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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

NoPE! lol we acutally just learned about this in health class..but yeah you cant so dont worry about it!
♥ Kristen

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sorry if this is long..

hi...im 16/f, here's the problem...i just broke up with my bf and i know i have love him over the past 1 year and 4 months but last month it was different...
bcoz when i was with him in that 1 yr and 4 months i was like a robot, whatever he says i do,whatever he like me to do i do it...i know hes very controlling guy, and he really get jealous easily...
but i know he loves me and i love him...i was just blind at that time and last month i woke up from that and i broke with him last month and he always ask me to come back to him and he will do everything...
and i came back to him but its not the same anymore, my love for him is not there... we were on and off...and just now i decided to end everything coz i know in the future i will broke up with him...
and now i feel guilty about myself and i felt really bad...i know im gonna miss him but i know i can do it without him...i just feel very bad about breaking up with him...what should i do to get rid of this
emotion that i felt...thanx in advance

Hey Sweetie! So sorry i didnt get back to you right away! but aww i think you did the right thing..if you dont have the same feelings for him anymore..then you have to break up. and thats what you did! dont feel bad at all..because its not your fault that you dont have the same feelings towards him..it sorta seemed like for that month or whatever you said..you where whipped on him but its just because you loved him so much that you didnt want to break his heart! if you want to get over this you have to go out with your girlies! go to the movies..mall..sporting events and this will give you a chance to go out and have funn..maybe even meet some new people?! if you think he is taking it hard..you have to talk to him..tell hiim that you truly did love him but then when you got back together the last time, things just wernt the same and that you still really care about him? aHhHh well hope i helped! if you need anything else be sure to drop one in the inbox ok!!

♥ Kristen

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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks

yes it is possible. and perfectly normal!
♥ Kristen

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Alright so a few nights ago I got really, really drunk. Like, I can't even remember anything besides taking the shots.
But the thing is
I got drunk and this guy fingered me+I gave him head. I'm a virgin so really the only thing that's 'been in me' was his finger...
and I'm pretty sore
But the thingis...
I don't know If he actually put his dick inside of me. He might've, but he doesn't remember either.
I got my period the next morning, so I'm wondering if there's any possibility at all that I may be pregnant.
thankyou

welll..
im pretty sure your not pregnant
because otherwise you would'nt of gotten your period! but if you want to be safe..wait a couple weeks and then take a test! hope all goes well hun. if you need anything else let me know!
♥ Kristen

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does anybody know where to get a cute trucker hat for girls real cheap anywhere?


kthx


-cami

go to the vondutch website..
here is the site for the hats lol
http://www.vondutch.com/pl/c/33.html

also uMmm like pac sun usually has cute ones!!
if you need anymore places let me know
♥ Kristen

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Heyy I was just wondering if you had any cute s/n ideas!? I am into hollister, abercrombie, I have green eyes, i like boys, lol umm ... idk can you just give me some cute ideas?? they can be about love and stuff .. thanks ♥

haha you could use my thing for this...
SWEETXLOVE
but um i'll try this! im kinda bad at it so sorry!!

xhollisterxcutiex
abercrombiehottiex
WTFxWHOREx

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I get really bad headaches all the time..i take advil and they go away..should i go to a doctor and see if there is anything wrong with me?


14/f is that helps

well that kinda happens to me..im not sure if its very serious since it goes away after taking something. that happened to my mom..she use to get really bad headaches except they would never go away..so she went to the doctor and they gave her these pills..and they helped. so if your headaches get worse and they happen more frequently maybe it would be a good idea to go see a doctor!! hope everything goes well hun.
♥ Kristen

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

it means that you two arent going out but your still gonna "do stuff" with them..like sexually! your both single..it means you can still hook up with other people if you want to!
♥ Kristen

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ok well this guy stares at me alot(ALOT),showsoff infront of me..and doesnt talk to girls other thenme...talked to me once but never did again...but still stares...does he like me?

aww cute! i think he likes you!!
♥ Kristen

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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :)

well girls can get them..but im just guessing its just discharge if your getting it at school too! its nothing to worry about tho hun!
♥ Kristen

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

i think thats cute! haha there is nothing wrong with that..its not even that big of an age difference! be careful tho with your decisions! HAVE FUN!!
♥ Kristen

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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks

yepp!
♥ Kristen

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what are sum programs to download any type of music?

well i have limewire!!
but you could also try ares or itunes.
hope i helped
♥ Kristen

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I like this one guy, & he flirts with me. But he is also a huge flirt with other girls. [ He has alot of girl friends] & Everytime he says something sweet to me, I fall harder for him.Does he like me ,or is he just being nice?
I know this may sound stupid, but advice would be nice

ahhh i hate when that happens! i have one of those at my school too..but its so hard to like blow him off because he is sooo hott! haha but yeah there may be a chance he likes you but i think he is just trying to be nice..he's just a flirt! its what he does lol. just keep flirting back..and maybe when you two get to talking more..ask him to hangout!? hope all goes well hun.
♥ Kristen

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From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate.

umm well i do! ahahaah but it all depends on you..and the person your with! maybe you could talk about it with the guy! but most guys do like it shaved down there..everyone is different tho!
♥ Kristen

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Okay I have this freind and she is so pretty
all the boys hit on her but when they hit on her they dont notice me I fill, Ugly or left out
I dont know if I am or not like for instance:
We were out @ the mall and this guy came close to her and winked and just look at me like what the He** you looking at or something like that I have no clue what to do
sorry its so long
i rate high

ugh i hate when that happens..it really sucks! because ive been through this before..i would just be like awe screw it!! i wouldnt feel bad at all hun..maybe do something nice for yourself..like if you know your going out and are gonna see alot of hotties then wear something cute/sexy do your hair and makeup nice switch things up a bit!! be yourself ..thats all you can do! just be outgoing and fun..personality is what counts babydoll..even though some jerks go on looks..but then you dont need them!! if you need anything im always here!!
♥ Kristen

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im 15 almost 16 and my friends are always talking about having oral sex. what is oral sex?

oral sex is like when one partner stimulates the other by using their mouth on the other's genitals.
here's a site if you wanna know more..
http://en.mimi.hu/sexuality/oral_sex.html
♥ Kristen

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okay, there's this guy tht i really like. nda whenever i go near him, he ives out clues that he MIGHT like me. does he? what should i do?

ahhh tough situation..im in the same one right now!! i think that he does have feelings for you otherwise he wouldnt want to be around you and he would definately NOT be giving you clues. keep talking and flirting with him..maybe when you get more comfortable with him then talk about you two! ask him to hang out!! have fun sweetie..if you need anything else let me know!
♥ Kristen

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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?

Please,dont delete.

Im not sure,what to think.


lol aw that sounds like a fun night ;) but i think he was kind of embarassed and confused..maybe he does have feelings for you but like since your friends with his sister..its sort of weird you know? one time my brothers friend and i madeout and then..like a couple days later we didnt talk so it was kind of weird. but thats a different story hah! umm i would talk to him about it and see what he was feeling and why he was flirting and doing all that stuff with you..obviously he has something for you tho! hope everything works out for the best hun! if you need anything else be sure to let me kno
♥ Kristen

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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x

well i kissed someone who smoked before..but he had gum in his mouth before we kisssed..so i couldnt like taste the cigarette.. maybe you could be like hey you want some gum!? haha or maybe he will put a mint in or gum before he does it! but if he doesnt like chew gum or anything before you guys kiss then you are most likely going to be able to taste it. and NO you cant get cancer from kissing him, you would actually have to put the cigarette in your mouth in order to get cancer. let me know if you need anything else!
♥ Kristen

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