|
I don't know...
16/F (I'm a waitress..)
There's this guy from work that I like, and I'm not sure if he likes me as more than a friend, or just a friend.
I'm not sure, but I think he flirts with me. He'll steal a salt shaker from one of my tables, and won't give me it back unless I chase him around the kitchen for it. He shouts my name across the dining room, and risks getting fired for it. He talks to me a lot, and will usually even help me clear a table just to talk to me.. he does little things for me like that. If I'm carrying a tray, or something, he'll put his hand on my back and help guide me through the doors. I'm a pretty shy person, so I hate it when I talk to customers as I'm clearing a table, so usually he'll come over and talk to them for me...
But.. there's two other girls.. and they usually go up to him, and hug him. And they're pretty. And outgoing. And I don't know, I just don't think he likes me. How about you?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Hey! i think he has somthing for you. he wouldnt be flirting like a mad man if he didnt. I use to be very shy too but than i found that if you think of the guy as just a friend and be yourself then its a lot easier...maybe you shouldnt start of strong and go to him and HUG him...but i think you just go over to him and talk to him....do you have aim? then maybe if you ask if he has a screen name....i find it a lot easier to talk to people online....i hope i could help you xoxo- steph
P.S..dont worry about thouse other girls...there just flirts..<3
]
i do think he likes you,because he flirts with you alot,and by the way its reeallyyy adorable.and,the two other girls. he probally just knows them from somewhere,and it seems he doesnt act like how he acts to you like he acts to them,and he seems like a really really nice guy,and i think he likes shy girls,because if he didnt why would he flirt with you soo adorably like he does?so i thinkk. you shouldd. talk to him more and stuff ,and get his number and talk to him more and see what hes like. (who knows maybe he has feelings for you and you two could have a realationship )
hope i helped..
amber
]
Okay, here's the basic rule for stuff like this, so listen up:
***If he's giving you special attention, you're special to him.***
Is he doing all that stuff for all the waitresses... or just you?
Cause it sounds to me like he likes you, and is very sweet to boot.
Oh, and the hand on back thing is big for guys. For a boy, touching almost ALWAYS means something.
But really, pay attention to how he treats you in relation to others. If it's different, chances are that he likes you.
]
I really think he likes you too. If he'll go out of his way to do all those things thenhe probably wants to get to know you better, and not the "pretty' girls.
]
Well to me it seems like he likes you. Those things are all so nice and it looks to me like he's trying to get you to like him back. I wouldn't be surprised if he was asking the same questions about you. I hope it works out for you guys. Hope I helped
]
He seems at least somewhat interested in you. All the guys I know just love to tease girls they like in that manner. I think he really likes you. =)
How does he react when the girls hug him? Does he invite them to hug him? Are they just friends? Do a little bit of investigation into that matter. If they're just good friends of his, I could understand him hugging them--it's what close friends do.
Also, does it matter if they're pretty? Some guys don't really care about looks, believe it or not. And I'll tell you this right now: looks don't matter to the people who do. I bet you're quite pretty yourself and are just too humble to admit it.
Outgoing personalities? Some guys like shy, sweet girls. Alot of guys are kind of iffy about outgoing girls because they're, well, outgoing. That can scare a guy witless. Also, some guys don't like outgoing girls because of their reputation for being sluts, etc.
You've got just as much a chance as those other girls. Flirt back a little! Tease HIM a bit, and see how he reacts. Egg him on, he'll love it. And don't ever forget to smile--guys love a beautiful smile.
Spend some more time with him, and get to know him better. Have fun!
I hope things work out for you. Keep me updated, and if you've got any more questions, feel free to ask me.
<3 Sporkster
]
it sounds to me like he does like you and if you like him then just be upfront about it or whatever-- i cant say much cause im really shy myself, but no guy would risk getting fired unless he a)hated his job or b) really liked you
if he doesnt have a girlfriend, ask him how he knows those girls, just friendly conversation and maybe hell say school or something but if hes not going out with either of them and they are really flirty and pretty then he doesnt like them and he probably likes you!
hope i helped!
<3 anne gvings
]
it sounds like he likes you. go for it. those other girls probably don't even matter to him like you. juss talk to him about it. everyone gets shy/nervous, etc. he'll probably understand where you're coming from. you need to say something, because you don't wanna regret it. so juss be yourself and go for it!
good luck!
]
Aw....Personally I think he likes you!! Does he do those things for those other "pretty" girls? Most likely not. Not all guys like really outgoing people. Guys like it when they see something they can help you with. It's like an oppertunity for them!! I think....I don't know I'm not a guy!!
Hope I helped!!
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
]
awww.he sounds cute. I think he deffonetley like you but like younggrandma said he hards to tell whethere he likes you more than that. Don't worry about those other girls being shy has its advantages you have that mysterious girl angle working for you! Just don't play that angle too much and talk to him more he might ask you out, if he likes you just flirt a bit with him when he talks to you.
]
I think he likes you! because if you are shy as u say you are and he still talks to you and stuff then maybe he doesnt care about the outgoing and pretty girls maybe hes one of those great guys that only cares what the inside of someone is rather then the outside. and thats rare. so what i would do is i would be myself because thats what he is drawn too..but i would try to be a little more outgoing to make him realize that your interested! and maybe that will lead you somewhere!
hope it helps!
__*Becca .. rate me!
]
I'd say he likes you. Don't know if its as more than a friend but talk to him whenever you can and with luck he will ask you out. Don't worry to much about the huggers, more than likely they are real irritating girls. :)
]
More Questions: |