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Q: ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ?
Well does he like her back? I would be pissed off my rocker! You have no idea! you have the all out absolute right to be mad!! I would sit down and have a 1 to 1 talk with eachother face 2 face too!-♥Trix♥

Q: I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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Run/jog/walk daily but do crunches to those are very helpful or you could go to the gym-trix

Q: does anyone know the head advicenators website?? thanks!
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Q: Theres one guy who changes mood's rapidly. He used to always be happy, now he's always mad, yet today he was happy. We used to like eachother, but never said anything. Point being, I still like the guy. I don't know if he likes me. I'm 19 he's 16. Sucks, yeah. But I love the guy. He's all I think about during the day. Even now..haha. Help? If I tell him, I know he'd laugh it off and act as if I'm joking. I don't really feel like talking about lovey shit, either.
Wright him a emial and make it sound serious like put in the subject.. serious or something like that or write him a letter and send it to his house and hopefully he wont be so joking about it-trix

Q: okay i wonna know, how to have a nice ass? WHAT should i do?/ RUN?? or something?
Run and do crushers-trix

Q: Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
Well sounds to me as if he is.. a best friend with benefits .. not to sound rude sorry i do. But he is right there is a big gap in age difference and if you did tell anyone that could get you into trouble because its illegal.. so there for i would just leave it at how you to are. And he will be going off to college and meeting new people (sorry to put you down) (but i just want to come off straight forward to help you through this) so he will be dating other people which is what you need to do also and after you date for awhile the right person will come along i promise but just try not to cling yourself onto this guy i know everyone including me says age doesnt count but i think in this case it does count im so sorry i wish you good luck with other guys though!!-trix

Q: k, so I got new naeighbors and well their kid or teenager came to my house and we talked for awhile but now scence we hang out he just wont leave me alone , I mean I like him and all but he gets annoying, what do I do???
Just tell him you have plans for the next day and wont have time to hang out and that should get him off your back for the next day and continue to do that and tell him you'll call him when you want to hang out-trix

Q: Alrighty, this guy went out with my bestfriend. I like him, but they hate each other. He says he likes me but won't go out with me. Everytime a friend asks why he says because I'm too young (He's 16 I'm 13) but he went out with my gurl who's 14. I really want this guy, but I don't know what to do.
Well maybe you should just respect that decision he made or wait until you are 14-trix

Q: I'm in like despirate need of a job cuz my mom decided to stop randomly givin me money wich sucks ass... so ne ideas for a 14/f!
Fast food place, or babysitting-trix

Q: ~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~
I would check yourself into the hospital and have your current bf right now with you through the whole thing to help make it easier-trix

Q: ~*Hey I have this problem with my cuzin. She is now 14. She thinks she is better than every1 else...she even told me that once. She dresses like a slutt...most ppl call her 1. She wears skirts that don't cover her a**, and shirts that go just bellow her breasts. Every where I go wit her guys r always starring. She always brings me down, and told me that she was ready to have sex!!! She is turning anirexic(food disorder). I wish I could help her. All she does is tell me how much she thinks I wanna be like her. I just don't understand I love and care for her and she treats me like this. I've tried asking her whats wrong, and she just calls me a loser and walks away. Pls help wit my problem*~
Tell her how you feel and that she makes you feel bad/down. And let her know that she is not ready to have sex and you know that for a fact and she doesnt know weather the guy has STDs or anything like that! And for the anirexia you may want to tell her parents about it before she seriously gets hurt. And no matter how much she may hate you now.. and what you do to help her she will thank you later-trix

Q: well i realli like this one kid jay... he's hott nice an sweet i love his personality an of course his eyes but latly he's been giving me signals an all my (girl) friends have been saying he is givin u so many signals an that he likes me but i realli dont know, like he's been paying attiction to wut ive been sayin, stairin at me continusly even if i aint talking, an putting his arm around me an is constantly askin who i like an saying he got my back an stuff... i realli like him but like.. if i tell him i like him i dont want to feel stupid if he dosnt like me back... jay means the world to me an i realli dont wana look stupid if he dont like me back!!! plzz help!!!
I am pretty positive he likes you to i would tell him you like him and i am almost 110% sure that you wont get hurt in the process good luck between you and jay!!-trix

Q: Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them.
Tell her/him that you dont like to hear things about your friend because you dont want to hear bad things about her either so just stick up for all them-trix

Q: anyone have any good webisites that have fun quizzes like personality ones and stuff? thx
go to askjeeves and type in quizes.. but there is a quizzle.com or something like that-trix

Q: does anyone have any good ideas for a good job that i could have. im 13/f. i would really like to have a job.
Babysitting it keeps you busy and you have someone to talk to no matter the age-trix

Q: does anyone know any good songs? i like alternative music. but i would like songs that u never hear, but have a good message or are about couples.
Accidently in love-(shrek 2) all my life-kc and JoJo have you ever-brandy Sweet Child of mine-Gunz and roses -trix

Q: is it ok to have stretch marks or like scars of some sort on ur breasts?
Yes its because of the growth so dont have any worries unless you get bumps but that is the only thing really-trix

Q: Hey...I'm soo sick right now, I feel really dizzy and my throat is killing me soo bad, I've taken advil but that doesnt seem to work, could anyone tell me how to maybe make the pain go away a little more?...please hurry its hurts soo bad!=(...xoxo // Lyss
You probably came down with something i would go to the dr. asap or to the pharmist at wal-greens or osco drug or something like that -trix

Q: after i find the url/address for the song i want on my website where do i paste it in my settings?
In the area of where you talk about yourself-trix

Q: Ok, this sounds kinda gross, n this question might get kicked off but i am serious about this...today my breasts started hurting really bad, it is doing it right now there are like these certain spots where they hurt, so im just wondering why they hurt and shud i call a doctor or something? Thanks!
They are probably growing dont worry!-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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