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ok well im totally freaking out...my bf was over today and we started kissing and my younger sister (10) walks in and sees us,so she told my mom and dad and now they are mad and wont let me see him, im soo sad and i cant stop crying, what should i do?

talk to your parents about it and your boyfriend. tell them it was innocent and stuff and that you really care about him, but you guys know what you're doing and all you did was kiss.

good luck!

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hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way

all you need to do is sort out your feelings. whoever you have more feelings for, go with him. juss try hanging out with both and see what you feel. it might help talking to them about it.

good luck!

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does anyone know any html sites that i could use to make my myspace more interesting? like boxes, layouts, fonts etc..

i have two sites you could try!

http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/html_cheatsheet/

OR

http://www.htmlgoodies.com/

-hope that helped!

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okay i have this guy friend that i'm really close to. were always playing w/each other but is it flirting? like today on IM he said "omg you looked so HOT today! j/p" and i said "yeah you too ;-)" but i mean is he flirting w/me??? were pretty open w/each other and everything. but he asked my bff out and she turned him down and i don't think he's quite over her... is this flirting? thanks

it MIGHT be flirting, it MIGHT not. it depends on what kind've person he is. the best thing you can do is talk to him about it.

good luck!

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hi my name is jess im 13 and in kindergarden i had this boyfriend i know a little young but he was my first true love and right after that school year endeed he moved to the town next to me now im in 7th grade and i havent seen him in 8 yrs. Now i cheerlead for his football team and i still havent gotten a chance to see him cause no game have started yet but we all have the same practices like times and days and places but but different areas of the building. If i dont see him or talk to him i really might have a breakdown. its been 8 years to long. how can i get a chance to see him or talk to him. What if he doesnt remember me?
plz hurry!!!!!

if you notice him, go up to him. start conversation and juss be friendly about it. dont go right out saying how you loved him and all that stuff yet. once you form a friendship again, THEN tell him how you feel. take it slow. 8 yrs is a long time. he'll probably remember you, but juss remind him if he doesnt.

good luck!

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my period is mroe of a purple color not red....is that normal? plz help! i rate high!

yep, normal

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does anyone know any really fast easy diets? .. i need to lose about 4 pounds. please dont give me the atkins diet. Thanks i rate high

i know a healthy fast way.

-sleep 9-10 hrs each night
-eat all 3 meals, especially breakfast w/ lil HEALTHY snacks in between, such as veggies, fruit, yogurt, etc. [it sounds weird but it helps your metabolism
-exersize for 1-2 hrs

that should do it. if not theres some diets on google, but make sure you do it healthy

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alright well my hair is getting dried and my ends are splitting mostly because i straighten it like everyday. i use this gel stuff for when i get out of the shower so it can protect my hair from getting damaged but im guessing its not working... does anyone know of anything to use for my hair..?

i'd ask your salon person, OR the shampoo you use, brand or whatever, if you look on the back theres different types of shampoo for split ends, etc.

good luck!

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this is weird but.. how can a person be gay? like.. is everyone born gay and they discover that they're gay later on in their lives, or do they somehow become gay from experiencing something? i'm 14/f, and i'm totally straight, i really dont want to be a lesbian or anything, but is there a chance that i might become one when i grow older?

i think gay is someone's opinion. not every1 is born gay but i think most are. im straight so idk how that works exactly. i dont think theres a chance you can turn gay though. you never know i guess.

-hope that helped

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does anyone know how to make xanga layouts? i love doing stuff on the comp and i really want to make stuff for others. if anyone knows how either leave a message on my xanga
www.xanga.com/Xo_bowling_for_soup_fan_oX
or leave a message here! thanx!

the easiest way to make layouts is taking codes from a layout makers site. soo you take the code and then put in YOUR information. color codes, what it says, how it looks, etc.

good luck!

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How do you figure out someone's real number when they use the *67 (the ID block)? Yesterday, my friend pranked her friend's house on private, and her friend's mother called back angry and threatening to tell her parents. I'm just wondering because I get a lot of private calls and would like to know who keeps calling and hanging up. Thanks :)

i dont think theres a way you can find out. sorry!

good luck!

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Hey. What's up?

I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.

Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?

I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.

How can I deal with the thoughts?

Is this normal?

(Sophmore, Female)

-Kels-

its pretty normal to "like" er think other guys are "attractive" as long as you KNOW you wont go out with them. its pretty much human nature, but i think you should be honest and keep an open relationship w/ him and tell him about it. tell him its nothing serious and its minor compared to your love for him.

good luck!

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I have talked to him and he does know he is messing up but doesn't seem tosink in.NOw what.

tell him you'd like it if he called you when he got home from whereever he was, and let you know whats going on with him.

good luck!

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my best guy friend and i have been friends for 10 years. recently we went kayaking together to a private beach thing. he was being really flirty and being extra nice to me, showing off and was acting all weird. he's never acted like this before. my other best friend thinks he likes me, but I'm not sure. If anyone could has an opinion on this it's definitely appreciated. Thanks

i think he likes you. talk to him about it. he'll probably understand since you guys are good friends.

good luck!

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my hair is thick and wavy. how can i make it have volume?

idk what kind of shampoo/conditioner/hairspray/moose you use but theres volumizing types in almost all brands. try going to the local grocery store, cvs, eckard, walmart, etc.

good luck!

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I have been with my boyfriend for 9 month and now he doesnt come home tell late at night and he never calls me. HOw do I know what to do?

talk to him about it. you know boys, most cant read girls whatsoever, so he probably has no idea he's doing anything wrong. he should call you, that's what bfs do.

good luck!

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16/F (I'm a waitress..)

There's this guy from work that I like, and I'm not sure if he likes me as more than a friend, or just a friend.

I'm not sure, but I think he flirts with me. He'll steal a salt shaker from one of my tables, and won't give me it back unless I chase him around the kitchen for it. He shouts my name across the dining room, and risks getting fired for it. He talks to me a lot, and will usually even help me clear a table just to talk to me.. he does little things for me like that. If I'm carrying a tray, or something, he'll put his hand on my back and help guide me through the doors. I'm a pretty shy person, so I hate it when I talk to customers as I'm clearing a table, so usually he'll come over and talk to them for me...

But.. there's two other girls.. and they usually go up to him, and hug him. And they're pretty. And outgoing. And I don't know, I just don't think he likes me. How about you?

it sounds like he likes you. go for it. those other girls probably don't even matter to him like you. juss talk to him about it. everyone gets shy/nervous, etc. he'll probably understand where you're coming from. you need to say something, because you don't wanna regret it. so juss be yourself and go for it!

good luck!

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My friend Alex told me he didn't like his girlfriend Katie anymore. I asked why and he said it was 'cause he hadn't seen her all summer. I was like "well that's okay, you guys'll get back together at school." The later he told me he just didn't have feelings for her anymore (still summer). I told him he hadn't seen her and to just wait 'till school before he broke up with her or anything like that. Then later he told me he took his other friend's advice and broke up with her. At first he said Katie took it well, but then later Alex told me she IMed him saying she was gonna kick his ass at school. Now he's pissed off at ME for, in his words "not telling me clearly enough what to do." BUT I told him not to break up with her! How do I make him realize it's his own fault and not mine without just... well... accusing him of it being his fault? I RATE VERY WELL!!!!

definately talk to him about it. clearly you told him the right thing to do, and now i think he realized he made a mistake and is trying to push it on you. tell him how you feel, because you definately did the right thing.

good luck!

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ok my bff asked me 2 ask her crush out. I said sure but the thing is i liked him last year and im not totally over him quite yet.

I really want my bff 2 b happy but i dont think that he likes her and im not so sure that he likes me either. and if he says no her heart will b broken. what do i say 2 the guy?

we hated each other(or at least he hated me i just played along. Maybe he did 2 i dont know) and i really really like him please help me im so nervous and i have 2 ask him out tomorow morning....... this is very important. ill rate a 5 2 any 1 who gives a full and good answer


thanx ♥

talk to your bff about it first. she NEEDS to know that you like him. i mean, maybe she juss likes him as a crush, and knowing that you might like him even MORE, she might change her mind. 2nd talk to him about how you feel. the first thing to do though is talk to her.

good luck!

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ok this is about my boyfriend
well....ok my boy n I have been going out since that last week of school but after that we haven't talked!!! but one of my friends (a boy) called him and he realli didn't seem to care about me!!!!! and i had the biggest crush on him toO!!! so it hurt and i love him! and everyting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and like i want my friend who called him to dump him for me but he hasn't done it and now i am having second thoughts......i am soooooooo confused!!
PLZ HELP!!! b4 school starts lol (sept 12)
-ConFuSed Chiica

talk to your boyfriend about it. that's the only thing you can really do.

good luck!

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