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sorry if this is long..
hi...im 16/f, here's the problem...i just broke up with my bf and i know i have love him over the past 1 year and 4 months but last month it was different...
bcoz when i was with him in that 1 yr and 4 months i was like a robot, whatever he says i do,whatever he like me to do i do it...i know hes very controlling guy, and he really get jealous easily...
but i know he loves me and i love him...i was just blind at that time and last month i woke up from that and i broke with him last month and he always ask me to come back to him and he will do everything...
and i came back to him but its not the same anymore, my love for him is not there... we were on and off...and just now i decided to end everything coz i know in the future i will broke up with him...
and now i feel guilty about myself and i felt really bad...i know im gonna miss him but i know i can do it without him...i just feel very bad about breaking up with him...what should i do to get rid of this
emotion that i felt...thanx in advance
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Hey Sweetie! So sorry i didnt get back to you right away! but aww i think you did the right thing..if you dont have the same feelings for him anymore..then you have to break up. and thats what you did! dont feel bad at all..because its not your fault that you dont have the same feelings towards him..it sorta seemed like for that month or whatever you said..you where whipped on him but its just because you loved him so much that you didnt want to break his heart! if you want to get over this you have to go out with your girlies! go to the movies..mall..sporting events and this will give you a chance to go out and have funn..maybe even meet some new people?! if you think he is taking it hard..you have to talk to him..tell hiim that you truly did love him but then when you got back together the last time, things just wernt the same and that you still really care about him? aHhHh well hope i helped! if you need anything else be sure to drop one in the inbox ok!!
♥ Kristen
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Maybe you should just take a longgggg break and see if you still have any feelings for him. maybe later you will have all your feelings sorted out and it can go back to normal if that's what you want. for now, just move on and forget about him if you can. indulge in stuff you like...chocolate, girls nights... fun stuff. <3
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