ok this is about my boyfriend
well....ok my boy n I have been going out since that last week of school but after that we haven't talked!!! but one of my friends (a boy) called him and he realli didn't seem to care about me!!!!! and i had the biggest crush on him toO!!! so it hurt and i love him! and everyting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and like i want my friend who called him to dump him for me but he hasn't done it and now i am having second thoughts......i am soooooooo confused!!
PLZ HELP!!! b4 school starts lol (sept 12)
-ConFuSed Chiica
Shy-girl answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:38 pm: maybe you should hold off on dumping him at the moment till you get your head straight. First off have you spoken to you boyfriend personaly e.g on the phone in person if not maybe you should call him and ask him if he wants to meet up with you for a date, if he realy wants to date you he will make the effort to meet you. Also you can find out on your date if your relationship is going anywhere and if not you can dump him (in person) but you should talk to him about this face to face rather than through friends.
karenR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:33 pm: You really need to do the dumping yourself. Maybe he doesn't really consider you as his girlfriend since he hasn't called. Call him and see whats up, if the answer doesn't meet with your approval then tell him you think you will look for someone else to date. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:31 pm: If you haven't talked since the last week of school, I would end the relationship. It doesn't seem like he cares about you or the relationship very much, otherwise he would have tried to get a hold of you.
I know it might be hard for you to move on at first, but if you stay with someone who doesn't really care about you - you could be missing out on a lot of great guys who do care a lot about you.
I hope everything works out & if you need anything else leave it in my inbox. If you ever need to talk - just leave your screen name or e-mail in my feedback comment & I'll IM you or e-mail you. Good luck with everything!
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