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what would you do ?
ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ?
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i dont think u should be mad but what i would do is have him confront in ur face that he still dont got fellings for tree gurl u relly need 2 talk 2 him and ask him if he loves u or her has 2 b 1 of u
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Well does he like her back? I would be pissed off my rocker! You have no idea! you have the all out absolute right to be mad!! I would sit down and have a 1 to 1 talk with eachother face 2 face too!-♥Trix♥
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well wouldnt it be hard for you if you were best friends with a guy that really liked you? and you wanted to tell your boyfriend? i think he would get jealous too! but i mean i wouldnt be mad because its not his fault that she likes him! but if their relationship progresses much more..then you can take sum action! lol *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Well I would be but if you guys still 'like' each other then you should talk to him about it or sumthing and I would try to get over it since you knew it all along anyway so it did not come to you as a surprise...But then again I would wonder what other secrets he has been keeping from you...
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Haleigh Ann
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Ok yeah i get jealous all the time when my "boyfriend" I guess you could call him would talk to these few girls. But did you tell him you knew he liked her? Cuz see he probably didnt want you to get mad at him and jump to conclusions and assume that he liked her. I'm sure he did it for your sake... Dont be mad just talk to him and ask him why he kept it from you. Good luck!
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Yeah,god damn right you should.Your best friend should be your boyfriend or girlfriend for the guys. If you have a friend stronger than them,the relationship is in trouble right there. Yeah you knew it,but he didn't know you knew it and therefore has officially tried to keep something from you. I have an idea though. Why does everybody feel like they have to do one guy-one girl at 14,15,and 16? Why can't he just go out with both of you? I mean dating is essentially an experiment with the opposite sex(the same sex for some). Right now,just have fun,and enjoy it. You'll have married life to be tied down.
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you should only be mad if he likes her back, because he knows his feelings and if he liked her he should have told you, if you understand where im coming from..
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Well,he was probably doing that to keep you from getting hurt,but still that was something he should've mentioned before.It would probably be best to just sit down with your boyfriend and express your concern.Let him know that you're a little jealous and a little worried about the situation.He sort of contradicted himself,he says they're best friends and then when you say you doubt she looks at him as a best friend he gets upset.Yet later he tells you that she told him she liked him a while ago!!So just let him know that that upset you.Tell him that you love him and don't want anything to jeopardize your relationship.If he truly is right for you,he'll be willing to listen and talk this whole situation thru!!! Best of luck hunnie!! :)
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Ya wow thats a terrible name. What the hell were her parents thinking. Anyways, he didn't say he likes this girl back - he just said she likes him. You should ask him if he has any feelings towards Tree as more than friends and see what he has to say. If he honestly just wants to be friends with this girl, then theres really no reason to be mad. But you should warn him that eventually, shes going to try and make a move on him. If he does have feelings for her well then I'd be mad.
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hey gurl,
first of all wat the heck kinda name is tree?!!?!? lol jk jk!! anyways tho i think u should talk to ur bf about how u dont feel so good about tree and him being frends and hoow ur a lil jealous and all u shouldnt b too too mad at him but u should let him no u would've liked to no erlier. anyways jus tell him everything u jus wrote ther and it should help yall out a lil! hope it works out! if he doesnt listen to u about the topic u should bring up breaking up over it, that mite change his point of view. write me sum time!
<3 fran
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well if you already knew then there wasnt much to tell but he was probably doing that to spare you feelings and if you already thought she liked him and he told u it too then who know what might of happend but if someone likes him theres nothing u can do about it u know as long as ur with him just be happy as long as hes not cheating or something but i can see u being upset but just talk to him tell him how u feel to prevent things like this from happening in the future no need to cause a big sceen and make the relationship have problems over something small ya know well i know im probably not much help but i hope i helped a bit and i hope everything works out
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