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This is really embarassing for me to ask but oh well, here goes...
When I go swimming I wear a bathing suit (duh). But I notice that my pubic hair pokes out through the material (in front). It isn't that noticeable but it's embarassing and you CAN see it. I don't think shaving would help, I think it would just make ot worse. I tried trimming it a bit but that didn't work either! What can I do to stop this????
NOOOOO! Don't ever shave your pubic hair. Or trim it. It will just irritate the sensitive skin, and make it more noticeable. Try getting some Nair instead.
in our group of friends there is a girl (lets call her laura) who every1 else is always bitchin about. i join in with them sumtimes but i dont agree wiv it. the thing is, i dont wanna tell em off or anythin coz they wont like me as much, but laura's my feidn n i dont wanna lose her coz i was tryin to keep my other friends. help!
Well I think that if you were really Laura's friend, then you would tell her what they are saying about her. I also don't see why you want to be in your group of friends if they talk behind each other's back. But, if you must stay in the group, tell Laura what they are saying, make her swear not to tell, and don't say anything when they talk about Laura. It doesn't sound like a good plan, but hey, if you want to stay in the group that bad, it's what you have to do.
What is it called if you eat alot of sugar and it sends you on a sugar high for like 10 minutes but then you get really tired and just HAVE to lay down. When you lay down or try to rest it feels like something is holding you down so you can't get back up again. This has happened to me several times and I just don't know what to think.
Confused
It is called Hyperglycimia. My mom has it. You feel tired because of high blood sugar. You should see your doctor. He will give you some iron pills to take that will help. The bad news is, you will only be able to eat very small amounts of sugar and carbohydrate. Your doctor will probably tell you to go on the Atkins or South Beach diet.
well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do??
Don't do it. You will regret it. Even if you use condoms, it is still not guarenteed that you will not get a disease or get pregnant. 17 out of every 100 condoms fail to do their job. Don't do it unlesss you are sure you are ready and want it.
i think i may like one of my good boy friends but im not sure if he likes me how do i find out and how do i respond
What you should do is talk to him and say "You know (insert friend's name here) said that we would make a good couple". If he seems to agree, then tell him that you like him. If he doesn't agree, then say "I know, she is so weird sometimes!"
hey i was wondering if this is kool to do this, im a guy and didnt know if it was "OK" to hit my girlfrinds ass, when i see em?
No, girls don't like it when you come up behind them and smack their ass. First of all, it kinda hurts, ya know? And it shows that you don't respect your girlfriend and just see her as a sex object. I would advise you not to do that anymore, or the relationship will not last long.
Today I was named captain of my school's cheerleading squad, which is really good until I realized that I have no idea what I am doing. This is the first time my school has had a real squad and if I mess it up they might not have it again. Someone suggested renting a video on cheering, does anyone else have ideas?
I heard that those CHEER videos are good (That's the title of them). I'm not sure where you live, but here in New York they have commercials for them a lot, and you can call in to order. You might be able to find them in stores though. And they come with free pom poms, what fun!
My friend "Liz" and her boyfriend "Lucas" never talk AT ALL. I hooked them up so this is my problem. He never has anything to say to her, and vise versa. He reallys likes her and i know she likes him. How do I get them talkin?
Signed,
A confused friend
Ask out a nice guy you know, and go on a double date with Liz and Lucas. With two couples, it may be easier to get a conversation started. If it doesn't work out, then Liz and Lucas wern't meant to be if they can't talk to each other.
I work there 3 days a week, and I get free meals, so I eat there rather than spend money somewhere else. I get tired of eating only salad, but when I do, I bring my own fat-free dressing from home. Sometimes, I add ham to my salad. On days when I work a long day, I get a lunch, so I get a personal size pizza with light cheese and vegatables only or ham or chicken and veggies. Is this ok to eat 3x's a week, or should I start bringing my own food from home? If so, what should I bring? There is a microwave there, but no place for me to eat but the main dining room, and I feel funny eating food that isn't from there in front of the customers. They also have sandwiches (chicken, ham or turkey with cheese and ranch dressing on them) So when I get one of those, I get light cheese and no dressing, and put my own fat-free dressing on them. The bread is like a french roll. I want to lose 30 lbs. Any advice?
It's not ok to eat pizza 3 times a week. You should only eat pizza about twice a month. Bring your lunch with you most of the time. If you want to eat pizza, pat it down with a napkin first to remove most of the grease. Doing that can cut out a third of the fat and calories. The sandwiches that the pizza place sells arn't bad, but go very light with the dressing, because it is very high fat. Try not to use any dressing if possible.
My friend told me that a guy at my school lift up girls shirts and feels their stuff! What should i do?
Stay away from him if you think its true and he seems like a creep. But if he is nice to you, then don't worry about it so much. You can't always believe everything you hear. If he touches you, report him.
my friend always touches me on the wrong places like my ass or my breasts n i dont know if he does it on purpose or not. he likes to jump on me n when i am laying its like he is trying to have sex with me but i tell him to stop and sometimes i think if i tell the teacher he is going to get mad or something. the thing is he broke up with his girlfriends for me n every1 thinks he likes me but i dont like him that way hes like a realli good friend but i dunno what to do
signed CoNfUsEd GuRl
If it keeps happening, then it is not an accident. It also means that he doesn't respect you. This guy is not your friend, he is just trying to hit on you. Stay away from him, he's a loser and he could hurt you. Or talk to him on the phone or instant messenger, where he won't be able to touch you.
iv always heard that when someone bites there nails constantly that they are nervous is this true????? i usually bite my nails a lot and it seems that when i do that im nervous ...is this just a saying or is it true???? becuz there is this boy i know and he is always bitig his nails like constantly whne i see him so does this mean he is nervous? HELP!
SINCERLEY.....
WONDERING ONE!
I bite my nails too when I am nervous. He probably is nervous around you. If you like him, you should go talk to him, because he may like you. Try not to bite your nails around him though.
me n mi friend letz call him bob r a little extra friendly. and everyone says we have sex at school. n i asked him out n he said yea but then we broke up...me n bob r like best friendz n we like talk about stuff n sometimes when were extra friendly i like it...iz there something wrong with me?
just the other day this kid said in front of me that i was going out with bob and bob came and he said i dont see u with a gurlfriend so did he say we were going out or what?
Just let people think what they want. It's ok to be friends with benefits, and since you and Bob arn't having sex, that's what you are. There's nothing wrong with it.
there are these two gurls that like me but i am going out with one of them but i like like them both and i don't now wat to do signed,confused guy
If you can't make up your mind about who you like, then you probably arn't mature enough for a relationship. Whatever you do, you can't be going out with one and flirt with the other.
What are the best foods to eat everyday when your at an amusement park. Can I eat burgers and fries
Really, you should bring your own food to an amusement park. None of it is really good for you. You can eat anything in moderation, but it means you will have to watch what you eat the rest of the day. For example, if you eat a burger at the amusement park, just have a salad or a bowl of soup for dinner.
My friend Amber is so annoying sometimes. This kid Michael, her boyfriend, thinks the same thing. What should we do.
Best Wishes
Jacob
If Amber starts bugging you, just say "Amber, just chill out. I'm trying to think and your getting on my nerves". Chances are, she'll stop.
My brother "phillip" who is 13 years old, is so evil to people that are handicpped and obese, So is my mom. My mom also goes gets drunk every night and leave my grandparents to take care of us. phillip can be nice sometimes if he gets his way. so what can i do to help my brother and my mom with their problems?
You need to tell your brother that if he doesn't stop being awful to other people, then you won't be seen in public with him. And your mom needs more help than you can give her. Talk to your grandparents about taking her to a psychologist. She is probably getting drunk to escape her problems.
There is this girl at my school whom I really like but she thinks I am a loser of some kind. I really want to ask her out. What should I do?
Don't change yourself to conform to what someone else likes. Believe me, it will never work. If she thinks you are a loser, then why do you like her so much? Because she's good looking? Find a girl who likes you for you, even if she is not the prettiest.
See, I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me . I don't want to ask him because, he's really proud and he can sometimes be a jerk . He's never been a jerk to me though, but one of my friends asked him if he liked me , and he supposedly called me ugly which lead to no . I have tried to get over him and at times I think I'm over him . So when I pay him no attention it's like he's paying me attention, and I totally get pulled back into liking maybe loving him because this has been going on for a year . Do you think maybe I have a chance with this guy . Do you think that I or maybe he is playing a game ? What should I do? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE IF I THINK ABOUT THIS ANY LONGER , I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING REALLY, REALLY STUPID .
This is practically the exact same thing that happened to me. If he is proud and a jerk, then he really isn't worth it. Plus, if you get turned down, he will probably tell everyone. If this has been going on for a year, you need to put a stop to it. The bottom line: If I were you, I wouldn't ask him out.
At first, this problem seems simple. In my Journalism class, we have a Journalism website. A girl in the class had 5 weeks to write her column. At the very last minute, she asks someone to write it for her. Simple solution for me, right? Just rat her out! Wrong. The girl who wrote the column for the slacker happens to be one of my friends--I sit next to her every day at lunch. What do I do? Do I rat her out, or just keep my peace?
Don't rat her out. Writing the column for the girl might have been the wrong thing to do, but is it hurting you? No. So just let it be and don't risk a great friendship. Another thing, maybe your friend didn't want to write the column, but the slacker bullied her into it somehow. Just a thought, but either way, don't tell.