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My brother "phillip" who is 13 years old, is so evil to people that are handicpped and obese, So is my mom. My mom also goes gets drunk every night and leave my grandparents to take care of us. phillip can be nice sometimes if he gets his way. so what can i do to help my brother and my mom with their problems?
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You seem to have a great heart on you even though your brother and mom do not. People that are obese and are handicapped are the same as you and I. We all have feeling's and hurt just like everyone else. your brother needs to talk to a school counselor. Maybe he's just acting out. As far as your mom, No child needs to grow up with that kind of lifestyle. Is it possible for you to stay at your granparents on a more permanent basis?
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first of all plz dont turn out like them. You can talk to ur brother and explain everyone is different is he carries on he will grow up to be a big bully and one day someone will put him in his place. You shouldnt take all this on byu urself ask for help from teachers or family members. Try talking to ur mum but hbe careful she may be set in her ways and u need advice but all u can do is try help ur brother and stay strong take care and lots of love
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You need to tell your brother that if he doesn't stop being awful to other people, then you won't be seen in public with him. And your mom needs more help than you can give her. Talk to your grandparents about taking her to a psychologist. She is probably getting drunk to escape her problems.
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I'm very sorry to hear that your mother and brother are like that.Your brother's condition is quite normal for his age, but you should still remind him that it is wrong to point fun at people just because they are different. He should learn some morals soon, so you don't have to worry about that too much. Puberty isn't always the best age. Your mother on the other hand, might need to get more help. She has to know that she can't always leave you with your grandparents because some day they might not be there for her. Consider talking to your mother when she is sober about the way you feel about what she does each night. She may reconsider her actions, but if she doesn't you might want to talk to your grandparents about it.
~Joce
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