better. Good luck honey
Claire xx
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You really need to start showing him that you do like him. He may think that your not interested in him anymore, because you aren't really talking to him like you used to. He probably stopped calling because he thinks it's pointless. You really have to show this guy you like him. You can tell he likes you; he's always calling, talking to you and giving you hugs. He might just be back with his ex because he knows he can't get you. I think you should tell him how your feeling and see where it goes from there. He could feel the same way, dump his ex, then go out with you. You never know, but if you really like this guy, you should take the chance of telling him. If he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, your going to have to move on. There are probably a lot of other guys that like you. I'd suggest you go on somedays, try to get closer with some of your guy friends, etc. That way, it'll help you get your mind of this guy and maybe you'll find a new crush.
♥ Krissy
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this guy has done a very bad thing it is clear that you had something between you and he has not valued that but at the same time if you don't show that you like him then he will not calll you because he will think it is pointless so tell him how you feel the only reason he is back with his ex is because he wants you to want him and be jealous ..........
I hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me.....
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Aww, hey. Maybe he stoped calling you because you acted like you didnt like him and didnt care. Maybe you shouldnt have acted like that. You cant really get over him. Your feelings cant get over someone. You know? Well, you can still talk to him at school and ask him why he wont talk to you on the phone anymore.
♥ MIchelle
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